Disclaimer: Please exercise caution when attempting any of the suction cup dildo positions in this guide. While we have provided clear step-by-step instructions and illustrations to support safe exploration, this blog cannot be held liable for any injuries, accidents, or outcomes that may occur. Always listen to your body, communicate openly with your partner, and prioritize safety.
So you’ve finally decided to get yourself the toy of your dreams: the suction cup dildo, and with all the positions you can do with it? It’s more than you ever dreamed it would be.
Now, the question is, “Where do I mount this?” You’ve come to the right place. If you’re a beginner in suction dildos, there’s no better place to learn them than here. We’ll teach you the best places to put them, and how to maximize pleasure without requiring back-breaking acrobatics.
What is a Suction Cup Dildo?
Suction cup dildos are pretty much the same as regular silicone dildos, but this one has a suction cup on its base, allowing you to stick the erect dildo in solid surfaces such as the floor, shower wall, edge of the bathtub, wall mirror, door, or even in your toilet seat.
Once the toy is mounted on a solid surface, you can then indulge in different suction cup dildo positions until you reach climax. Because of its ergonomic design, it quickly became one of the favorites in the adult toy industry.
Ways to Use a Suction Cup Dildo
There are several ways to have fun with this type of dildo, such as the following:
1By Yourself
Going solo? You can use the suction cup dildo, either by sticking it to the floor or wall, or just holding it while you do several pleasure techniques.
One recommended technique is Milking the G-spot. It’s all about running the dildo across the top of the inside of your vagina and thrusting enough so that you stimulate your G-spot in short, sharp bursts.
Rotating the dildo is another great way to use your dildo and a technique many women use. Begin by inserting like normal, and at the point of your G-spot, begin twisting the dildo for awesome internal stimulation. You can also try inserting the dildo and twisting at the entrance and then thrusting it in when you feel ready.
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2With a Partner
Attaching a suction cup dildo to a strap-on harness means you can use it anyway you want with a partner! In any room, any position, any angle, and any suction cup dildo. Just pick your favourite suction cup dildo that pairs with the specific harness, and the world is your oyster.
3With Other Love Toys
You can simulate a threesome with a dildo, butt plug, and optionally a real penis. You can give an oral to your partner while riding your suction cup dildo and keeping a vibrating butt plug if you’re on the adventurous side, or you’re someone who enjoys multiple stimulations at once!
Why You Need to Try Using Suction Cup Dildos
There are plenty of benefits in using these sex toy staples! Learn all about these advantages in the list below:
1It’s perfect for lazy people!
We’ve all been there. Sometimes, we’re just too lazy to do anything. We wanna be pleased without moving a muscle. I feel you. With suction cup dildos, our fantasies are now a reality. We can get pleased without moving that much. We can just stick ’em and fuck ’em.
2Suction cup dildos are great for hands-free play.
With some, if not most, sex toys, you’ll need to insert and retract the toy to enjoy it (alone or with a partner). This is the case with most dildos. You use it for some DIY fun, so you have to insert it, twist, and turn it inside to maximize the pleasure. And this is fine. This is a great way to enjoy dildos, but sometimes, we want something a little more natural. Something we can use in place of a man’s dick without needing to hold it all the time in and out of you. This is where suction cup dildos win our hearts.
We don’t need to use our hands to enjoy it. We just stick it to any number of surfaces— locked doors, toilet bowls, floors, chairs, seemingly anywhere is a good place to get fucked with a suction cup dildo. You stick it, jump on it, and then ride it to paradise!
3You can use it with other toys.
In case you haven’t heard, most women don’t orgasm from penetration alone. The majority of women need some form of clitoral stimulation to reach their climax. As such, women need a variety or a combination of insertion and clitoral stimulation.
With real dicks, that can be hard (no pun intended~) since they can only do the penetration part. But with suction cup dildos, you’re doing some hands-free fun, so you can use your free hand to treat your clit for a ride. With a suction cup dildo, you can position it on any surface of your choice. Then, you can use your other hand for any additional stimulation you want. Fondle your breasts or use bullet vibes with your dildo. The world is your oyster! You can mix and match everything however you want!
4It perfectly mimics a penis, giving you a realistic feel.
With so many toys available in the market, you can choose what type of feel you want for your toys. That’s the case for vibrators and other dildos. However, with suction cups, they’re made to look and feel real, imitating the real thing. Some suction cups are rigid, others are soft, but most of them have realistic textures to capture that “authentic” feeling of getting penetrated.
5Suction cup dildos are the perfect practice partners.
Remember when we were virgins and had no experience when it comes to sex and whatsoever, and we’d practice our first kiss on our arms? Yep. Suction cup dildos are like that. We want to be the best lovers that we can be. But at the same time, we’re also human. We also want to know what pleases us and how we can be most pleased.
