Before fully diving into discussing quickie sex, let’s just make it clear. Mind-blowing sex does not always have to be slow and agonizingly long. If you’ve been convinced that to have great sex you need a well thought out dinner date in some fancy restaurant with matching candle lights and romantic music on the background, then you can be missing out on the joys of good old quickies.
Quickie sex may not have as much as communication and foreplay as the real deal, but they are just as intense, sometimes even more because of how fast and unexpected it happens. And besides, as much as you’d want to find the time to pamper your partner, sweet talk them into sex and perform the latest trick you learned about foreplay, there are just days when you don’t have the luxury to do all these things.
If you’ve been doing quickies for a while, then you, my friend, are doing something right. Tap yourself on the back, you deserve it. And if you haven’t, maybe it’s time for you to start incorporating quickies into your life. If you need more convincing, we’re listing down some of the reasons why you should be doing it too.
1It’s great for busy couples.
Speed is, perhaps, a quickie’s obvious perks. That’s why if you’re looking for a way to satisfy your carnal cravings with boo while still being able to juggle your tedious tasks, going for quickie sex is the best way for that.
Got a meeting to go to in ten minutes? That’s fine. That’s already enough time for a quickie. But don’t think of a quickie as anything inferior to your all-nighters just because you’re short on time. In fact, because there’s this pressure to get the job done quickly, you are going to want to squeeze in (ahem, pun intended) as much action as you want in there.
2It’s a quick energy booster.
Found yourself in a bad mood lately? Rid yourself of that dark shadow behind you and have quickies for a fun and easy fix. Relieve your built-up tensions from work in just a few minutes. Sex can release happy hormones such as oxytocin, reducing your stress levels and put a smile on your face throughout the day. Unscheduled, fast-paced sex with your partner can definitely give your mood an extra boost.
3It spices up your regular sexual routine.
You are just minding your own business when you see your partner talk a certain way, or look at you a certain way. And then it hit you. You want to have sex. And you want it now. So you do it on the kitchen countertop. Or on the table. Or anywhere really where you haven’t done it before. A quickie doesn’t take a long time. You can get in, wrap it up quickly, then leave, so you can even do it somewhere semi-public if that’s what you’re into.
Quickie sex can get you out of your usual routine, allowing you to let creativity and desire take over and change things up. So if you’re looking for something new to the table, let go of those inhibitions and go for a quickie.
4It makes you creative.
Struggling to think of new themes for your artwork? Suffering from writer’s block? Studies suggest that people who have sex every day are more creative. So for those who wanted to get their creatives juices (and other juices IYKWIM) flowing, we suggest going for some quickie with your boo.
5It’ll keep you that youthful glow.
According to certain studies, loving couples who had sex at least three times a week looked about 10 years younger than their actual age. So if you’re looking for a way to get that stunning glow without spending ample amounts of money for anti-aging creams, you’re in luck! Go for that quick, steamy deed.
Aside from that, constant sex can also give you a better complexion. Yes, that’s right, healthier skin for you. Your body produces the hormone DHEA when you are having sex that can give you that much healthier looking glow.
6It strengthens your relationship.
Intimacy can be tough for busy couples, especially for those with kids. If you find yourself having a hard time sexually reconnecting with your partner, maybe going for a quickie is the key. 15-minute sex in the morning before doing your daily routine can do wonders in the relationship. It keeps the spark alive, strengthening the relationship in the process. Remember, strong relationships are as important to your health as diet and sleep, so keeping in touch with boo is essential.
7It’s a quick way to relieve pain.
Did you know that orgasms can block pain? According to numerous studies, sexual stimulation can relieve women from chronic back pain, leg pain, and menstrual cramps. So for our female readers who are experiencing those mentioned ailments, you might wanna indulge in quickie sex.
8It amps up your libido!
Experiencing a low sex drive? Maybe going for quick sex can help you drive it up again. But don’t think of quickie sex as an instant solution to keep things back on track. There are several reasons why one is experiencing a lack of sexual drive—if going for a quickie ain’t fixing it, we suggest going for professional help.
9You’re strengthening your immune system.
Having regular sex means having regular production of good hormones. Not only do you get better sleep and better skin, but you also enjoy an increased immune system. It can even give you a healthy heart. Sex is an activity that gets your heart beating fast and your blood flow increasing. Hence, all in all, sex can help you live longer.
10It doesn’t require tedious foreplay (and still gets the job done!)
First off, do you really need a reason to have sex with your partner? Regardless of the length of time, you do it, sex is sex. And doing it with your partner is always going to be lots of fun. Having a quick round of sex, but not knowing when, where, or how it is going to happen is just part of its allure. It may not exactly be much of lovemaking, but it doesn’t make it any less fun.
11You get to sleep without counting sheep.
If you’ve already counted up to a thousand sheep and still cannot seem to doze off, maybe 5-minute quickies can put you to sleep like a baby. One of the benefits of sex is that it can improve your sleeping habits, as sex boosts oxytocin (feel-good hormones) and lower cortisol (a stress-related hormone). This will then make you more relaxed than usual, making you fall asleep in just a few minutes.
12It’s easy to stay focused on quickie sex.
When pressed for time, you care less about your surroundings as well as the insecurities you have about your body. You won’t really mind that much that you forgot to shave that day, or that you are not wearing that flattering lingerie you bought last week. You are more open and a lot aggressive than you usually are. Everything is happening too fast. You let your passion and instincts take over.
13It can count as exercise!
Gym. That dreaded word. We hate and love the gym. But face it, it’s not every day we want to sweat and run on a treadmill. The good news is, we can sweat just as much in a quickie without having to go to the gym to actually lift or run on anything. All you need is a willing partner for a quickie and you can burn up to 75 to 150 calories when having sex.
14You fulfill your sexual needs quicker than usual.
It’s alright to be selfish from time to time. Especially when it comes to sex. No need to be guilty nor polite. After all, how are you supposed to take care of anyone else when you cannot even take care of your own needs? If you are in a healthy relationship where you already both have an understanding of each other’s boundaries, you can take and receive what you want, in any way you want it, and in anytime you want it, as long as it’s still within your relationship’s agreed boundaries.
15It’s simply fun to indulge in!
You only have around five minutes so you have to skip the foreplay. No preamble, no warm-ups, just you and your partner’s desire to get off, and soon. Skirts are raised, buttons are opened, belts are off, and zippers are unzipped. You are heading straight for the kill. Just the rawness of it, the eagerness, and that primal “I-want-you-right-now” vibe you get from the experience can fuel the passion that’s burning inside you at that moment, making for more exciting and memorable sex.
A perfect setup is not what you need, nor do you need everything to be prepared beforehand. Sometimes, you just got to learn to live in the moment. Go with the flow and see where your passions take you.
Like we’ve already mentioned, sex is sex no matter how long you are doing it. Never underestimate what quickies can do for you. Grab whatever opportunity you have if you want to reap off its benefits.