31 Wonderfully Wild Anal Sex Positions (Butt Sex Orgasms Guaranteed!)

For some, anal sex can be intimidating. Since most people assume that anal comes with complicated preparations, acrobatic positions and unavoidable pain, they shy away from doing it.

What they don’t realize is that by not trying, they are losing a chance to experience a different kind of pleasure.

Cum on, life’s too short for you not to experience something new in the bedroom. Go ahead and spice up your sex life with some booty action. As long as you’ve prepared well enough, doing a backdoor entry can bring a lot of fun for you and your partner.

Before Entering the Backdoor: Anal Sex Tips

Waaaait! Before trying out these sex positions, check out these tips first. These tips will amplify your pleasure when doing some rear entry action.

1Communicate first

As with all types of sexual activity, get your partner’s consent first. If your partner is not ready for anal sex, don’t force it. You can reassure him/her, give him/her some beginner-friendly butt plugs to play with but most importantly, let your partner take some time. In the meantime, you try other erotic activities like shower sex or BDSM.

If both of you agreed to do it, you should discuss anal sex with your partner beforehand. Openly communicate your expectations and concerns. Make sure that you’re both on the same page before engaging in this activity. If you’re both inexperienced, you can research together and check what works on both of you.

2Lube it up

Have a quality silicone-based lube ready before starting the activity. Unlike the hoely vagina, the anus doesn’t self-lubricate. That’s why a silicone-based lube is a must for a comfortable and enjoyable anal sex.

Aside from the penetration, it also helps with foreplay. Just put an ample amount of lube on your hand and start massaging your partner’s body. Make sure you include those cute butt cheeks!

3Do some prepping

One popular belief with Anal sex is that it gets pretty messy. However, it’s not dirty as one might think, as the anus and the lower part of the rectum have little fecal material in them. You can use as simple as warm water for easy cleaning or use an anal douche for a much accurate cleansing.

4Relaaaax…

For first-timers, spend some time relaxing before doing the deed. You can take a hot bath, ask your partner some sensual massage, or any activity that will relax your mind and body. If you’re hesitant and nervous to do it, you’ll have fewer chances that you’ll be successful in doing rear entry action.

5Go for longer foreplay

Remember, you’re having sex, so there’s no need to rush ala Fast & Furious. You can start with the typical foreplay moves. Play with your partner’s body. Eat each other out. Give sensual massages to each other. By doing more foreplay, you’ll get more aroused and relaxed, making anal penetration so much easier for the receiver.

6Put some love toys in the mix

For beginners, you can use a beginner-friendly butt plug before fully engaging in anal sex. It helps you familiarize yourself with the sensation.

Meanwhile, those who are used to backdoor fun can be extra frisky with vibrators, clit suckers, nipple clamps, and other sex toys for additional stimulation.

7Find the perfect position

Knowing the anal sex positions that work best for you and your partner is a must. This depends on your preferences. Some might find standing positions more alluring while some prefer to get cuddly. That’s why position guides (like the one you’re reading right now) are essential to get the best out of your anal sexperience.

31 Wonderfully Wild Anal Sex Positions: Step-by-step Guide

Now that you’re all prepped up, here are the 31 wonderfully wild anal sex positions for some backdoor fun. Here’s a step-by-step guide on doing these positions.

Booty Sex Difficulty Level

🍑| Beginner: Good for first-timers.
🍑🍑| Experienced: Great for those who have tried anal sex.
🍑🍑🍑| Expert: You need some extra flexibility and stamina for these positions, sweetie.

NOTE: The Giver is the one penetrating the anus, while the Receiver is the one receiving the penetration.

Now that’s everything settled, let’s start with the good ‘ol classic position.

1Missionary

Missionary is one of the most common sex positions, as well as one of the most intimate positions for some steamy lovemaking.

How to do it:

1. The receiver must lie on his/her back.
2. The giver should positioned on top with his/her legs between the receiver.
3. To get steady, the giver can rest his weight on his elbows, he/she can also rest part of his/her weight on the receiver, but this must be done with utmost care.
4. Once everything is in its place, the giver then slowly thrust to the receiver’s butt.

