Tears can mean so many things. People cry for so many reasons, some bad and some good. But have you ever cried from pleasure? Movies often show women crying out in pleasure when they have intense sex, but what about the men? So many men are silent in bed. Getting even a little moan out of them can sometimes pose a challenge. While the reasons for their quietness in bed can vary from person to person, here are a few ways to get your man to break their silence.
How to make a man cry in bed?
Here are a few things to try to get those tear ducts working overtime.
1Build up the sexual tension.
Never underestimate the sexual power of the mind, tease him before you please him. Subtle sensual touches can trigger subconscious thoughts of sex and foreplay. Making some suggestive comments can also add a little more tension. These thoughts can trick the body into believing that they’re actually experiencing the act. Add this to holding out longer between your next bedroom session – by this we mean a couple of days – and this can greatly heighten the intensity when your genitals collide, bringing tears to his eyes.
Blindfolds are a great way to enhance their senses and make their pleasure feel even more intense. Blindfolds also introduce an element of surprise to your sexy play. This can make him even more excited and up the tension. Their touch and pleasure receptors are heightened because their sense of sight has been blocked. He’s sure to cry from pleasure no matter what you decide to do and where you decide to touch him.
3Slow it down.
Instead of sneaking around for a quickie, take the time and revel in the movement and each sensation. While a speedy sex session can sometimes be exactly what you need, the urgency and tension can affect your partner and they may not be able to fully relax. A big factor in sex enjoyment is the mental aspect, and some men will only express extreme pleasure when they are relaxed and comfortable. Sometimes a slow, romantic buildup to the sexual act can encourage audible reactions than quick rough sex.
4Get on top.
Men will sometimes prefer when the woman takes the lead. So one of the ways to make your man cry? Get on top of him. It’s one of the easiest ways to show dominance over your partner which can turn him on. We also have to remember that men are visual creatures and when you’re on top, he gets to see all of you. Your face, body, expressions, responses, and everything else. The immense pleasure of this scenario is sure to draw a few tears of pleasure. So what’re you waiting for?
5Let out your inner dom/domme.
If you’re rarely taking the reigns in the relationship, showing him that you can bring him to heel, at least sexually, can arouse him more than you ever have before. As we mentioned before, men can be intensely aroused by domination. Smack his ass a couple of times, or maybe play with the idea of bondage, and maybe even ball gags. Sometimes a rougher and tougher tumble is all you need to have your man crying tears of pleasure.
6Explore new sensitive spots during sex.
Spicing things up can go a long way in getting your man to cry in bed. One way is by exploring new sensitive spots on their body. Most men think that their penis is the only way to experience sexual pleasure. Paying attention to areas like the nipples, anus, and prostate can introduce them to sensations they’ve never felt before. Prostates are sometimes described as the men’s g-spot, and we all know how intense g-spot orgasms can get. So a prostate orgasm can just be the key to unlocking your man’s tear ducts.
7The thighs may spice up your sex life.
His thighs, not yours. Or maybe both. Kissing up your man’s thighs can have your man primed and ready for sex, and if he isn’t usually the one being worshipped during sex, this may be more than enough to have him tearing up. Planting light kisses along the outside and inside of his thighs can get them harder from anticipation, have him crying for release.
8Focus on the neck.
Necks are extremely sensitive, sensual places on the body. Stimulating your partner’s neck can drive him wild with desire. So whether you’re sucking on his neck and planting kisses during foreplay or while he’s thrusting into you, it’ll add another layer of stimulation Gently pulling on his hair at the base of his neck can also get him hotter and harder.
9Experiment with temperature play.
Temperature play is when you introduce things or toys that are of an extremely different temperature from regular body temp. You don’t need anything too complicated to get this done. If you’ve got ice in your refrigerator, that’s good enough. Apply it to your partner’s wrists, forearms, or the insides of his hands. These areas of the male body are where veins are especially close to the surface, making them susceptible to sensation. *If the temperature play is successful, there will be a ton of sensations your partner will be experiencing that’ll elevate his sexual experience.
10Take a trip down the happy trail.
The happy trail is the region between the navel and the penis. If he doesn’t shave that area, there should be a little trail that you can follow. Kissing along that area, or even taking the hair in your mouth and gently tugging can spark a little electricity that’ll shock him to his core.
11Add a little mouth vibration to your blowjobs.
Just like women enjoy a little (or a lot of) vibration, so can the men. Don’t worry though, you won’t have to be putting a vibrating toy into your mouth, all you have to do is emit a low humming sound. This is a fun new trick that’ll surprise your partner, and it’s so simple it’ll shock you with how much of a difference it can make to your partner’s pleasure.
12Pay some bottom lip service.
The bottom lip is a body part you might not even realize you’ve been neglecting. Sexual arousal influences a rush of blood to your erogenous zones, like the vagina and of course, the penis. Why not try to have some blood rush to their lips? Suck on the bottom of your partner’s lips to increase its sensitivity. This is definitely a move away from the usual kissing styles. Add a nip to the lip for a little surprise.
13Make sure you’re communicating with each other during sex.
We don’t just mean dirty talk. While whispering demands, orders, and sexy phrases are a major turn-on, making sure that you’re being clear about what you both want in bed can make the entire experience better for both of you. If he’s vocal about his wants, it also makes it easier for you to figure out what buttons to push and how to make him cry for it.
14Don’t forget the ears.
Stimulate your partner’s ears without overdoing it. Sigh into his ears in a low tone, or let out some breathy moans or words of validation while you’re engaging in sexual intercourse. This can excite them more or increase their confidence. Play with his earlobes, and kiss behind his ears. Play around and see what he like best.
