Collars

There’s a dark past behind this alluring accessory. Back in Roman times, these accessories are used to identify slaves. It was originally made with metal as the slaves’ names were inscribed on the collar. It was also used in the 18th Century to identify slaves in Britain as well.

These historical precedents led to the association of slavery with these accessories in subcultures like BDSM fiction. Erotic novels such as “Story of O” and “Gor” introduced these accessories as a BDSM accessory that designates the submissive’s position.

Eventually, leather kinds emerged as an essential part of bondage play. The once symbol-for-slavery has become a reminder of the relationship between a dominant and submissive. They also come in various designs and colors now— from alluring blacks to flourishing pinks. Some even come with bows and bells attached to them.

And because of the increasing variety in these kinky accessories, it has slowly become part of fashion trends. With more people getting on the grunge or “baddie” aesthetic, they are now considered a style staple.

There are six types this BDSM item. The first type is the collar of consideration. It’s a type of collar worn by the submissive in the initial stages of the dom/submissive relationship. It symbolizes the start of the kinky relationship.

If the dom/sub relationship is going well, the dom can replace the initial collar and put a training collar to their submissive. These accessories are typically worn by the subs while they’re being trained. The third type is the protection collar. It symbolizes the ownership and protection of the dom to their sub. Then there is the play type collar that is used on kinky plays. It usually has additional attachments, such as chained nipple clamps or leashes.

The fifth type is the collar used in the day. It’s a piece of accessory, such as a choker or necklace, that symbolizes the dominant’s ownership to the submissive. This is the one that a sub wears when doing their regular daily activities. As for the last (and most important) type, a permanent collar symbolizes a permanent sub/dom relationship.

Before cleaning your collar, make sure to check its main material. Remember, different materials have different washing instructions. If you’re not cleaning your collar correctly, your kinky accessory may end up deteriorating quicker than it’s supposed to be.

If your collar is made with leather, wipe it with a soapy towel or leather cleaner. Never soak your collar in water. Once you’re done wiping, you can wipe it with a dry towel or let it air dry. Never leave the bondage accessory in direct sunlight, or it may end up having a cracked texture. As for the day collar (regular accessories that work as a bondage collar), it’s best to research the cleaning process of your day collar/accessory.

Once you’re done cleaning and drying your collar and have no plans on wearing it yet, store it in a satin or velvet pouch. This will minimize the accessory’s exposure to dust and dirt. Store it in a closet or storage box that is clean, dry, cool, and secure.