Cockwarming 101: Getting Warm and Cozy With All That Cock

Looks like warmth isn’t only coming from the fireplace, especially when cockwarming exists. And there’s added body warmth when you discard all your clothes.

If you haven’t heard of cockwarming, it’s time you did. Especially if you’re a fan of penetration, keeping your or your boo’s penis inside intensifies the connection you have. Even more so post-orgasm, you’re both just panting for air and looking at each other with all these wilding emotions. The way one’s vagina clenches around the other’s penis is just hot and intimate at the same time!

If you’re keen to get into this activity and further understand the various feelings it holds, then this guide is for you. We’ll be discussing everything you need to know about cockwarming, from its definition, how-to, tips, and more.

What is Cockwarming?

Urban Dictionary defined cockwarming as the “act of a man slipping his erection into his partner’s vagina or ass in order to keep warm.” 

This act is usually done post-sex, wherein instead of the penis owner pulling out right away, they keep it inside their partner. How things can escalate from here varies, but there’s usually that strong urge to thrust, grind, or any other movement because of your sensitivity. But other than that, you usually stay still and be with your partner in the present moment. 

Moreover, cockwarming isn’t limited to just post-sex. It can be a teasing type of foreplay, especially when your mouth can also be involved, or the main event if you’re down to try something new and hot with your boo.

What Makes Cockwarming Fun?

Let’s unveil the different reasons behind people’s enjoyment towards cockwarming down below.

1 It strengthens the bond with your partner.

Having your partner thrust in and out of you and sharing that heated moment with them is one thing. But keeping their penis inside you, whether it be your mouth, vagina, or backdoor area, is another thing. Even more so when you’re doing this post-sex, you release a lot of hormones that further promote bond-building, trust, and intimacy. Being physically closer while that happens only deepens your connection and moment with one another.

2 It can be done for various reasons.

Most of the time, cockwarming is done during post-sex until your cock gets soft and you’re ready to do extra aftercare as you wrap things up. But consider cockwarming as one bold way to do aftercare when it makes you all intimate and connected (physically and emotionally). 

It can also be done when you’re still rock hard and ready for more rounds, teasing your partner who’s just impatient for you to move again. But no, you don’t give in just yet. It’s even a hot way to edge them, even if there’s no extra movement going on.

3 It helps destress both partners.

With the common reason for cockwarming to relieve both partners, it results in lesser stress and an improved mood as well. Since cockwarming is about staying still and taking proper breaths as you both adjust to the position you’re in, there’s no intense activity going on.

4 It’s not so strenuous with the right bit of challenge.

There’s not much required during cockwarming, other than a cock, a hole, and a comfortable sex position. Other than that, it’s low-effort to keep your cock in. However, the challenging bit would be to stay still and not go crazy when your partner clenches around you, especially when you’re involved with a vulva owner. Well, that’s if your goal is to last long and not get too weak and exhausted just yet as you spend time with your partner.

5 It fits any vibe of sexual activity.

Whether it be vanilla sex or something rougher like BDSM, cockwarming is flexible to one’s preferences. With the former, it’s a deep way to connect with your partner, especially after sex, and you’re both trying to catch your breaths. Then for the latter, this act can tease and edge the bottom as the top doesn’t give in to their moans, begging for some kind of action.

Sex Positions for Cockwarming

Some ideal sex positions to try for this activity that prioritize both comfort and bond-building include:

1. Spooning
2. Missionary
3. Cowgirl

How to Engage in Cockwarming

Embark on this activity with this step-by-step guide through this section.

1 Go into a private room.

This setting is preferred for cockwarming to truly maximize the experience, especially when it’s done as a way to unwind and bond with your partner. And a lot of the best bonding moments are done in private.  

Some recommended places for cockwarming we’d advise include:

1. Hot Tub
2. Bedroom
3. Couch

2 Set the mood.

Upon settling in your private room or space, it’s time to make the space a lot more comfortable for you both. To really get into the intimate zone with a hint of steaminess if you’d like. Setting the mood varies per couple, wherein they can dim the lights, play sultry music, light up scented candles, and even have some conversation before things escalate,

3 Go ahead with the foreplay.

In case you’re doing cockwarming as foreplay, you may want to do other sexual acts before you do so. You may want to make out, talk dirty, and explore other erogenous zones (e.g., nipple play and naval play). 

