5 Insightful Ways on How to Have a Private Relationship

A private relationship is either a romantic or platonic relationship that is discreet or confidential, as both individuals intentionally limit who knows about them and how much they present themselves in public. In a more casual term, it’s lowkey.

It differs from a secret relationship, wherein it may hold negative intentions and also remains unknown to as many people as possible. A private relationship can work out with proper boundaries and proceed at your own pace, free from external pressures. Let’s further get into this topic through this short guide down below. Happy reading!

1 Establish social media boundaries.

In this time and age, the easiest way to know about someone or anyone’s relationship is through the web. In terms of a private relationship, you decide how much or little you want to reveal online. Boundaries, baby! They protect you and your partner from potential harm.

Examples that you use to reveal or showcase your private relationship include:

1. Hand-holding
2. Food on the table while on a date
3. A masked mirror selfie
4. Movie tickets with drinks
5. Netflix and Chill

Feel free to get creative here! What matters is you reveal with what you’re comfortable with and refrain from sharing the more intimate side or posting regularly. You should still keep certain details to yourselves.

2 Keep your circle small.

A private relationship involves only a select few individuals who are aware of it. It also means less external pressure, fewer (but valid) opinions, and more intimacy because you shared something very meaningful in your life.

With that in mind, be conscious and certain with the people you choose to reveal your private relationship to. And ensure they don’t tell anyone else!

3 Communicate clearly.

Just like any relationship, effective communication is essential to express your thoughts and concerns and stay aligned with each other. In terms of being private, it’s important to check in with each other about your rules and expectations related to it. Did we tell the right people about us? Is there anything else we need to add? How can we enhance our intimacy while being private?

Ensure to be respectful and understanding when talking to each other, mindful of each other’s comfort levels as well. That would then influence how you communicate and discuss your private relationship with others.

4 Value your quality time.

Privacy is a gift, so use it wisely. Prioritize private moments together, from dates to staying in during the night or even the quiet moments in the morning before work kicks in. All while disregarding your gadgets, other people, and tasks, even for a bit.

Not only is this tip a type of love language, but it strengthens your trust and bond with each other.

5 Stay consistent with your privacy rules.

Whatever rules and boundaries you’ve set with your partner during the start of your relationship, stick to them. If you both choose not to share something about your relationship, keep it that way. If you’re both okay with a mini glance at your relationship online (e.g., interlaced pinkies), then post it. 

Any sort of mixed signals between you two can create confusion and even tension if left unaddressed. Plus, those in your circle and even out of it may get the wrong impression of your relationship status.

Takeaway

A private relationship prioritizes peace and intimacy between two partners who simultaneously want to keep things to themselves and share some highlights with a chosen few. As long as they communicate their needs, discuss their boundaries, and consistently honor them, they’ll maintain a healthy and strong bond. But don’t forget to prioritize quality time and choosing the right people to know about your relationship!

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