Curious About the ‘Coconut’ Move? Here’s How You Can Master It

Valentine’s Day is just around the corner, and if things get steamy after your date night, why not switch things up with a simple sex move? No need for toys or props—move those hips and spell ‘Coconut.’

This naughty trick went viral a few years ago—but it’s making waves again as TikTok personalities like @ashrhianna and @kirsten.morley have posted videos about it. Despite being memed upon, many social media testimonials validate this move, with many claiming their partners loved it. So, if you’re curious and want to surprise your boo on Valentine’s Day or any other night, here’s what you need to know.

What is the “Coconut” Method?

The coconut method was first mentioned in a Kenyan Facebook group, Kilimani Mums Udaku Zone KMUZ. One user asked how riding on top or in a cowgirl position works. Other users replied: “Write the word COCONUT with your waist…” The comment quickly became a joke and eventually reached other social media platforms.

The coconut method is a move exclusively done in the cowgirl position, where the female partner is on top, sliding her vagina back and forth against the male partner. Instead of the usual back-and-forth motion, you move your hips in a circular pattern, spelling out “coconut” in cursive.

This technique feels pleasurable for the receiver because it provides a more intricate massage than the typical up-and-down bounce. It also offers a visually appealing, dance-like hip movement—plus, there are even more reasons why this move is worth trying.

How to Try the Coconut Method

1. Get into the cowgirl position. Ask your partner to lie on their back while
   you straddle them. Gently slide your vagina onto their penis.
2. Start with regular thrusting. Begin with the classic up-and-down or in-and-out motion, keeping the pace steady to find your rhythm.
3. Transition to the coconut move. Once you’re in the groove, move your hips in a circular motion, spelling out “c-o-c-o-n-u-t” in cursive style. If possible, combine this with back-and-forth movements.
4. Increase the pace. Keep spelling it out, gradually picking up speed until you’re ready to switch positions or your partner reaches the big O.

Tips

Wanna amp up this steamy move? Here are some tips to check out:

1You can spell other words— the key is to keep your hips swirling!

You don’t have to stick to spelling out “coconut” to make your partner squirm with delight. You can repeat just “coco” or even try spelling the alphabet—whatever keeps your hips swirling! The key is maintaining circular hip movements while thrusting in and out of your partner’s hard-on.

2Press your upper body against theirs.

One of the best things about the coconut move (and cowgirl in general) is the intimacy it offers. Lean your upper body toward your partner and steal kisses on their lips, forehead, cheek, or neck. Letting your upper bodies touch also adds that extra layer of skinship for a more sensual experience.

3Use a couple vibrator for shared pleasure.

Another great way to amp up this sex move is by incorporating a couple vibrator. This c-shaped toy has a slim shaft, allowing the penis to be inserted even when worn in the vagina. It stimulates the clitoris, G-spot, and penis simultaneously, delivering intensely pleasurable sensations as you ride your partner. Just a heads-up—this might have you reaching the big O in record time!

Takeaway

The coconut move is definitely a fun addition to your sexual repertoire, something to use not just on special occasions but during your regular sexcapades as well.

However, remember that not every move will work for you and your partner. If you find this one confusing or awkward, don’t sweat it! There are plenty of other sex positions and pleasure techniques to explore that can spark just as much excitement.