How to Use a Vibrator So You Can Get the Most Out of It

In the world of adult toys, the vibrators take the sweet spot among women’s favorites. They’ve come a long way from their initial purpose. Did you know that during the Victorian era, doctors use them to ‘cure women’s hysteria?’ Nowadays, vibrators can make you scream and moan but not because of some “wandering womb” sickness. If you know how to use a vibrator right, you’ll be rewarded not with hysteria but euphoria.

Vibrators don’t just vibrate. They can also come in unique functions such as temperature control, voice control, remote app control, and even an online community where users can talk about their experiences with the toy. But with all these innovations, women out there sometimes get confused on how to use a vibrator, especially the beginners.

And as always, we’re here to help. We want you to level up on your O game and know the difference between just simply turning your vibrator on and turning yourself on with it. Whether you’re a beginner or an experienced user, you can get a lot of takeaways with our best tips on how you can get the most out of your vibrator.

1Realize that your vibrator is built for your pleasure

First and foremost, your vibrator is built for your pleasure, a.k.a. for you to reach your orgasm. And all those added features are created with that basic premise in mind. No matter what other functions your vibe has, don’t get intimidated by it. Keep in mind that it’s only there to help you make your orgasms more powerful.

2Understand that using a vibe is totally normal

There’s no need for you to beat yourself up for wanting to use a vibrator in bed. You’re not a freak of nature for that. Sex is healthy and common throughout a person’s lifespan. And just like with every other area, we also seek for improvement in our sex lives. Think of vibrators as tools that help us with sexual development. If you’re using it for solo play, you’re exploring yourself by figuring out what feels good for your body. And if you’re using it for couple play, you’re building trust with your partner and doing it in a fun and playful way, which makes the relationship grow stronger.

3Figure out what type of vibrator fits your lifestyle

There’re way too many vibrators out in the market nowadays. You have to put into consideration what is it that you want out of your vibrator, so you don’t end up buying the wrong thing. If you want to know how to use a vibrator and make the most out of it, do your research on the types of vibrators first. You have to take note of its different functions, design, price range, and even its size, whether they fit your lifestyle or not.

4Set a sexy mood

It’s easier to do the sexy when the mood is right. Why not dim the lights, play music in the background, or light a scented candle? If you’re with your partner, you can give each other sensual massages in your sensitive areas to get the mood going.

5Get yourself turned on

The vibrations may only end up feeling uncomfortable for you if you’re not actually turned on. So you better take the time to work yourself to an aroused point. Whatever it is that gets you turned on, do it. Whether it’s fantasizing about Jason Momoa or watching lesbian porn, you do you, girl.

 

6Touch yourself in the most inappropriate ways

Once you feel yourself getting excited, let those hands roam. If you’re doing it alone, you can run your vibrator in a circular motion on your nipples, then pinch, grab and squeeze them. Touch yourself over your shorts, then slip your hands inside and tease yourself. If it’s a couple play, ask your partner to use the vibrator on your tits, grope then suck them while his hands are roaming your most sensitive areas.

7Lube makes everything better

You don’t want the shaft of your sex toy to tug or catch on your skin. Especially if you plan on using it on your anus. So if you aren’t as wet as you want to be, there’s always lube to help your vibrator glide inside you smoothly. And just to add some thrill, why not use flavored lube in your sexy playtimes? There’s a variety of fruit-flavored lube. Our best pics are the cherry, apple, and strawberry flavors.

8Play with your vibrator’s different functions and settings

Familiarize yourself with the different vibration intensities and speed of your vibrator, as well as its other functions. Is it remote-controlled? If it is, then you can play with it in public. Does it have a heating system? Then that’s even better. You can have your vaginal muscles feel all warm inside. If you stick to high intensity all the time, you may experience clitoral numbness. So switch up the vibrations and speed and go from soft to hard, fast to slow.

9Experiment with edging

Edging is when you reach close to orgasm but stopping only to get back to teasing yourself or your partner. It’s a fun way to experiment with your vibrator. You can do it again and again until you’re in a lust-filled phase where you’re super sensitive, and a mere touch can make you burst.

 

Are you ready to get good vibes?

With these tips, you’re on your way to learning how to use vibrators and make the most of it! If you’re a beginner, start slow. Use it in a pace and rhythm that works for you because no one is rushing you. Don’t forget to clean it before and after use. Cleanliness is still more important than kinkiness. Always remember that!

With a vibrator, you got a trusty BFF to give you the best times in bed. But just like in any budding friendship, you actually have to give each other some time to bond and get to know each other. Play with the different patterns and have a blast while doing it!