15Play around with hands-free massages.
What are hands-free massages you may ask? Well, instead of using your hands, you use any other part of your body. This is also just another way to encourage you to straddle your man and grind on his groin in slow, circular motions. Using your tongue to massage smaller parts of the body like the neck and nipples are totally valid options, too!
16Amp up the romance with sexy bedroom fantasies.
We’re not just talking about putting on a sexy costume and being done with it. We’re talking about a full production. Set up the lights, the bed, the pillows, and bedsheets! Make it match a theme and fulfill his sexual fantasies. This will make him feel appreciated, listened to, and definitely turn him on. The sexual act isn’t the only thing that factors into how to make a man cry, the aspects surrounding the act are just as important.
17Explicitly express your want to give him a blow job.
Men love blowjobs. It’s common knowledge at this point. It’s one of the ways to ensure he enjoys your sexual encounter. There is, however, a difference between him asking for a blowjob and you telling your man that you’d love to give him one. Taking the initiative and going down on him without prompting can make him feel like you are attached and connected to him believing that pleasuring him pleasures you, too (and it should). This is the factor that makes all the difference.
18Call his name out during sex.
Say his name whenever he’s doing something that you enjoy. It makes your man feel appreciated and reaffirms that you’re thinking of him and only him during sex and that his body is perfectly made to give you sexual satisfaction, in turn amplifying his own pleasure.
19Encourage him to keep going during sex.
Take an active part in your sexual experience. Be vocal about what you want and what you need, especially if you want him to keep going during intercourse. If you like something he’s doing at that specific moment, acknowledge it and tell him to keep doing it.
20Tell him he’s the best sex you’ve ever had.
Look, sometimes white lies are okay. If you appreciate your partner and want them to feel seen, giving them just a bit of an ego boost by telling them they’re the best lay you’ve had might be acceptable. Just make sure you don’t mind them repeating whatever sexual tricks they employed, because they will try to recreate the same moves often. But if your partner is actually the best sex you’ve ever had, shout it out from the rooftops and tell him often.
21Give him total control.
If you’re comfortable enough with your partner, you can hand over the reins and let him do whatever he wants to do with you. Of course, it’s best to have a talk about boundaries and have a safe word in place ahead of time. Telling your partner that he has total control over your pleasure and gives him a space to express and voice all his fantasies and sexual wants with you. It’s a great time to find out what’s been going on in his head when it comes to the both of you.
22Tell him when you’re about to come.
This is definitely a sentence every single man loves hearing in bed. The fact that he is able to see your sexual desire to its culmination is a big deal for him. So make sure to tell him every time before you are about to orgasm.
23Let him know what you like.
Sex isn’t just about giving your partner everything you want. It’s also about discussing your likes, dislikes, tastes, and preferences in bed. Make sure to tell him when he’s getting things right because that boosts his ego and makes the sex better for him, too. It can help deepen your relationship letting you have a more soulful connection in bed, and maybe get a few tears out of him.
24Use your knees.
Incorporate your knees into your roll in the hay. No, do not knee him in the balls. That may make your man cry, but not in pleasure. Knees are one of the most underrated and unrecognized erogenous zones of a man. Make sure to run your tongue along the crease of his knees and then gently blow on the area. This will cause a hot-and-cold sensation that is sure to make him very excited.
25Explore different sensations during sex.
Aside from licking, grazing, sucking, and biting should be something you explore in the bedroom. You may find that he enjoys one of those more than traditional licking. Exploring the different sensations can broaden both of your sexual horizons and by the time you figure out which sensations work best, you’ll have brought your man to tears.
26Look for his sensitive spots.
If you want to know how to make a man cry in bed, you must be intentional about pleasing him sexually. Men have so many erogenous zones that don’t get love mostly because the men are too shy to ask their partners for that. Nipples are one of those spots. Pay attention to it. Just do what he’d do to you.
27Identify his fetishes and cater to them in the bedroom.
Every partner is different and figuring out what your man is into can be a fun activity in itself. Everyone, including me, love when their kinky needs are fulfilled in the bedroom. In fact, there are those who have such strong fetishes that they don’t feel aroused unless that particular fetish is being fulfilled. So talk to your man about those fetishes and show genuine interest and a willingness to try.
28Try out edging.
Edging is nothing but a technique where you pleasure him until he is about to climax and then stop all of a sudden while delaying the climax. You repeat this again and again by bringing him close to the climax and then slowing down without making him climax. Thus after doing this quite a few times and when you finally make him climax, any man is sure to experience a sudden outburst of pleasure. Often this is so intense as it is an outcome of extreme excitement and waiting to climax after a lot of edging times. This outburst is sure to make your man cry in bed and you’ll see him shiver and moan in pleasure.
It won’t always go smoothly. Sex between two people who aren’t acting to make money can not be perfect. Relax, laugh, and make jokes. Just enjoy yourselves.
30Tell him you love him.
This might be a surefire way to get your man crying in the bed. Here’s the thing though, only say it if you mean it. Having sex with someone you truly love can be a transcendent experience for some, or it could just make your partner extremely happy to hear that you love them. Use this means of getting your man to cry in bed with extreme caution.
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Getting your man to cry in bed can be a bit tricky but not impossible. Having open communication with your partner is usually the best way to achieve the level of bliss required to get your partner crying from pleasure. Also, don’t go into sex wishing, praying, and hoping that you get your partner to cry! Just have fun and make sure you’re both enjoying the experience. If it doesn’t happen, at least you know that you both enjoyed each other’s company and bodies.