Disclaimer: This article discusses ethical corruption kink, which means all parties involved are consenting adults. In no way, shape, or form do we promote grooming or accept adults who “hunt” young individuals. Again, this kink should only be done by adults, and all activities must be agreed upon. Contact the authorities immediately if you’ve encountered someone who claims to be doing this kink but is actually grooming minors.
Do you find yourself more sexually attracted to innocent-looking peeps? Do you like guiding someone during sex? Does the idea of making your partner wilder excites you? Chances are, you’re into corruption play. Find out about this kink and see how you can safely engage in it in this beginner’s guide.
What is Corruption Kink?
Corruption kink involves a person teaching their innocent partner about the pain and pleasures of sex. They’re turned on when meeting someone who seems innocent and would often think of getting sexual with them. They get off to seeing their naive lover turn into a sensual beast or vixen. You may also have this kink, but you’re on the receiving end; you prefer a partner that would “corrupt” you and help you unleash your wild side.
There’s no specific origin of this kink. It was first mentioned on sluttyten.tumblr.com, wherein Bea (user behind the account) defined it as:
“A corruption kink is like when the person gets off on the idea of corrupting the other person. That could mean that they simply think it would be really hot to go around taking virginities, or it could be like taking a person who’s innocent (maybe a virgin or maybe not) and teaching them all about sex, doing kinky stuff with them.”
This kink is also used as tags for fanfic websites, such as archive of our own, wherein writers tend to go wild with their fics.
For those who just heard about this term and are wondering if they have this kink, here are some of the signs you should look into.
- You find innocent-looking people hotter than sexy people. (For example, you prefer getting sensual with a geeky, awkward guy rather than someone with a “bad boy” persona.)
- The idea of guiding or teaching someone about sex turns you on.
- You’re turned on with the idea of taking someone’s virginity or being someone’s sexual awakening.
Keep in mind that we’ve only listed some of the common signs. Not everyone who enjoys this kink may have all of the attributes above.
Corruption Kink Play Ideas
After learning about this kink, some of you are probably interested in trying this out with your partner. Don’t worry if you’re unsure about how to get started, as we’ve listed some ideas below.
1Challenge your partner to try something new.
If your partner has agreed to this kink, we recommend challenging your partner to try new sexual moves. For instance, if your partner doesn’t like to swallow, you can ask them to try it. The challenges should be kinkier as time goes on, such as doing anal play or bondage.
2Teach them to play with a new sex toy.
Another way to “corrupt” your partner is by giving them a new pleasure toy and guiding them on how to use it. If your partner has never tried a love toy before, you can go with the classics such as vibrators, dildos, and masturbators.
To spice things up, try doing a sex toy salesperson and a naive customer roleplay. One would be the innocent customer chilling in their house, while the other would play the sleazy sex toy salesperson.
The sales rep will knock on the door and present a collection of pleasure toys. The innocent one would be curious about it, so they allowed the salesperson to enter their home for a demo. It would then lead to a steamy session in which the innocent one would experience their “first” orgasm.
3Try “first-time” roleplay.
Roleplaying and corruption kink go well together, as you’ll be able to come up with scenarios involving “corrupting” your partner. You can ask your partner to pretend that it’s their first time having sex while you’re the expert that’ll guide them every step of the way.
4Have a guided masturbation session.
Another corruption kink idea you should try is guiding your partner’s masturbation session. You can do this in person or through the phone. Spice it up by asking your partner to pretend that they’ve never masturbated before. You can also incorporate love toys such as app-controlled vibrators, masturbators, etc.
If you want to unleash your partner’s wildest side, you can try BDSM, which stands for Bondage and Discipline, Dominance and Submission, Sadism, and Masochism.
It’s basically a power play between two parties. One is dominant, while the other one is submissive. The dominant will be the one giving sexual or kinky demands, while the submissive must follow them. If the sub fails to follow certain demands, the dom can “punish” their partner through spanking, whipping, orgasm control, and other related activities.
Remember that every activity between the sub and dom is agreed upon beforehand; discussing desires and boundaries must occur before your first session.
BDSM play is a great gateway to corruption kink, as you can demand your partner to try kinky things, such as bondage, anal play, impact play, temperature play, and other related activities.
6Go for the angel-devil roleplay.
Another roleplaying scenario you can incorporate into this kink is the angel-devil roleplay. As the name implies, one would be the innocent angel, while the other is the menacing devil. The devil will seduce the angel to the pleasures of sex, on which the angel would end up giving in to their temptations. Make sure to grab a few sets of sexy costumes for an immersive experience.
7Get all-out dirty… with words.
If your partner isn’t ready to try unconventional sexual activities or roleplay, you can go with something milder, like dirty talking. You can teach your partner to say sleazy lines or curse during sex; you can even come up with a challenge wherein the person who gets to say the wildest line wins. Enjoy watching them moan and cuss their hearts out!