Difficulty: 🍑 | Since everyone’s familiar with this position, it’s pretty easy to do, as compared to more exotic sex positions.

2Plug and Play

If you’re not if you or your partner want to go all out, you can do a test drive first with this position.

How to do it:

1. Have the receiver lie down.
2. Go for some slow foreplay, exploring the receiver’s body with the giver’s hands or a handy vibrator.
3. Insert a well-lubed butt plug to the receiver’s anus.
4. If the receiver enjoys the sensation, you can move onto the penis or strap-on.

Difficulty: 🍑 | This position is good for those who are still nervous about anal sex but curious enough to do it. Just choose a beginner-friendly butt plug for comfortable use.

3Cowgirl

Get yourself a wild ride with the Cowgirl position. This is perfect for beginners as the receiver can control the depth and pace.

How to do it:

1. Have the giver lie down.
2. The receiver will position on top of him/her.
3. The receiver will then lower yourself to the giver’s penis/strap-on.
4. Start straddling! For women, you can also stimulate your clit while doing it for more aaaah-wesome sensations.

Difficulty: 🍑 | What’s good about this position is that the receiver is in charge. He/she can move in his/her preferred pace, angle, and depth.

4Doggy Style

Of course, this anal sex positions guide wouldn’t be complete with the OG position: Doggy Style. If your man wants a full view of your cute ass, this is the perfect position for that.

How to do it:

1. The receiver will get down onto his/her hands and knees, with legs spreading out.
2. The giver slowly enters anally from behind while on his/her knees.
3. Start thrusting! If the receiver’s in front of the wall, he/she can push back against the giver.
4. To spice up this position, the giver can also grab his/her partner’s waist/hips/shoulders/hair to thrust into the receiver with more power. Also for the giver, give those butt cheeks some spanking!

Difficulty: 🍑 | It’s an easy-peasy position as everyone’s familiar with it. And because the receiver’s ass is in front of his/her man, the giver will have easier backdoor access. To spice it up, you can use a Doggy-Style Strap for additional support.

5Spooning

If you want to get all comfy and snuggly, this is the ideal anal sex position. Not only that, among the anal sex positions that we’ve presented here, this is one of the most intimate sex positions you can with your boo.

How to do it:

1. The couple must lie on their sides, facing the same direction. The giver must be behind the receiver.
2. After some steamy foreplay, the giver will then enter from behind and anally thrust the receiver.

Difficulty: 🍑 | What’s good about this position is that both of you are in a comfortable position. The receiver has also a decent amount of control on how the giver deeply penetrates him/her.

6Teaspooning

Teaspooning is a more kneeled-down variation of spooning. If you want to spice up the typical spooning position, you can never go wrong with this one.

How to do it:

1. The giver must get onto his/her knees and open it widely.
2. The receiver must get onto his/her knees too in front of the giver, facing the same direction.
3. Let the giver come up close to the receiver and keep their knees together. The giver must then wrap his/her arms around the receiver and start anally entering the receiver.

Difficulty: 🍑 | It’s a simple position that allows the receiver to have a decent amount of control. Also, you can easily switch to other positions such as doggy when doing the teaspooning.

7Prone Bone

Let your man take over. This intimate position is similar to spooning, but with the giver on top.

How to do it:

1. Have the receiver lie down on your stomach with legs open.
2. The giver should get on top of the receiver, facing the same direction. His/her knees should be in the same position as he/she would be when doing the missionary position.
3. Once everything is settled, the giver can thrust into his/her partner’s anus.

Difficulty: 🍑 | This is an easy butt sex position especially for receivers who are not that used with anal sex. They only need to communicate properly with their preferred pace and depth. Also, if your giver is on the heavier side, make sure that he’s cautious when resting his/her weight on you to avoid unnecessary mishaps.

8Leap Frog

At first, you might think that this position may require some jumping, but don’t worry! The Leap Frog is a simple anal sex position similar to Doggy Style.

How to do it:

1. The receiver will get down onto his/her hands and knees, with legs spreading out. He/she should keep his/her chest on the bed, arching his/her back.
2. The giver will then slowly enter anally from behind while on his/her knees.

