15 Suction Cup Dildo Positions & Techniques For Hands-Free Play!

So you’ve finally decided to get yourself the toy of your dreams: the suction cup dildo. The one you told yourself you’d buy first if you ever decide to pursue being a porn star. But you didn’t pursue doing homemade videos of yourself getting down and dirty.  You’re stuck being a goody-two-shoes. But it’s okay. You now have your very own suction cup dildo, and with all the positions you can do with it?  It’s more than you ever dreamed it would be.

Now, the question is, “where do I mount this so I can finally say ‘look ma, no hands!”? Well, you came to the right place. If you’re a beginner in suction dildos, there’s no better place to learn them than here. We’ll teach you the best places to stick them, and how to maximize the pleasure without really needing to do back-breaking acrobatics.

Why You Need to Try Using Suction Cup Dildos

There are plenty of benefits in using these sex toy staples! Learn all about these advantages in the list below:

1 It’s perfect for lazy people!

We’ve all been there. Sometimes, we’re just too lazy to do anything. We just wanna be pleased without moving a muscle. I feel you. With suction cup dildos, our fantasies are now a reality. We can get pleased without moving that much. We can just stick ‘em and fuck ‘em. It’s that simple!

2 Suction cup dildos are great for hands-free play!

With some, if not most, sex toys, you’ll need to insert and retract the toy to enjoy it (alone or with a partner.) This is the case with most dildos. You use it for some do-it-yourself fun so you have to insert it, twist and turn it inside to maximize the pleasure. And this is fine. This is a great way to enjoy dildos but sometimes, we just want a little more natural. Something we can use in place of a man’s dick without needing to hold it all the time in and out of you. This is where suction cup dildos win our hearts.

We don’t need to use hands to enjoy it. We just stick it to any number of surfaces – locked doors, toilet bowls, floors, chairs, seemingly anywhere is a good place to get fucked with a suction cup dildo. You just stick it, jump on it, and then ride it to paradise!

3 You can use it with other toys!

In case you haven’t heard, most women don’t orgasm from penetration alone. Majority of women need some form of clitoral stimulation to reach their climax. As such, women need a variety or a combination of insertion and clitoral stimulation. With real dicks, that can be hard (lmao did you see what I did there) since they can only do the penetration part. But with suction cup dildos, you’re doing some hands-free fun so you can use your free hand to treat your clit for a ride.  With a suction cup dildo, you can just position it on any surface of your choice. Then, you can use your other hands for any additional stimulation you want. Fondle your breasts or use bullet vibes with your dildo. The world is your oyster! You can mix and match everything however you want!

4 It perfectly mimics a penis, giving you a realistic feel!

With so many toys available in the market, you can choose what type of feel you want for your toys. That’s the case for vibrators and other dildos. But with suction cups, most often than not, they’re made from realistic material. They’re made to look and feel real to imitate the real thing. Some suction cups are rigid, others are soft but most of them have realistic textures to capture that “authentic” feeling of getting penetrated.

5 Suction cup dildos are the perfect practice partners.

Remember when we were virgins and had no experience when it comes to sex and whatsoever and we’d practice our first kiss on our arms? Yep. Suction cup dildos are like that. We want to be the best lovers that we can be. We want to please our partners until they orgasm. But at the same time, we’re also human. We also want to know what pleases us and how we can be pleased the best. With suction cup dildos, you’re free to experiment with different moves and thrusts. You can just stick them on any kind of surface and you can ride them whenever and however you want. Not only can you practice, but you’ll also enjoy yourself in the process!

Best Suction Cup Dildo Positions

There actually three ways to position suction cup dildos: vertical, horizontal, diagonal (yes, you read that right, diagonal!). Out of three, you have to try horizontal and diagonal. You don’t have to try hard to keep your balance with these two. You will be able to easily bend or arch, without toppling over. The vertical is also good but if you’re a beginner, you might feel like you’ll need a harness to fuck yourself properly. To give you more tips and tricks, here are some ideas:

1 Cowgirl Position

How to do it: As the illustration suggests, this is a diagonal dildo position. Simply mount it on a comfortable level where you can squat like an ab bench, and then fuck yourself standing doggy style. You can also try doing a cowgirl position in this one, as there will be no hassle to how you will position your legs on either side.