With suction cup dildos, you’re free to experiment with different moves and thrusts. You can stick them on any surface, and you can ride them whenever and however you want. Not only can you practice, but you’ll also enjoy yourself in the process!
Best Suction Cup Dildo Positions (Solo)
There are actually three ways to position suction cup dildos: vertical, horizontal, and diagonal (yes, you read that right).
Horizontal and diagonal positions are pretty much the standard. You don’t have to try hard to keep your balance with these two. You will be able to easily bend or arch, without toppling over. The vertical is also good, but if you’re a beginner, you might feel like you’ll need a harness to fuck yourself properly. To give you more tips and tricks, here are some ideas:
1Cowgirl Position
Skill Level: Beginner
Suggested Surface: Floor
Dildo Position: Vertical
It’s one of the simplest suction cup dildo positions on this list, so if you’re feeling like a lazy bee today, you might want to try this one out.
How to do it:Â
- Step 1: Stick your lubed-up dildo onto the floor.
- Step 2: Kneel or squat, depending on your preference and length of dildo. The tip of the dildo must be right at your vaginal/anal opening.
- Step 3: Once you’re all positioned, gently slip the dildo inside your vagina/anus. Continuously pound the toy until you reach the climax.
Bonus Tip: Use your hands to play with your clit, your breasts, and your other erogenous zones!
2Doggy Style
Skill Level: Beginner
Suggested Surface: Wall or Mirror
Dildo Position: Horizontal
The most common of all, even in masturbation porn. This seems like a pretty easy position until you finally do it yourself. It is a very comfortable position for your palms and knees, but it can be quite difficult when you’re adjusting to the level of your hole.
That’s why we suggest sticking the suction cup dildo in your vagina or anus first, and then sticking it on the board while it’s still inside you. This way, it will be at the perfect height once you start humping on your own. Think of it as the “stick the tail to the donkey” kind of game, while trying to find a comfortable height.
Do note, that although it looks really easy on porn, it actually feels really tricky when you’re already humping the suction cup dildo. You have to find the right stance in doggy, as well as the right force in humping, or else you’ll find yourself toppling down.
How to do it:
- Step 1: Stick the suction cup dildo on the wall or insert it first, then stick it on the surface for a more accurate positioning.
- Step 2: Move your hips back and forth, gradually increasing the speed and depth over time.
345-Degree Angle
Skill Level: Beginner
Suggested Surface: Wall or Mirror
Dildo Position: Horizontal
Wanna practice your twerking skills? This one certainly can help you with that. But while it may give good traction and groove on your genitals, this could also hurt you if you aren’t careful. Stretching would be beneficial before attempting this position to prevent cramping.
How to do it:
- Step 1: Mount the suction cup dildo right behind you.
- Step 2: Once the suction cup dildo is mounted, kneel one knee on the floor and prop the other on the sofa seat and start pushing their penis in. Ensure you find the right balance to avoid mishaps.
4Wildin & Grindin
Skill Level: Intermediate
Suggested Surface: Floor
Dildo Position: Vertical
Another convenient position on this list, the Wildin & Grindin, is similar to the Cowgirl. The only difference is that you will be on all fours in this position, using your arms as support when you start thrusting in and out of the toy.
How to do it:
- Step 1: Stick the dildo on the floor, then get on all fours, with your vaginal/anal opening just right on top of the dildo’s tip.
- Step 2: Once you’re positioned, slowly insert them into your vagina by moving your hips in a backward motion.
Bonus Tip: This position works best for flexible and curved-type dildos, so make sure to add those dildo types to your stash.
5Baptism
Skill Level: Intermediate
Suggested Surface: Side of Bathtub
Dildo Position: Horizontal
For our readers who have a bathtub at home, this is a must-try! It’s fairly easy to do, as you just need to glide during the whole thing.
How to do it:
- Step 1: Stick the suction cup dildo on the inside part of the bathtub. Make sure that it’s on the same level as your vagina/anus.
- Step 2: Once the dildo is positioned, you can simply put your knees on the edge of the tub, and put your body in a gliding motion.
- Step 3: Glide in and out of the dildo while your hands are on the bottom part of the tub, supporting your body during the deed. Find your pace and depth, and continue doing so until you reach your climax.
6The Lusty Prisoner
Skill Level: Intermediate
Suggested Surface: Wall
Dildo Position: Horizontal
If you’re the submissive type, you’ll surely love this kinky position! To level it up, you can close your eyes and imagine that your dom is pounding you from behind and that you can’t do anything about it.
How to do it:
- Step 1: Mount the toy on the wall, then stand up and face the other direction.
- Step 2: Put your hands on your back, bend over, then push your hips against the dildo.