Difficulty: 🍑 | What’s nice about this butt sex position is that the arched back angle will help the giver hit the right spot. You can also transition on different positions with Leap Frog easily.

9Burning Man

If you want to get out of your comfort zone and do the fiery deed away from the bed, this might be the butt play position for you.

How to do it:

1. Find a sturdy table or sofa that the receiver can lean onto.
2. The receiver must face the countertop and lay his/her stomach over it. Make sure that the countertop’s surface is comfortable enough. You can use a pillow or blanket and put it over.
3. The giver must stand behind the receiver’s back.
4. Once everything is positioned, the giver can now penetrate from behind.
5. For the receiver, keep your feet to the ground as it serves as an anchor, in case the giver goes for intense thrusting.

Difficulty: 🍑🍑 | Since the giver has more control, this anal sex position is good for couples who have done it more than once since the giver is already familiar with his/her partner’s preferred depth and pace. For a hotter experience, the receiver can also turn around and make eye contact with the giver.

10Pearly Gates

Pearly Gates is a heavenly position for those who wanted to get extra intimate with their man while getting some backdoor action.

How to do it:

1. Let the giver lie down on his/her back, with his/her legs spread apart and feet steadily planted.
2. The receiver sits down on top of the giver. After that, he/she must lie backward.
3. Once everything is positioned, the giver can now anally enter his/her partner.
4. The receiver can then spread your arms out while the giver wraps his/her arms around the receiver.

Difficulty: 🍑🍑| It may look simple but there are a lot of things to consider such as the weight of the partner. The giver should also be aware of his/her partner’s preferred depth and pace since he/she gets more control over this position.

11Jockey

Give your man a wild ride with the Jockey position. This anal sex position is similar to the prone bone. What differs is the giver’s position as he is a kneeled position, taking more control.

How to do it:

1. The receiver must lie down on the bed. His/her legs must be straight and together.
2. The giver positions on top, with his/her knees on either side of the receiver’s waist.
3. The giver then slowly thrust into the receiver’s anus.

Difficulty: 🍑🍑 | With this position, the giver should also be aware of his/her partner’s preferred depth and pace since he/she gets more control over this position. This position is perfect if the receiver wants a more passive role during the session.

12Sandwich

Keep those buns pleasured. The sandwich butt sex position is perfect for those who want to hit the right spot. It also brings extra closeness as you can perfectly make eye contact with this position.

How to do it:

1. The receiver must lie on his/her back while the giver is on top with his/her legs between the receiver.
2. The giver must push the receiver’s thighs back toward his/her stomach. This position will raise the receiver’s butt, making it easier for the giver to penetrate.
3. Once settled, the giver can anally thrust in. For a better experience, the receiver can adjust by spreading his/her knees. This will make better room for tummies while for women, they can get their clitoris stimulated.

Difficulty: 🍑🍑| Even though this position is similar to missionary, which is a fairly easy position for anal sex, the Sandwich requires some flexibility for the receiver and extra strength for the giver, since he/she is taking mostly the control.

13Butterfly

Drive each other wild with the butterfly anal sex position. This position is ideal for couples who wanted to have sex outside of the bedroom. But if you prefer doing it in the bedroom, no worries as you can still do this position in the bed. Just make sure that your partner’s penis/strap-on is at or just above the height of the mattress. If the bed is too low, he can kneel instead of standing up.

How to do it:

1. Find a sturdy table or mattress. The receiver must lie down and scoot toward the edge.
2. The giver will stand next to the receiver, grabbing his/her butt from below. He/she can start thrusting while the receiver’s ankles rest on his/her shoulders.
3. For better stimulation, the giver can lift his/her partner’s butt for better angle. If the receiver’s a woman, the giver can also stimulate her clit for maximum pleasure.

Difficulty: 🍑🍑| With this position, the giver should also be aware of his/her partner’s preferred depth and pace since he/she gets more control over this position. This position is perfect if the receiver wants a more passive role during the session.

14Deep Impact

Craving for some intense anal sex? This position is best for those who prefer deeper penetration.

