Swaddling Sex: Get Ready for Sweet Bindin’ With This Position!

Found yourself in a sensual mood before bedtime with your boo? We think it’s time to level up your cuddle session with swaddling sex. This kind of sexual act will keep you connected: body to body, skin to skin!

If you’re up for an exciting [and erotic!] moment during sleep time, swaddling sex might be the thrill you’ve been seeking. Scroll down as we discuss this act, how to do it, and some tips and tricks to remember so you won’t be lost during the lock-in (get it?).

Swaddling Sex and its Benefits

Swaddling sex, also known as a sleeping/sex position hybrid, offers a unique and intimate experience for couples who enjoy deep physical and emotional connection. In this position, partners engage in vaginal or anal penetration while falling asleep together, creating an intimate bond that extends throughout the night.

While swaddling sex may not be suitable for everyone, particularly those who prefer personal space during sleep, it holds significant appeal for those who cherish the idea of being closely intertwined with their partner. By engaging in long, slow, and lazy sex throughout the night, couples can maintain a continuous feeling of closeness and intimacy that strengthens their bond and enhances their relationship.

However, it’s essential to acknowledge that swaddling sex may not be suitable for everyone. Some individuals may find being physically connected throughout the night uncomfortable or restrictive, particularly if they value their personal space during sleep. Additionally, physical comfort and compatibility play a significant role in the success of swaddling sex, and partners should communicate openly and honestly about their preferences and boundaries before attempting this position.

But beyond the thrill and sensuality, this position offers a myriad of benefits. First, it fosters a deep sense of intimacy and trust between partners. Second, it allows for a more exquisite sensation and heightened pleasure, given that this is another way to elevate your bedroom plays. And finally, it encourages communication and vulnerability. As this type of act might be new to you, communicating with your partner about your comfort and consent to continue should be a must.

Variations of Swaddling Sex

Ready for some leveled-up cuddling? Here are a couple of ways to do swaddling sex:

1Spoon Swaddle

Of course, most of us are aware of the spooning position, so this is undoubtedly one of the easiest positions to do swaddling sex.

To do this, proceed with the spooning position: the penetrating partner is the big spoon, while the receiver takes the smaller spoon. The penetrating partner should be able to penetrate the receiving partner easily through this position by pushing in their penis (or a harness), hugging, and eventually falling asleep. You may also add a few thrusts here and there while you’re at it.

2Hugging Marathon

If you need more time with the basic skin-to-skin position, try the hugging [marathon] position.

In this position, you’ll need to face each other and hug. Find a comfortable position to stay relaxed before and during penetration. Do not rush yourselves into pushing the penis inside, and prioritize your comfort. When done, you and your partner are also a bit more free to move in this position, just as long as you keep each other’s waist and hips together to avoid removal of the penis from the genital. Besides the pleasurable delight of penetration, take the time to appreciate each other’s company, body to body, eye to eye.

You can also incorporate bedding and props into swaddling sex. This could involve using extra blankets or pillows to create a cozy nest or incorporating sensual accessories such as silk sheets or massage oils to heighten the experience.

3All Cupped Up

Not all couples may feel comfortable or interested in engaging in penetrative sex while falling asleep. Some prefer to cuddle or make out instead, maintaining that physical closeness without the pressure of intercourse. However, if you still want an option to add sex to your sleepy nights, here’s another way to ease yourself into swaddling sex without having to try pushing the male genitals or a harness inside you.

Elevate your sleepy cuddle sesh by sleeping naked with each other, then cup each other’s genitals. You can also try masturbating before sleeping by fingering each other or giving a hand job.

Additional Tips

Before diving headfirst into swaddling sex, it’s essential to take some time to prepare both physically and mentally. Here are a few tips to ensure a smooth and enjoyable experience:

1Communicate.

Open and honest communication is the foundation of any successful sexual encounter, and swaddling sex is no exception. Take the time to talk to your partner before, during, and after the experience, and listen attentively to their needs.

2Set a sensual mood.

Create a comfortable and inviting space in which to explore your desires. Consider incorporating dimmed lights, lighting some candles, or playing soft music to create an atmosphere of relaxation and sensuality.

3Add sex toys or other things to the experience.

Incorporating toys or other accessories into your play. Add more pillows, and throw in a comfy blanket to enhance the sensation of being wrapped up in each other’s arms. If you want to add thrill to it, add a sex toy such as lay-on vibrators, couple vibrators, or cock rings (but do not leave these on your genitals throughout the night!). Don’t be afraid to let your imagination run wild and try out new things.

4Take it slow.

There’s no rush when it comes to swaddling sex. Warm each other up by doing foreplay to keep each other aroused. The key is communication, as there will be cases where the penetrator can also experience getting softer or unaroused. With this, do not feel embarrassed; instead, communicate with your partner if you wish to continue.

Take your time to savor each moment and explore the sensations as they arise. Please pay attention to your partner and check in regularly to ensure they feel comfortable and enjoy themselves.

5Don’t forget the Aftercare!

As this sexual act takes longer than usual, soothing aftercare should be done after. Aftercare means cleaning each other up, cuddling, or eating after. Whichever you prefer, ensure that aftercare will help you relax and show affection to yourself and your partner.

Takeaway

Swaddling sex is undeniably a playful and exhilarating way to connect with your partner on a deeper level. By embracing closeness and vulnerability, partners can create a deep and lasting bond that can help couples discover pleasure and intimacy.

While this sex position may not be for everyone, it can be a deeply satisfying for those who value intimacy and connection. So, if you’re going to try swaddling sex, remember these four points: 1) Communicate, 2) Set the Mood, 3) Take it Slow, and 4) Have fun. Happy cuddling!