But in case cockwarming is your main or post-sex act, the recommendations of foreplay above apply. Foreplay is the first phase of sex, warming your bodies and moods for the session ahead. Just like how you need to warm up and stretch before a workout, you need to ease into sex so your body doesn’t get overwhelmed and suddenly tense up.

4 Enter in slowly.

Once you’re both feeling energized from the foreplay, you can get into position for cockwarming. If it’s oral, the receiver opens their mouth as the giver inserts their cock inside their mouth. The receiver breathes through their nose, trying their best not to pleasure the cock. 

If it’s vaginal or anal, the giver must put lube on their cock before sliding inside the receiver’s intimate area. The receiver should take breaths as they adjust to the girth and size of the cock. You may even pull your partner closer for a much deeper connection (physically and emotionally).

5 Relax through it.

Like literally, inhale and exhale through this act. Cockwarming is meant to relieve your stress act most of the time, so don’t overthink and breathe deeply. You may even talk to your partner to loosen up further. 

6 Take your time.

There’s no given time interval for cockwarming, although a good minute or two is ideal if you’re reaching the aftercare stage. If you’re still playing around, you can go longer, pull out, then go back in. Don’t rush things, whether this act is stress relief or something intense.

Tips to Make Cockwarming More Enjoyable

Enhance your next sexcapades with cockwarming by following these tips.

1 Talk about consent and your needs.

Given that cockwarming involves your intimate parts, it’s important to gain mutual agreement over the activity. Consent protects both of you during such acts and ensures that respect is upheld. Asking for consent with this activity can sound like, “hey, are you okay with me warming my cock inside you after sex or even as a way to relax?” or “would you open to warming your cock inside my body for fun and relaxation?”

As for your needs, there may be certain expectations you’d want to gain from the experience. It can look like needing novelty or a deeper connection with your partner. So whatever those needs are, discussing them allows your partner to know more about you and do their best to give you what you need. And vice versa! This talk is a two-way avenue, so ensure that your partner expresses what they need with an activity like cockwarming.

2 Place ground rules.

Especially if the activity is new to your body, setting some rules can spare you from going past your limits and boundaries. In this case, with cockwarming, some rules you can set include having a time limit, no hair-tugging, having verbal and non-verbal safe words, and being gentle with each other.

3 Stretch beforehand.

Sex is like a workout, wherein you’re moving your bodies in all sorts of angles and positions and getting your heart rate. Hence, it’s important to stretch so your body doesn’t tighten and flow well during cockwarming.

4 Maximize your foreplay.

In case you’ll engage in cockwarming as the main act or post-sex, it’s best to truly max out foreplay to further warm up your bodies and overall mood. Doing so increases your arousal and desire for one another, making cockwarming even more intimate when it’s time to do it. Plus, especially if a vagina is involved, you want it all wet and ready before inserting your cock to avoid friction and discomfort on both ends.

5 Add some sex toys and other kinks in between.

We’ve mentioned this before, especially the former, but why not emphasize them a bit more?

Although it seems like cockwarming is limited given you’re stuck in a certain position to get that cock all cozied up, sex toys and kinks make the experience a lot more steamier. One example is a vibrator that can be placed by the receiver’s clit if cockwarming is done vaginally. Placing nipple clamps or maneuvering a wand massager all over the receiver’s body can also rile them up. As for kinks, you can praise or degrade them, depending on what vibe you guys are feeling.

6 Use lube.

Generally, lube is known to improve all sorts of sexcapades. Applying it to your body, like your cock and vagina, makes the deed run smoothly. At the same time, it heightens the pleasurable sensations present. And if you’re engaging in the act through the backdoor, lube aids the cock for smooth and safe insertion. 

Takeaway

Cockwarming is both a very sensual and feisty activity a couple can do for many reasons and in different scenarios. As long as mutual consent and respect for limits and boundaries are upheld, both parties will have a blast. And while this activity can feel odd and even challenging, the rewards are very much present and strong. 

So if you want to heighten your future sexcapades, you may want to add this activity into the mix.

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