How to do it:

1. The receiver should lie down on his/her back, pointing his/her legs toward the ceiling. He/she can bend it too.
2. The giver should be on his knees. upright and facing towards the receiving partner.
3. For the receiver, let your legs rest on the giver’s shoulders– one on each shoulder.
4. The giver then grabs his/her receiver’s thighs and holds it tightly.
5. Start thrusting! Keep the pace slow then slowly amp it up with every thrust.

Difficulty: 🍑🍑 | With this position, the giver should be aware of his/her partner’s preferred depth and pace since he/she gets more control over this position. This position is perfect if the receiver wants a more passive role during the session.

15Right Angle

For most anal sex positions, the giver is always leaning or kneeling, but that’s not the case with the Right Angle.

How to do it:

1. The receiver should lie down on his/her back, pointing his/her feet on the ceiling. It doesn’t have to be perfectly straight.
2. The giver then sits down with his legs open (v-shape). He/she should be facing down the receiver with his/her legs on either side of your body. The receiver’s legs should also be resting on the giver’s shoulders– one on each shoulder.
3. The giver then grabs his/her partner’s legs and lifts it towards him/her.
4. Once everything is positioned, he/she can start penetrating.

Difficulty: 🍑🍑 | Extra strength is required for this position since the giver should be able to slightly lift his/her partner’s hips. The giver should also be aware of his/her partner’s preferred depth and pace since he/she gets more control over this position. For a more comfortable experience with the Right Angle, you can place a small pillow beneath the receiver’s butt.

16Netflix Anal Chill

Wanna get some steamy anal action while watching Henry Cavill on ‘The Witcher’? You’re in for a treat.

How to do it:

1. Find a sturdy and comfortable couch.
2. The giver should sit down while the receiver sits down on top of the giver, facing him/her.
3. The giver then slowly thrust his/her penis/strap-on into the receiver’s anus. Slowly increase the pace.

Difficulty: 🍑🍑 | The giver should also be aware of his/her partner’s preferred depth and pace since he/she gets more control over this position. For a steamier experience, you can watch some sexy shows or series to keep the mood.

17Bulldog

Want your man to get full control? Go wild with the Bulldog anal sex position.

How to do it:

1. The receiver should get down on his/her hands and knees, keeping his/her legs close together.
2. The giver will then squat right above the receiver and put his/her hands on your shoulders/waist/hips/hair.
3. Once the position is all set up, the giver can start thrusting.

Difficulty: 🍑🍑 | Squatting can get uncomfortable as time goes on, so extra strength from the giver is needed. The giver should also be aware of his/her partner’s preferred depth and pace since he/she gets more control over this position.

18Anvil

Among the different anal sex positions presented on this guide, Anvil works the best since this sex position provides more access to the bumhole.

How to do it:

1. The receiver must lie on his/her back, keeping his/her legs between him/her and the giver.
2. Depending upon the length of the legs, the receiver can rest his/her ankles to the giver’s chest, shoulders, or head.
3. Once the position is fully set-up, the giver can start thrusting.

Difficulty: 🍑🍑| It requires a bit of flexibility from the receiver since the giver is leaning against his/her legs. The giver should also be aware of his/her partner’s preferred depth and pace since he/she gets more control over this position.

19Bodyguard

The Bodyguard position is something you would like to try if you want to keep close with your boo. This intimate anal sex position is similar to spooning, but you’re just standing up.

How to do it:

1. Both the receiver and giver should stand upright, facing in the same direction.
2. After a long and steamy foreplay, the giver can start penetrating your butt.
3. For a more passionate experience, the giver can also wrap around his/her arms around his/her partner’s body.

Difficulty: 🍑🍑 | The giver should be aware of his/her partner’s preferred depth and pace since he/she gets more control over this position.

20The Double D

Do you and your partner want to get penetrated at the same time? Fulfill that fantasy with this frisky anal sex position. All you need is some lubed-up dildos and great coordination for this one.

How to do it:

1. Suction the two dildos on the floor.
2. Both partners should kneel in front of each other. Make sure the end of the two dildos are just right on your butthole.
3. Once the position’s all set, both partners should slowly push their buttholes into the dildos.