2 Doggy Style

How to do it: The most common of all, even in masturbation porn. This seems like a pretty easy position until you finally do it yourself. It is a very comfortable position for your palms and knees, but really quite difficult when you’re adjusting to your hole’s level. My suggestion: stick the suction cup dildo in your vagina or ass first, and then stick it on the board while it’s still inside you. This way, it will be on the perfect height once you start humping on your own. Think of it as the “stick the tail to the donkey” kind of game, while trying to find the comfortable height.

Do note, that although it looks really easy on porn, it actually feels really tricky when you’re already humping the suction cup dildo. You have to find the right stance in doggy, as well as the right force in humping, or else, you’ll find yourself toppling down your bed, as if you got pushed from your ass. Remember Newton’s third law: every action has an equal and opposite reaction. So however hard you hump with your butt, that’s how hard you’ll be pushed forward, too.

3 The Baptism

How to do it: This one is fairly easy, as the only thing you’ll do is glide. What you do is stick the suction cup dildo on the inside-side of the bathtub, leveling your hole. Once it is mounted, you can finally let it slide its way in and out of you, while you are submerged in warm bath water, and bubbles. This one would probably remind you of all the times you did it with someone in the bathtub or pool. This time though, you’re finally going to climax (lol).

4 The 45-degree angle

How to do it: Once the suction cup dildo is mounted, kneel one knee on the floor and prop the other on the sofa seat and start fucking. You can do this position and practice your twerking skills. Make sure, like the doggy style, that you find your right balance and force here. While it may give good traction and groove on your genitals, this could also hurt you if you won’t be careful. I should give a warning that stretching would be a good thing before trying this position, as it can easily give you cramps, depending on how deep you thrust.

5 The Octopussy

How to do it: This is probably the most convenient of all. No need for anything except the suction cup dildo itself. Just prop it up the floor and saddle. Support your leg sprawl with your palms and imitate an octopus while thrusting.

6 Standing Deep Thrusts

How to do it: Deep thrusts are what a lot of people think you always have to do with a dildo and they aren’t really that wrong, deep thrusts feel amazing. Deep thrusting consists of pushing the dildo all the way in and bringing it out again, starting slowly and working your way up to a quick motion. This stimulates the G-spot, A-spot and with the right motion will get you on your way to achieve a g-spot orgasm. Some people also like to play between deep thrusts and shallow thrusts, combining the two feels incredible.

7The Bounce House

How to do it: Give yourself a little something during oral with a suction-cup-equipped dildo attached to a smooth floor or a shower/tub. Get on your knees and sit on your bonus lover while you give oral to your human lover. Bounce as you go and you can.

8The Dog and Bone 

How to do it: Harness up in a strap-on to muck about with gender identities, power, and learning to be the penetrator instead of the penetrated. It’s also just kinda fun to wear a dick. Go all in and have your partner give you a blow job, then put them on all fours and service them from behind.

9The Double Header 

How to do it: If you’ve got a couple holes to fill, break out a double-headed dildo. You and a partner get on your hands and knees, butt to butt, with one end in each of you, and rock back onto it. You can also use the dildos for anal to anal or mix ’n’ match for one side anal and one vaginally. If you need more stimulation, a buzzy toy or hand on your clit makes it all make sense.

10Mirror, Mirror

How to do it: Attaching a suction cup dildo to a mirror is just like suctioning it to the wall. It can be extremely arousing seeing yourself going at it so look back at it fondly or put a mirror in front of you to do the old double mirror trick you used to do when cutting the back of your hair. The only thing you’ll need to consider is how sturdy the mirror is, you know yourself how crazy things can get when you’re getting down to business. So, be careful when attaching your suction cup dildo to a mirror.

