20 Best Blowjob Positions for Amazing Orgasms (Ready, Set, Blow!)

Want to show how much you appreciate your man? Wanna give your man some sizzling lovin’? Here’s what you can do: Suck his dick and try these best blowjob sex positions. 

Okaaaay… don’t close this yet! That may sound too direct but hear me out: Blowjobs are one of the best things you can give him. It’s very submissive and passionate at the same time– worshiping and bringing him to euphoria with every kiss, blow, suck, and lick. It’s a seductive way of telling him “You’re all mine.”

Also, sex is not just about thrusting in and out of each other’s genitals. As with most experiences, it’s the little things that bring the most impact.

Most of us focus too much on the penetrating part of sex that we tend to forget the other important bits of sexual experience– such as a blowjob. Remember, foreplay can either sizzle or fizzle the mood.

With that, indulge yourself in new blowjob techniques, hun. There are so many things that you can do aside from bobbing your head up and down. Get creative! Mix in some new activities, incorporate sex toys or try new blowjob positions.

Speaking of positions, we got you on that one. We have here a step-by-step guide featuring 10 ahhhmazing BJ positions.

Best Blowjob Positions

Say no to ‘meh’ blowjobs. Get a job well done with these 10 beginner and advanced BJ positions. Let’s get started!

1Kneeling Blow Job Position

Nothing says submission than kneeling in front of your man. Since this position is pretty simple to do and doesn’t require any skills, this is one of the best blowjob positions for first-timers.

How to do it: For the Kneeling Blow Job Position, you just need to face and get down on your knees while your man remains standing upright.

Difficulty: Beginner | With this go-to position, you have full control of the pace and depth. Also, this is the OG Blowjob position, before you get into the next positions, make sure you can ace this one.

Bonus Tip: While devouring him, stare him in a few seconds, go back to business, then look at him again. Men find eye contact hot AF so don’t forget to do this when giving him oral.

2Boss’ Chair

Make him feel like a boss with this beginner-friendly position. With the Boss’ Chair, become his loving slave and serve him up with intense sensations.

How to do it: Make sure to do it somewhere that he can sit properly. Slowly walk up to him, sensually look into his eyes, and start caressing him. Kiss him on the lips, neck, and chest. Once you feel he’s turned up, unbuckle his shorts (if there’s any) and start giving him head.

Difficulty:  Beginner |This position is pretty simple to navigate. Both of you don’t need to do anything specific. He just has to sit down with his feet on the floor, while you kneel in front of him.

Bonus Tip: Surprise him! The next time you and your partner are home alone, astonish him with your wild side by doing this BJ position. Slip into an alluring garment like his favorite lingerie or wear a sexy costume to add roleplaying in the mix. Enter the room and without saying a word, start giving him a blow job. Your partner will surely love the spontaneity.

3Thigh Pillow

Get all snuggly but in a frisky way. To do this position, you will use your man’s thigh as a pillow (thus the name!) If you’re already experienced with the basic positions and want to spice it up, go for this one.

How to do it: Your man should lie down on his side, with his lower leg in front of his upper leg. Once he’s positioned, lie down on the opposite side, with your face just right in front of his crotch. Rest your head on his thigh. Once you’re set, start sucking!

Difficulty: Experienced | This position can be tricky since you’re not facing each other. But with enough familiarity and practice, you can surely ace this position after a few steamy sessions.

Bonus Tip: As you dine, spice it up with 69. Since your partner is already positioned near your crotch, you can both eat each other out for a more sizzling experience.

4Regular Blowjob Position

If you prefer a position that can be done easily in the bedroom, go for the regular blowjob position. If your man also wants a full view of the action, this is a good BJ position for that.

How to do it: Let your man lie down on his back with his legs open. After that, you then lie down on your stomach, with your head right at your partner’s crotch. Once the position’s set, you can start blowing him.

