18 Chair Sex Positions That’ll Take You on a Wild Ride

The chair might be the last thing you want to have sex in, as balancing on it is trickier compared to couches, kitchen counters, and tables. On the other hand, in terms of spice level, it’s not as exciting as doing the deed in the car or outdoors. However, chair sex can still be a fun activity in its own right! In fact, there are lots of chair sex positions to explore with your partner— and we’ve just listed some of the best ones in this guide.

This guide will reference terms like “giver” and “receiver.” In this context, the giver is the person performing the penetration or stimulation, while the receiver is the one being penetrated or stimulated. There may be some chair sex positions where these terms are not explicitly used, but we will still clarify the roles to ensure the positions are easily understood.

1Lap Dance

Skill Level: Beginner

Let’s start with something simple and oh-so-intimate. For this beginner-friendly position, the receiver sits on the giver’s lap—like a cozy cuddle, but without the clothes!

How to do it:

• Step 1: The giver sits comfortably in the chair while the receiver positions themselves on top facing in the same direction, aligning their vagina or anus to the giver’s penis/strap-on.
• Step 2: The receiver takes control, moving up and down to create the rhythm and stimulation they desire.

2Triceratops

Skill Level: Beginner

This position is similar to the previous one but this one has a more primal energy to it.

How to do it: 

• Step 1: The giver sits on the edge of the chair, places their hands on the seat under their buttocks for support, leans back, and spreads their straight legs apart.
• Step 2: After that, the receiver sits on top of the giver, facing the same direction.
• Step 3: Instead of sitting upright, the receiver stretches their arms, places their palms on the floor, and fully bends their upper body. They would then push their vagina or anus onto the giver’s penis/strap-on, then continue to move their body back and forth.

3Curiosity

Skill Level: Beginner

Want to take a break from the typical blowjob positions? Consider trying this one out! It might not be the comfiest blowjob position out there, but it’ll certainly bring that freshness to your sexcapades.

How to do it: 

• Step 1: The male partner stands beside the chair while the person giving the blowjob kneels on the edge of the chair and leans forward to reach the penis. For added support, they can hold onto the opposite edge of the chair.
• Step 2: The male partner can either squat, lean forward, or stay standing straight—depending on how high or low the mouth of the person giving the BJ.

4Chair BJ

Skill Level: Beginner

Still on the lookout for more chair sex positions for blowjobs? Here’s another fun one to try. What makes this position unique is that the male partner gets a full visual of the action, making the blowjob even more exciting.

How to do it: 

• Step 1: The giver lies back with their upper back resting on the chair, knees bent, and feet securely planted on the floor.
• Step 2: The male partner stands beside the chair, positioning himself where his partner’s mouth is, and adjusts to ensure they’re comfortable for oral pleasure.

5Lotus

Skill Level: Intermediate

If you’re looking for chair sex positions that are more on the affectionate and passionate side, then you’ll have this one. This position offers skin-to-skin contact, allowing partners to caress each other, rub their bodies on one another, and share deep, passionate kisses. It’s the perfect choice for couples who want to feel more connected and intimate during their time together.

How to do it: 

• Step 1: The giver sits in the chair, leaning back slightly, and spreading their legs apart.
• Step 2: The receiver then sits on the giver’s lap, with their vagina aligning with the giver’s penis or strap-on. The receiver’s legs are raised and hang off the sides of the chair.
• Step 3: Once in position, the giver holds the receiver’s waist and takes control of the movement, guiding them up and down. The receiver can wrap their arms around their partner and even engage in some steamy kissing for added intensity.

6A Risque Feast

Skill Level: Beginner

This position takes the phrase “I’ll eat you out…” quite literally! For this, you’ll need a sturdy dining table.

How to do it: 

• Step 1: The receiver climbs onto the table and squats with their back resting on the edge, placing their palms on the table for extra support.
• Step 2: The giver sits in a chair facing backward, leaning toward the receiver. They gently grab the receiver’s hips, positioning themselves to perform oral sex or cunnilingus.

7Abyss

Skill Level: Intermediate

This one’s a bit risky, but it can be an incredibly wild experience if you’re feeling daring!

How to do it: 

• Step 1: The giver sits in a chair with a straight back and legs slightly apart.
• Step 2: The receiver then sits on the giver’s lap, facing them, and fully leans back with their head hanging in the air. The giver must hold onto the receiver tightly for full support.
• Step 3: From here, the giver will be in control, moving the receiver’s body back and forth to achieve deep penetration.

8Snake Charmer

The chair sex positions are getting pretty intense? Well, here’s something on the simpler and easier side.

• Step 1: The person receiving the blowjob sits down on the chair, leaning back on the backrest and keeping their legs straight and slightly separate.
• Step 2: The person giving the blowjob kneels in front of the male partner, stroking and sucking their penis.

Bonus Tip: We highly recommend using a vibrating stroker for added pleasure!

9Sitting Pretty

Skill Level: Beginner

This position is similar to the previous one but focuses on cunnilingus.

How to do it:

• Step 1: The receiver sits on the chair, spreading their legs wide.
• Step 2: The giver kneels down and places the receiver’s legs over their shoulders, gaining full access to the vulva. From there, the giver can enjoy licking, sucking, and even adding fingers for extra stimulation.

10Rocking Chair

Skill Level: Advanced

Get ready to rock each other’s world with this challenging position!