Different Techniques To Enjoy Your Suction Cup Dildo

Knowing the suction cup dildo positions won’t be enough without knowing the different techniques! Add more to your suction cup dildo know-how with these techniques:

1Milking The G-spot

Milking the G-spot is all about running the dildo across the top of the inside of your vagina and thrusting enough so that you stimulate your G-spot in short sharp bursts. This motion is how I achieve squirting orgasms, by being persistent and keeping the same motion going. Your G-spot isn’t hard to find, just angle your dildo up towards your bladder and apply pressure there with each thrust.

2Strap On Harness

Attaching a suction cup dildo to a strap on harness means you can use it anyway you want with a partner! In any room, any position, any angle and any suction cup dildo. Just pick your favourite suction cup dildo that pairs with the specific harness and the world is your hoister.

3Double Stimulation

Double stimulation is great and one of the most popular techniques, although it can get tiresome and requires some practice. Stimulate your clitoris with your fingers or a vibrator and use your other hand to thrust the dildo inside of you or if yours is like mine with the suction cup you can easily ride it.

4Rotating The Dildo

Rotating the dildo is another great way to use your dildo and a technique many women use. Begin by inserting like normal and at the point of your G-spot begin twisting the dildo for awesome internal stimulation. Rotating the dildo is a great teaser and always gets my pussy aroused and ready to cum. You can also try inserting the dildo and twist at the entrance and then thrust it in when you feel ready.

5 Butt Plug Play

You can simulate a threesome with a dildo, butt plug and optionally a real penis. You can give an oral to your partner while riding your suction cup dildo and keeping a vibrating butt plug if you’re on the adventurous side or you’re someone who enjoys multiple stimulations at once!

Frequently Asked Questions

Playing with suction cup dildos can be super fun but we also get that you have more questions about this amazing sex toy staple. See our FAQ below as we answer the common questions about these great toys:

1Can I use a dildo with my partner?

Yes! Using dildos can spice up the bedroom, as long as you’ve communicated it properly with your partner. Some men might find dildos intimidating as they think their dicks are not enough to satisfy their partners. With that, it’s best to reassure your partner that using dildos is just for a fun way to amp your sexperiences. Also, there are dildos that are designed for couples, so you might want to check that out.

3Should I use a condom with my suction cup dildo?

There’s a risk for STI transmission even when you’re having sex using a dildo. That’s true for STIs that spread through body fluids, such as chlamydia and gonorrhea, and also for those that are transmitted via skin-to-skin contact, like human papillomavirus. So just like when you’re having sex without toys, safety is key. We suggest you use a new condom every time you go from being penetrated to doing the penetrating (and vice versa), as well as every time you switch from using a dildo anally to vaginally. The latter helps protect you from getting a urinary tract infection or a vaginal infection by making sure you’re not spreading bacteria from your butt to your urethra or vagina.

4What should I do if I don’t like how the dildo feels?

If a certain technique isn’t working for you, don’t stress about it. Remember, different strokes for different folks. Even if various blogs about how to use a dildo suggest deep thrusting, it’s okay to not like it and try a different method. Just take some time to learn your own body and see what works best for you when playing a dildo. Also, if your partner doesn’t like to use a dildo, don’t pressure them on liking it. Let them discover the joys of using this sultry toy on their own and just use other sex toys instead.

5Should I use lube when playing with my dildo?

When playing with just about any kind of sex toy, you should make sure to have some lube handy, just in case.

And when playing with a dildo of any size, it’s a good rule of thumb to put a good deal of lube on the toy first, as well as on your vaginal or anal opening. Playing with dildos without using lubricant of any kind isn’t just uncomfortable, it can also be dangerous. Without sufficient lubrication, you could be risking internal tearing.

Takeaway

In case you’re still not an owner of any suction cup dildo, now might be the best time to rethink your choices. Suction cup dildos provide the best hands-free experience when it comes to your bedroom play. And knowing the different suction cup dildo positions and techniques can make playtime super fun! Plus, they look and feel like a real thing. Remember, you can position suction cup dildos anywhere if you’re just adventurous enough.