7Chair Ride
Skill Level: Intermediate
Suggested Surface: Chair with a Suitable Finish (Like Steel or Plastic)
Dildo Position: Vertical
Take a trip down the orgasmic heavens with the Chair Ride Position. It’s one of the suction cup dildo positions that require some piece of furniture. If you want to try this one, make sure to have a chair with no armrests.
How to do it:
- Step 1: Stick the lubed-up dildo to the seat of the chair. Face the back of the chair, as you will be using the backrest for added support.
- Step 2: Hold onto the backrest, then gently push your vagina or anus into the suction cup dildo. Find your pace and depth, and stick to them until you reach your climax.
8Swinging Doggy
Skill Level: Intermediate
Suggested Surface: Door
Dildo Position: Horizontal
If you want to feel like someone is thrusting you, go for this fun sex position. With the Swinging D, you will be mounting your suction cup dildo on a solid wooden door.
How to do it:
- Step 1: Stick the suction cup dildo onto the door. It should be the same level as your genitals.
- Step 2: Once the dildo’s positioned, you can then bend down beside it, hold the doorknob, and then swing the door continuously; your dildo thrusting in and out of your hole. It’s up to you on how fast and in-depth the thrusting is. Keep thrusting until you reach the climax.
9Love Machine
Skill Level: Beginner
Suggested Surface: Top of Washing Machine/Dryer
Dildo Position: Vertical
If you’re looking for the easiest and laziest among these suction cup dildo positions, this is it. For this one, you only need to mount your suction cup dildo on the top of a washing machine/dryer.
How to do it:
- Step 1: Stick the lubed-up dildo onto the washing machine, then climb on it.
- Step 2: Insert the dildo into your vagina/anus by sitting down.
- Step 3: Turn on the machine, sending pulsating vibrations into your dildo. No need to grind, hump, or thrust—keep the dildo in your hole until you reach the peak.
Bonus Tip: If you don’t have a washing machine or dryer, you can also use a vibrating dildo with a suction cup. Just stick the vibrating dildo on the floor, sit down on it, and let the pleasurable sensations take you to paradise.
10Lap Dance
Skill Level: Intermediate
Suggested Surface: Chair or Stool
Dildo Position: Vertical
If you’re looking for another suction cup dildo position to try on a chair or stool, check this one out. It’s like giving a seductive lap dance. Be extra careful, though, as maintaining your balance in this position can be challenging.
How to do it:
- Step 1: Stick the suction dildo to the stool.
- Step 2: Sit onto the stool while gently pushing the dildo into your vagina or anus.
- Step 3: Once settled, you can bounce up and down or rotate your hips for further stimulation.
Best Suction Cup Dildo Positions (Partnered)
Although suction cup dildos are primarily designed for solo use, couples can also use this toy during intimate play in the bedroom. Below are some sultry moves you can try with your partner tonight.
As we present these sex positions, we’ll refer to the person penetrating as the giver and the person being penetrated as the receiver.
11Blow & Bounce
Skill Level: Beginner
Suggested Surface: Floor
Dildo Position: Vertical
Mutual satisfaction? You can count on that with this easy position. You can do this move as part of foreplay or stop once you’re ready to be filled with the real thing.
How to do it:
- Step 1: After sticking the suction cup dildo into the preferred spot, the giver or the person performing oral sex, kneels on top of the dildo. The toy’s tip is just on top of their vagina or anus.
- Step 2: The receiver stands in front of the giver. The giver then holds onto the receiver’s butt and starts performing oral sex.
- Step 3: As the giver stimulates their partner’s penis or vulva, they should start bouncing up and down onto the suction dildo.
Bonus Tip: Too much friction between the dildo and your vagina can potentially hurt you, so if you’re lubricating enough, make sure there’s a water-based lubricant within reach! Go for a water-based lube as they’re safe for your genitals and don’t ruin the surface of your dildo, unlike silicone-based lubes.
12Gagged Fun
Skill Level: Beginner
Suggested Surface: Floor or Wall
Dildo Position: Horizontal or Vertical
If you have a threesome fantasy but are hesitant about inviting a third partner to the scene, maybe this position could suffice.
How to do it:
- Step 1: Mount the sex toy onto the wall or floor. After that, the receiver will get on all fours, facing the suction cup dildo.
- Step 2: The giver will kneel behind the receiver and push their penis or strap-on into the receiver’s vagina or anus.
- Step 3: While being penetrated, the receiver will then start sucking the dildo in front of them.
Bonus Tip: Close your eyes and imagine that it’s another man’s cock to amplify the sensations.
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13The Bounce House
Skill Level: Beginner
Suggested Surface: Chair or Bench
Dildo Position: Vertical
Got a bench at home where you can stick your suction dildo in? Consider trying this one. It’s similar to the Cinema BJ position, where you’ll be sucking your partner on the side, but instead of just performing, you’re also getting pleasured.