• Step 1: The giver sits on the chair with their legs slightly apart.
• Step 2: The receiver then sits on the giver’s lap with their legs resting on the sides of the chair, grabbing the giver’s elbows for extra support and leans back.
• Step 3: Once balanced, the receiver slowly lifts their legs one at a time, placing them on the giver’s shoulders. After everything’s set, the giver starts penetrating into the receiver’s vagina.

11Chair 69

Skill Level: Intermediate

If you love the classic 69, get ready to take it to the next level. In this position, there’s no designated giver or receiver since you’ll both be pleasuring and getting pleasured simultaneously. Decide who’s taking the top and bottom spots on the chair, then get into position. This one’s a bit risky, as it’s easy to lose balance or slip, so stay cautious and communicate with your partner throughout.

How to do it: 

• Step 1: The person at the bottom starts by lying on the chair, spreading their legs apart, and placing their feet firmly on the floor for stability. Their head should hang off the opposite edge of the chair.
• Step 2: The person on top then bends over the bottom partner’s body in the opposite direction, positioning their genitals close to their partner’s face. For added stability, the top partner should hold onto the upper part of the bottom partner’s body.
• Step 3: Once both are comfortably in position, they can begin mutually stimulating each other’s genitals with their mouths.

12Cheeky Dinner

Skill Level: Intermediate

If you’re still exploring chair sex positions with a focus on cunnilingus, here’s a playful option to try. Just make sure you have a sturdy dining table!

How to do it: 

• Step 1: The receiver climbs onto the dining table, kneeling in front of the chair where the giver will be seated. The receiver’s legs should be slightly apart, with their feet close together for balance.
• Step 2: Meanwhile, the giver sits on the chair backward, facing the backrest.
• Step 3: From this position, the giver leans over toward the edge of the table, cups the receiver’s buttocks, and begins licking and sucking their vulva. For added stability, the receiver can hold onto the chair’s backrest.

13Chair Cowgirl

Skill Level: Intermediate

If you’re looking to bring a classic sex position into the mix using a chair, the Chair Cowgirl is a must-try. As the name suggests, it’s a playful twist on the traditional cowgirl or woman-on-top position, tailored to fit the structure of a chair.

How to do it: 

• Step 1: The giver or male partner, should sit on a sturdy chair with their legs slightly apart.
• Step 2: The receiver then straddles the giver’s lap, facing them, and bends their legs so their feet rest on the giver’s hips, perfectly mimicking the cowgirl position. For added stability and control, the giver can hold onto the receiver’s buttocks. Once you’re both comfortably settled, it’s time for a rowdy ride!

14Steamy Snacking

Skill Level: Intermediate

This one’s pretty fun, though the receiver might need a bit of flexibility and stamina to pull it off; you’ll also need a dining chair for this sex position.

How to do it: 

• Step 1: The giver sits on the chair facing the dining table, as you would when having a meal.
• Step 2: The receiver sits on the giver’s lap, outstretch their hands, and place it on the tabletop for support. The receiver then gently bends their knees and keep them behind the giver, while the giver will lean a bit forward to give room for the receiver’s knees and feet. They can then proceed with the deed.

15Lick Me Good

Skill Level: Beginner

Here’s another sex position for cunnilingus and analingus lovers!

How to do it: 

• Step 1: The receiver climbs onto the chair, straddling it with their legs slightly apart and facing the backrest.
• Step 2: The giver then positions themselves behind the receiver, leaning in to perform cunnilingus or analingus.

16Chair Wheelbarrow

Skill Level: Advanced

The Chair Wheelbarrow is a must-try for female partners or receivers seeking a challenge.

How to do it:

• Step 1: The giver sits firmly on the chair, and the receiver settles onto their lap, facing the same direction. The receiver’s legs are tucked neatly on either side of the giver.
• Step 2: The receiver leans forward, lowering their upper body until their stomach rests on the giver’s legs and their palms touch the floor for balance. The giver supports the receiver by holding onto their hips, ensuring stability and control. Once everything’s positioned, they can proceed with some orgasmic action.

17Breakfast for One

Skill Level: Beginner

Do you love eating your partner out? All you need is a chair and a sturdy dining table, and you can then get yourself a delicious feast through this sex position!

How to do it:

• Step 1: The female partner or receiver of oral sex climbs on top of the table, then slightly lean their back onto the table and spread their legs wide.
• Step 2: The giver sits on the chair right in front of the receiver, holding onto the receiver’s hips, and gently lifting their body up. They can then start licking and sucking the receiver’s vulva.

18Chairman

Skill Level: Advanced

The Chairman position offers a great alternative to the Chair Cowgirl, providing the receiver or female partner with full control for deep, satisfying penetration.

How to do it: 

• Step 1: The giver sits on the edge of the chair, leaning their body back onto the backrest for support.
• Step 2: The receiver then sits between the giver’s legs, holding their ankles and gently separating them to position their body comfortably. From here, the receiver slides their vagina onto the giver’s penis or strap-on and takes charge, moving up and down for a full range of motion.

Takeaway

That wraps up our chair sex positions guide! We hope you’ve found something that fits your preferences and sparks your fantasies. If you’re looking for more unconventional positions, click here for even more options.

Remember to stay safe—be cautious when trying these positions, and never use a flimsy chair! Don’t forget to follow safer sex practices, like using condoms and lube, to ensure a fun, orgasmic, and memorable sexperience.