Difficulty: Beginner | This is one of the easiest blow job positions. It’s also great for those who don’t want to leave the bed. So yeah, for the lazy bums out there, here’s the position for you guys.

Bonus Tip: Incorporate sex toys! You can use a vibrator and play it around his cock’s most sensitive areas.

5The Doctor

Did your man just gone through a long and exhausting day from work? Treat his stress way with this alluring fellatio position. The Doctor blow job position lets him relax while experiencing immense bliss from your lips.

How to do it: Make your man lie down on his back, either on a sofa or bed. After that, kneel on the side, with your head just right on his cock. Unbuckle his pants, shower him with kisses, and then go for a blow.

Difficulty: Experienced | This position is not that hard. You only need a comfortable sofa or bed for your boo. The only challenge on this is that you can get uncomfortable from kneeling too much. Also, being experienced will help you with this position as you’re blowing on a different angle.

Bonus Tip: Get some porn! Since he has free space on his chest area, you can let him take his laptop or phone and watch porn videos in it. This is perfect if he has roleplaying fantasies that you’re not ready to take yet. He can indulge in his fantasies while you can serve him that experience without the need for costumes and such.

6Cinema Blow Job Position

Get risky. Show your irresistible BJ skills with the Cinema Blow Position. For this position, you don’t necessarily have to go to the cinema. You can try this while watching Netflix at home, or even in your car since this involves both partners sitting side by side.

How to do it: Sitting side by side with your man, start by building it up. Massage his crotch from the outside. After a few minutes, get your hands inside his pants and give him a slow handjob. After building his arousal, unzip his pants and give him a slow and sloppy blowjob.

Difficulty: Experienced | For the experienced ones, this would be relatively easy. However since it involves an unusual blowjob position, beginners should try out other BJ positions first before diving into this.

Bonus Tip: Having public sex is thrilling, but be aware of the consequences. Even though the name of this position is ‘Cinema’, avoid doing this in theaters or other public places. You might get arrested or humiliated from public indecency.

7Face Fuck Position

Be dominated. Give your man all the control with this BJ position. With the Face Fuck Position, you can surely bring him to climax as he can set his preferred pace and depth. However, make sure you’re used with deepthroating when doing this position, as you can expect intense thrusts from this.

How to do it: You need to lie down on your back on the bed. Get some pillows and put them under your head. After that, let your man straddle you on his knees, facing you with his cock just right in your mouth. His knees must be on either side of your chest, just right at the armpits. Once you’re all positioned, your man should slowly thrust his dick inside of your mouth.

Difficulty: Expert|  This position is suitable for experienced couples since you’re letting your partner take control. You and your partner have to agree on a certain pace and depth before engaging in this to avoid unnecessary conflict and mishaps.

Bonus Tip: Since your hands are free with this blowjob position, you can amp up the experience for him by massaging under his groin area. Gently play his balls, his perineum, and even his prostate!

8The Plumber

If you want to do the Face Fuck position but with more control on your part, you can try out the Plumber position.

How to do it: Lie down on your back, then put some pillows under your head for support. After that, your man should position himself on top, with his knees on either side of your head. Your partner’s cock should be directly above your mouth. Once you’re all set, you can grab his legs for support and start blowing him. Unlike the Face Fuck, your guy doesn’t need to thrust in and out of you, unless you want him to.

Difficulty: Expert | This is good for experienced couples since it requires proper coordination on both parties. Don’t try this one out without trying the basic ones first.

Bonus Tip: Fully devour your man by swallowing his load. Cum on… why are you shying away from a 5-star meal?

9Jack Hammer

Be extra wild. Push your limits with the Jack Hammer position. This position is great for experienced couples that are looking for a challenging blow job position, as this requires some stamina for you and your man.

How to do it: Sit down on a comfortable and firm surface, like a rubber-matted/carpeted floor. After that, have you man stand right over you, with his penis right above your head. Next, lean your head right back and slowly reach your man’s cock down towards your mouth. He then can slowly squat up and down, thrusting his cock in and out of your mouth.

