Sex Bucket List: 101 Saucy Quests That You Should Try

As we kick off into the new year, some peeps may have added “bringing more excitement in the bedroom” as part of their New Year’s resolution. If you’re one of those folks, you just came to the right guide. Break free from monotonous sex by creating your own sex bucket list!

And if you’re looking for ideas on what to put on that bucket list, no worries, as we’ve listed 101 sexual activities that you can do for the next few years. Some are pretty simple, while others are downright daring. Grab your notepad, as you’ll be listing tons of exciting activities.

Sex Bucket List for Individuals

Being single doesn’t mean you should stop exploring your sensual side. In fact, you’ve got more opportunities to experiment since you don’t necessarily have to comply with someone else’s specific sexual preferences. Whether you’re into casual encounters or a self-pleasure connoisseur, here are some of the sexual acts to add to your sex bucket list.

1. Dive into a spontaneous one-night stand.
2. Have sex with an adult that has a big age gap with you.
3. Explore anal fingering.
4. Try to stimulate the “a-spot.”
5. Hook up with two or more people.
6. Take pole dancing classes.
7. Order a sex toy that you swore you’d never try, like nipple clamps.
8. Masturbate using household items.
9. Try syntribation or thigh-squeezing masturbation.
10. Use an app-controlled sex toy and ask a stranger to control it for you. Make sure to keep your
11. identity secured, though!
12. If possible, go to a sex party.
13. Try massaging your prostate.
14. Try to orgasm without touching your genitals.
15. Engage in phone sex.
16. Hook up (safely) with a person you only met on the internet.
17. Splurge on a bunch of luxury sex toys. Lelo toys are a great way to start.
18. Masturbate in a public restroom.
19. Masturbate in your parked car.
20. Take nude photos of yourself (make sure to keep it secured).
21. Have sex with someone from another country.
22. Have sex with a complete stranger while on vacation.
23. Hook up with someone you’ve met from the club or bar.
24. Masturbate using a stimulating lube or cream.
25. Try masturba-thon. It basically meant masturbating as much as you could in one session.
26. Have a phone sex session with a complete stranger.
27. Masturbate in front of the mirror.
28. Masturbate while wearing earplugs and a blindfold.
29. Bring on some challenge— masturbate with a time limit.
30. Masturbate with only using your fingers and imagination.
31. Try to use as many sex toys as you can in one self-pleasure session.
32. Challenge your creativity— use a sex toy that’s not supposed to be designed for you. For example,
33. using a couple vibrator as a stroker.
34. Masturbate while listening to audio erotica.
35. Masturbate to every room in your house or apartment.

Sex Bucket List for Couples

Couples, listen up! Trying out new things in the bedroom is a must when it comes to reigniting that sexual spark. Below are some of the sex-tivities that you can explore with your boo.

1. Share steamy text messages with your partner.
2. Give your partner a good anal licking.
3. Have discreet sex in the woods.
4. Have sex in every part of the house.
5. Spice up game night with strip poker.
6. Have sex with blindfolds and earplugs on.
7. Wear a panty vibrator in public and ask your partner to control it.
8. Give your boyfriend or hubby a footjob.
9. Engage in tipsy sex. Drunk sex isn’t recommended since both parties can’t fully consent.
10. Have sex on a cruise ship.
11. Try pegging or strap-on sex.
12. Create a sex tape.
13. Show off your moves with a sultry striptease.
14. Have sex on the balcony.
15. Engage in mutual masturbation.
16. Share fantasies with your partner and bring them to life.
17. Challenge yourself and your boo to three or more rounds of sex.
18. Give your boo a boobjob.
19. Give your partner a lingam or yoni massage.
20. Make out with your partner passionately for hours without having sex.
21. Try dry humping.
22. Engage in nipple play.
23. Try BDSM plays, such as restraint play, bondage, and impact play.
24. Give gentle bites all over your partner’s body.
25. Tease each other with hours of foreplay!
26. Shop at a physical sex toy store and tease each other out.
27. Have sex on the beach.
28. Surprise your partner with a “dirty” love letter.
29. Have sex in your childhood home.
30. Have shower sex.
31. Make your partner cum by only using your mouth.
32. Explore fisting.
33. Engage in food sex.
34. Ask your partner to pee on you, a.k .a. golden shower.
35. Swap partners with another couple.
36. Give your partner a lap dance.
37. Try temperature play. Use massage candles, BDSM candles, ice cubes, and others.
38. Have sex in a private pool or hot tub.
39. Get naughty in the cinema.
40. Have sex inside a parked car.
41. Wake your partner up with a cunnilingus or blowjob (ask for consent beforehand.)
42. Have sex while wearing your work uniforms.
43. Use couple-designed sex toys during the deed.
44. Use a stimulating lubricant, gel, or cream during sex.
45. Create a naughty playlist and have sex in it.
46. Have sex with clothes on.
47. Have sex on top of a table.
48. Create a wacky playlist with your partner and do the deed with it. The first one who laughs gets a punishment.
49. Try skinny dipping!
50. Read erotica to each other.
51. Attend a burlesque show together.
52. Have sex in a couples massage room.
53. Make out and touch each other in a cinema.
54. Use a double-ended dildo together.
55. Have sex in an abandoned building.
56. Play naked twister.
57. Use a sex dice to determine what kind of sex you’ll be having.
58. Try standing sex positions.
59. Try out-of-the-box sex positions, steering away from the typical doggy, cowgirl, missionary,
60. spooning, and others.
61. Have sex without speaking or moaning.
62. Give each other sensual massages.
63. Try to have sex for seven days straight.
64. Have sex in full darkness.
65. Have sex in a luxury hotel room.
66. Have sex in those dingy motel rooms. Safety should be your top priority; don’t proceed if something’s off.
67. Have sex outside while it’s raining.
68. Surprise your partner with a new love toy— and use it afterward (once they consent).
69. Have sex while other people are on the other room. For example, you’ve hosted a house party and decided to have some quickie with your partner while everyone’s busy in the living room.

Takeaway

Whew! What a list, isn’t it? We know that some of the activities in this sex bucket list may not be your cup of tea, so don’t get pressured to complete them all.

Your standard of sexual satisfaction depends on you. Some may be okay with simpler sexual activities, while others may get full-on kinky. As long as you and your partner are happy, you have nothing to worry about. Cheers!