Difficulty: 🍑🍑 | This position is great for anal sex since both you have full control on the penetration. However, it still needs some coordination for a much enjoyable experience. Make sure the lube is within reach when doing this position.

21The Turtle

If you want to try a more challenging version of Doggy Style, you might wanna delve into this sex position.

How to do it:

1. The receiver should be resting on your knees on the floor or bed. He/she should then lower him/herself downwards so the butt is sitting on top of the back of his/her ankles.
2. Next, the receiver should lean as far forward as he/she can.
3. The giver should then kneel behind the receiver.
4. Once everything is set up, the giver can start penetrating his/her partner’s bum.

Difficulty: 🍑🍑🍑 | It requires extra strength and flexibility for the receiver. For the giver, he/she should also be aware of his/her partner’s preferred depth and pace since he/she gets more control over this position. You can also use a Doggy-Style Position Strap for more comfort.

22High Chair

You might be thinking that it’s impossible to have anal sex on a stool. Well, here’s a butt play position that proves how limitless sex can be.

How to do it:

1. Find a sturdy high chair/stool. When looking for one, make sure that the chair’s height is just right around the giver’s penis/strap-on.
2. Place the chair near a wall or kitchen countertop.
3. The receiver then sits down on the high chair with his/her butt hanging out over the edge. He/she should face the wall or counter top as he/she will use it as support for later.
4. The giver then stands up behind the receiver and thrust his/her way onto his/her partner’s bum.

Difficulty: 🍑🍑🍑| This position can be challenging since you’re doing it in a bar stool. The giver needs to be extra careful when doing this position to avoid his/her partner falling from the chair.

23The Cross

Wanna try a weird anal sex position? Bring on the backdoor fun with the Cross position.

How to do it:

1. The receiver should lie on his/her stomach, with his/her feet by the end of the bed.
2. The giver should then lie down on his/her stomach, on top of the receiver. His/her feet should be on one side of the bed and their bodies should form a cross shape (see illustration above for reference).
3. Once the position is set up, the giver can start penetrating.

Difficulty: 🍑🍑🍑 | This challenging position can be awkward since there’s minimal touching between the giver and receiver. If you want something fun, you can try this one but if you’re looking for something intimate, go for the other anal sex positions in this list.

24Pump Sex

Are you up for some challenging anal sex? Well then, here’s a fun and creative bum sex position for you.

How to do it:

1. Find a quality sofa/couch for this one. But if you don’t have one, you can still do this on the bed.
2. The receiver should stand on the couch/bed, facing the backrest. He/she can then squat, letting his/her butt hang over the edge.
3. The giver should be standing behind the receiver, both of them facing the same direction.
4. Once the position is set up, the giver can start thrusting his/her penis/strap-on to the receiver. He/she can wrap his/her hands around his/her partner for support.

Difficulty: 🍑🍑🍑 For this position, the receiver should have extra strength and flexibility as squatting can be uncomfortable when doing it for quite some time. The giver should also be aware of his/her partner’s preferred depth and pace since he/she gets more control over this position.

25See Saw

Go for something playful. The See Saw Position is a great anal sex position for those who wanted to make intense eye contact with their partner.

How to do it:

1. The giver must sit down on the bed with his hands behind him to keep him/herself upright.
2. Then, the receiver sits down onto the giver’s lap, facing him/her.
3. The receiver starts pushing him/herself to the giver, slowly pushing in and out of the giver’s penis/strap-on.

Difficulty: 🍑🍑🍑 This position will be challenging for the receiver as he/she is going to do most of the work since the giver can’t move that much. If you’re the receiver, make sure you have enough stamina.

26Lap Dance

Want to take the spotlight and let your man simply enjoy the show? Go for the Lap Dance. This thrilling position is perfect for receivers who have enough stamina to do most of the action.

How to do it:

1. Let the giver sit down on a comfortable sofa/couch, with his/her legs wide open.
2. The receiver can start with an actual lap dance. Add those flirtatious moves in the mix, sis!
3. Once the receiver’s done with the dance or foreplay, he/she must sit down on top of the giver, facing the same direction.
4. The receiver then grabs his/her partner’s penis/strap-on and guides it into his/her anus.
5. The receiver can start pushing his/her butthole into his/her partner’s penis/strap-on.

