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What’s BDSM?

First of all, BDSM is not the work of the devil. BDSM stands for a lot of things: bondage and discipline (B&D), dominance and submission (D&S), and sadism & masochism (S&M) but “satan’s play” is not one of them. The common misconception surrounding BDSM is that it’s abusive and only “psycho” people do this. But reality is far from that. Genuine BDSM is about trust and consent.

In BDSM, participants are always willing and plan things in advance to make sure that nothing bad happens. The “submissive” or “sub” surrenders everything to the “dominant” or “dom” with complete trust and faith. The dom has the complete control and authority over the sub but they make sure that the sub is always safe. Sex and role play are always done with clear, intimate communication, and this creates that “erotic bond.”

History of BDSM

As much as you’d like to believe that 50 Shades of Grey started this “trend,” you better believe ancient people did it first. Dating back as far as Ancient Greece, BDSM has also been depicted in their art. Even the Indian sex book “Kama Sutra” dating as far as 300 AD depicts erotic spanking accompanying their positions. But BDSM blossomed during the 18th century. During this time, some European brothels began specializing in restraint, flagellation and other “punishments” that “dominant” women gave out to consenting “submissive” men

In 1905, famous psychologist Sigmund Freud coined the word, “sadomasochism,” and labelled enjoyment of it as “neurotic.” For some time, even the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders listed BDSM as a “deviation” and “psychiatric disorder.” Thankfully, today, it’s widely-accepted and even recommended for beginners to try.

How to choose BDSM tools?

Dominance and submission games are exciting and incorporating the right tools and equipment will make it even more fun. In choosing BDSM tools to incorporate into your play, it will all depend on you and your partner. Think about what you need it for or what you want to try. For subduing, there are restraints like handcuffs and shackles. For punishment, there are whips and floggers. There’s simply so many gears you can try to make your play even more thrilling. Make sure you do your proper research before buying one. Enjoy our BDSM Shop!
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