8Watch erotic videos together, particularly with activities or kink they don’t know about.
Another “mild” activity you can try is watching porn together. The only catch is you’ll be watching sexual activities that your partner has never seen before. For example, if they’ve never seen anal sex or bondage play, you can opt for those videos. It’s also a great way to encourage them to try new things in the bedroom since they’ll get to see how fun it is through those videos.
9Go for a sex doll-owner roleplay.
Another corruption-themed roleplaying idea is a sex doll and owner scenario. Ask your partner to pretend that they’re a newly-opened sex doll. They wouldn’t talk or react to everything you would do to their bodies. Make sure to discuss your partner’s limits and establish a non-verbal or verbal safeword; it’s a word or signal that automatically ceases the session.
10If you’re in a cuckold setup or open relationship, ask and watch them have sex with someone else.
If you have a non-monogamous setup, you can try this one out. Instead of being the one corrupting your partner, you can let someone else do it. Watch your partner unleash their wild self with their partner. You can also join in the fun and have a three-way! (as long as it’s agreed upon by all parties).
Tips Before Doing This Kink
After learning the different ways to engage in corruption kink, some of you are probably excited to try some of the activities. But before you do that, ensure a comfortable experience by following the tips below.
1Keep it ethical.
This isn’t even a tip— it’s a requirement. If you want to engage in this kink, do it with a consenting adult. Don’t seek minors or naive adults to “corrupt” their innocence. Don’t also start befriending a minor with the hopes of “corrupting” them once they turn legal age; this is grooming, a form of child abuse. Keep minors away from your kinks. Get professional help, or you’ll find yourself in jail soon.
2Communicate with your partner.
Communication is a vital step in every sexual activity. Aside from getting your partner’s consent, having an in-depth discussion with your partner will help you set up the ground rules, limits, and safeword (if needed).
3Take it slow.
When trying out new sexual activities to “corrupt” your partner. It’s important to take things slow. For example, don’t go with anal sex yet if your partner has never tried anal play before. Go with rimming or anal fingering first, then eventually encourage your partner to try anal sex or pegging.
4Incorporate other kinks or sexual activities.
What’s great about corruption kink is that you can easily mix it with other kinks such as roleplay, BDSM, and the like. So go ahead and experiment! Get some props and sexy costumes to amp up your kinky plays.
5Experiment with pleasure toys.
Aside from getting props and sultry costumes, we highly recommend using love toys. As mentioned earlier, if your partner has never tried pleasure devices before, you can go with the basics such as dildos, masturbators, and vibrators. However, if they already own those toys, go for unconventional or kinky ones such as whips, paddles, anal plugs, anal vibrators, nipple clamps, anal beads, and other related toys.
Frequently Asked Questions
Still have questions? Don’t worry, as we’ve answered some of the common queries about corruption kink below.
1What’s the difference between corruption play and grooming?
Corruption play involves consenting adults in which the person makes their seeming innocent partner engage in wild sexual plays. On the other hand, grooming is a form of abuse wherein the perpetrator befriends a minor intending to manipulate them into getting a relationship once the said minors turn legal age.
2My partner is interested in this kink, but I don’t want it. What should I do?
Just be honest and tell them you’re not into it. They’ll surely understand if your partner does love you. You shouldn’t compromise your comfort for the sake of pleasing your partner. Just be careful with the tone and approach to avoid further conflicts.
3What’s the difference between corruption kink and bondage?
Bondage is a kink that involves restraining a partner with a rope, handcuffs, scarf, or other restraint devices. Meanwhile, corruption kink involves roleplaying, wherein a person “corrupts” their partner by introducing them to different sexual acts, sex toys, etc.
4Why do people enjoy corruption kink?
It depends on the person. However, this kink can be correlated with BDSM or power play, wherein an individual gets off to the idea of controlling someone.
5How should I tell my partner that I’m into corruption play?
You can simply tell them, preferably in person. You can also start by sharing guides such as this and see if they’re interested or appalled with it. If they seem curious, you can discuss it further, but if they’re 100% not into it, you may want to step back.
But again, your partner may become more open to it once you’ve further explained the kink. You can still tell them that you’re interested in trying corruption play. Keep your expectations realistic, and don’t hold it against them if they’re not interested in trying it out.
And that concludes our beginner’s guide! We’ve already mentioned this, but it’s crucial to communicate with your partner when doing sensual activities on the “dark” side, such as corruption kink.
Also, if you’re simply not into this activity, there is no need to force yourself to do it; there’s nothing wrong with preferring vanilla activities. Having fun and healthy sex life isn’t determined by how kinky you are. What matters is that everyone involved in your sexcapades is having fun. Click here for more kinky guides.