How to do it:
- Step 1: Stick the dildo into a suitable bench or sofa. The giver then sits on the dildo, sliding the toy into their vagina in the process. The receiver sits next to them.
- Step 2: The giver gently bends over their body and performs oral sex onto the receiver, all while bouncing onto the dildo.
14The Dog and Bone
Skill Level: Intermediate
Suggested Surface: Worn with a Strap-on Harness
Dildo Position: Horizontal
Harness up in a strap-on to muck about with gender identities, power, and learning to be the penetrator instead of the penetrated. It’s also just kinda fun to wear a dick.
How to do it:
- Step 1: The receiver gets into a four-legged position, while the giver is positioned behind them.
- Step 2: The giver holds onto the receiver’s hips and then pushes their strap-on into the receiver’s anus or vagina.
15Bend Over
Skill Level: Intermediate
How to do it:
- Step 1: The couple stands up, facing the same direction. The giver is in the back, already wearing their strap-on dildo, while the receiver is in front.
- Step 2: The receiver will gradually bend over until their palms have reached the floor. For added stability, the giver must hold onto the receiver’s hips.
- Step 3: Once everything’s settled, the giver then pushes their strap-on into the receiver’s vagina or anus.
Frequently Asked Questions
Playing with suction cup dildos can be super fun, but we also get that you have more questions about this amazing sex toy staple. See our FAQ below as we answer the common questions about these great toys:
1“My dildo doesn’t have a suction cup on it. Is there a way that I could mount it to the wall?”
There are specialty sex shops that sell a suction cup that can fit certain types of non-mountable dildos. However, this type of product is still rare in the market. We suggest getting a new suction cup dildo instead.
2“My suction cup dildo wouldn’t stick! What should I do?”
If your suction cup dildo isn’t sticking, you may add some moisture to the suction cup (spraying some water will do) to make a seal. If it’s not working, the dildo is still slipping away from the wall or floor. Try picking a different surface. Go for a smoother wall or floor.
3“Which one is a better position for a dildo: horizontal or vertical?”
It depends on your preference. Some people like riding their dildos while others prefer thrusting them from the wall.
However, we highly suggest that newbies position their dildos vertically first. You’ll have more control over the depth and pace, you won’t need extra time to level your dildo and genitals, and you won’t have to deal with complicated suction cup dildo positions. Once you get used to the vertical positions, you can then amp up your skills by mounting the toy horizontally.
4“What should I do if my dildo won’t unstick?”
You can use your nails, a credit card, a folder, or a ruler to slip in under the rubbery edge of the suction base. Once it’s inside the edge, gently lift it to allow air in. Once the air is in, it will release your toy.
5“Should I use a condom with my suction cup dildo?”
There’s a risk for STI transmission even when you’re having sex using a dildo. That’s true for STIs that spread through body fluids, such as chlamydia and gonorrhea, and also for those that are transmitted via skin-to-skin contact, like human papillomavirus. So just like when you’re having sex without toys, safety is key!
We suggest you use a new condom every time you go from being penetrated to doing the penetrating (and vice versa), as well as every time you switch from using a dildo anally to vaginally. The latter helps protect you from getting a urinary tract infection or a vaginal infection by making sure you’re not spreading bacteria from your butt to your urethra or vagina.
6“Should I use lube when playing with my dildo?”
When playing with just about any sex toy, you should make sure to have some lube handy, just in case.
And when playing with a dildo of any size, it’s a good rule of thumb to put a good deal of lube on the toy first, as well as on your vaginal or anal opening. Playing with dildos without using lubricant of any kind isn’t just uncomfortable; it can also be dangerous. Without sufficient lubrication, you risk internal tearing.
7“What should I do if I don’t like how the dildo feels?”
If a certain technique isn’t working for you, don’t stress about it.
Remember, different strokes for different folks. Even if various blogs about how to use a dildo suggest deep thrusting, it’s okay to not like it and try a different method. Just take some time to learn your own body and see what works best for you when playing with a dildo.
Also, if your partner doesn’t like to use a dildo, don’t pressure them to like it. Let them discover the joys of using this sultry toy on their own, and use other sex toys instead.
8“Can I use a dildo with my partner?”
Yes! Using dildos can spice up the bedroom, as long as you’ve communicated this to your partner properly. Some men might find dildos intimidating as they think their dicks are not enough to satisfy their partners, which is why you still need to reassure your partner that using dildos is just an additional tool in the bedroom and not their replacement.
Also, there are dildos that are designed for couples, so you might want to check that out.
Takeaway
In case you’re still not an owner of any suction cup dildo, now might be the best time to rethink your choices.
Suction cup dildos offer the best hands-free experience for your bedroom play. And knowing the different suction cup dildo positions and techniques can make playtime super fun! The more you become open to new dildo-playing methods, the more pleasure you will feel in the long run. Happy riding!