Difficulty: 🍑🍑🍑| This position is pretty easy for the giver since all he/she needs to do is to sit down and support the receiver. However, this will be challenging for the receiver since he/she is doing most of the work.

27Poles Apart

Opposites do attract with this unusual anal sex position. The Poles Apart is a twisty variant to the spooning position.

How to do it:

1. The giver must lie down on his/her back.
2. The receiver will lie down on top of the giver, facing the same direction. The head of the receiver must be on the giver’s feet, and vice versa (see illustration above for reference).
3. Once the position is all set, the giver can start thrusting his/her penis/strap-on to his/her partner.

Difficulty: 🍑🍑🍑 | Both partners should coordinate well when doing this position because of this position is pretty unique compared to other anal sex positions.

28Lotus

Get incredibly close. This lotus-like position is great for those who wanted to get super intimate with their partners. Nothing will get you more closer to your partner with a tight hug and some anal penetration.

How to do it:

1. Have the giver sit down in a crossing legs position.
2. The receiver then sits on the giver’s lap and wraps his/her legs around the giver’s hips.
3. Once situated, the giver can start thrusting, giving some intense eye contact to his/her partner.

Difficulty: 🍑🍑🍑 | Both partners should coordinate well when doing this position because of this position is pretty unique compared to other anal sex positions. Also, if one or both of you have big tummies, this might not work well.

29Viennese Oyster

Wanna go all out? Test yourself or your partner’s flexibility’s skills with the Viennese Oyster position. This position is a fiercer version of missionary and is good for those who want to receive deeper anal penetrations.

How to do it:

1. The receiver must lay on his/her back.
2. For the giver, position in front of the receiver, spread the receiver’s legs while also pulling them backwards.
3. Once the position is set-up, the giver can now penetrate his/her partner’s bum.

Difficulty: 🍑🍑🍑| If you’ve seen the illustration above, it takes some impressive flexibility to be able to pull that off. The receiver should do other mild anal sex positions first before engaging to this. For the giver, don’t pull your partner’s legs too hard– send your partner to paradise, not in the emergency room.

30Speed Bump

Do you have an exercise ball lying around? You may wanna try this fun yet demanding butt sex position.

How to do it:

1. Get a high-quality exercise/fitness ball.
2. The receiver should lie on his/her stomach just on top of the exercise ball. The receiver’s legs should be close together.
3. The giver will position him/herself on the receiver’s back, facing the same direction as the receiver. He/she then must grab the receiver’s waist/shoulders/hips for support.
4. Once everything is settled, the giver will then enter the receiver’s bum from behind.

Difficulty: 🍑🍑🍑 | You need to be extra careful with this as one wrong move and you could both hurt yourself in this position. For the giver, he/she needs to focus on balancing the fitness ball while giving adequate thrusts to his/her partner.

31Pile Driver

Want to go all out? This exotic lovemaking position is one of the hardest anal sex positions as it requires extra strength and flexibility on both of you. Are you up for the challenge? Check the steps below.

How to do it:

1. The receiver must lie down on his/her back. Next, the receiver must lift his/her legs in the air.
2. The giver then grabs the back of the receiver’s ankles and slowly pushes it towards the receiver’s head until the receiver’s back is off the ground.
3. Then, the giver slightly squats on top of the receiver’s butt.
4. Once everything is set up, the giver can slowly thrust his/her way into the receiver’s bum.
5. If the receiver is a woman, he/she can also finger her partner’s vagina during the penetration.

Difficulty: 🍑🍑🍑 | Just by looking at the illustration, you can already tell how demanding this position is. For the Pile Driver, both of you need to have extra strength and flexibility to successfully do this position. You shouldn’t also perform this if you or your partner have a weak back.

Take the plunge!

It’s not too late to explore the back roads. Anal sex offers a unique sensation that you wouldn’t get from any other type of sex.

As long as you’re preparing enough and doing the anal sex positions that work best for you and your partner, taking a backdoor trip will surely bring new and exciting sexperiences.