Difficulty: Expert | If you’re not experienced enough, you can definitely end up with an aching back from this position. You also need to be coordinated with your partner when doing this position. Discuss your preferred depth and pace when doing the Jack Hammer. Lastly, to avoid any awkward trips to the ER, make sure that your man is standing in a firm surface– the bed’s a no-no for this.

Bonus Tip: Go for a facial. If cum facials are your thing, you can easily do it with this position! He just needs to slide his cock out from your mouth and then blow his load onto your face.

10Lie Back

Wanna be the baddest bitch of them all? We dare you to try the trickiest blowjob position on this list. Flex your way through his cock with the Lie Back Position.

How to do it: To get into this challenging oral position, you need to lie down on your back, either on a bed or a table. Your entire body should be on the bed/table, except for your head. It should be hanging on over the side of the bed/table. After that, your man should be standing just beside the table/bed with his dick just placed right in your head. Depending on the height of the bed/table, he can squat so you can fully reach his penis. Once you’re all set, tilt your head backward take his cock on your mouth.

Difficulty: Expert | To our blowjob beginners out there, don’t do this yet! This intense position requires flexibility. Proper coordination is needed on this too unless you want to break your neck! If you’re not into deepthroat, you might also skip this one as this position is perfect for women who prefer hard and rough blowjobs.

Bonus Tip: Up for nipple play? Since your man’s hands are free with this oral sex position, you can ask him to stimulate your nipples while you’re doing some oral action.

11Full Submission

Looking for blowjob positions that incorporate bondage play? You should definitely check out the Full Submission position! It’s pretty much like a regular blowjob position but with a kinky twist. All you need is some restraints/bed restraints, and you’re good to go.

How to do it: Ask your partner to lie in bed. Next, ask him to stretch his arms and put his hands right on the sides of the bedpost. You will then cuff him to restrain his arms. If you have a bed restraint set, we recommend tying his ankles too. Once he’s all tied up, start teasing his body by giving him gentle massages around his cock— don’t touch his penis just yet. Slowly move your hands towards his inner thighs, then start massaging his thighs again, ignoring that pleasure spot.

After a few minutes of teasing, place your hands in his penis and start giving him a handjob. After that, start licking the glans penis (head) for a few minutes before putting the whole thing in your mouth. Keep on sucking and blowing his schlong until he reaches climax, or once you’re ready to try another position or activity.

Difficulty: Beginner | You or your partner don’t have to make acrobatic movements for this one.

Bonus Tip: Take this blowjob position to the next level by using other BDSM toys on the play, such as ticklers, paddles, nipple clamps, whips, eye masks, and more.

12Suck & Hump

If you love pillow humping, you should definitely try this position! The Suck & Hump basically lets you rub your clitoris with a pillow while giving head to your partner. What’s great about this compared to other blowjob positions is that both parties are getting pleasured.

How to do it: Ask your partner to lie on the bed, legs wide open. Position yourself in the middle of his legs. Once you’ve figured out your body’s right placement, put a pillow underneath you and sit down on that pillow. As you blow his penis, start humping the pillow, pleasing your clitoris with every lick, suck, and blow.

Difficulty: Beginner | This is pretty much the standard blowjob position but adds pillow humping into the action. Same with other positions, there’s no need for complicated positioning nor movement.

Bonus Tip: Ever heard of lay-on vibrators? These toys are usually shaped like a tongue or leaf, stimulating the whole vulva with its flat shape. It’s great for pillow humping as it brings deep vibrations to your pleasure nub. So if you’re planning to try this position, we suggest using this type of vibe for added sensations!

13Blow & Bounce

This position is pretty similar to the Suck & Hump, as both parties are getting pleasured throughout the deed. However, this one is designed for people who love vaginal or anal penetration. All you need is a bottle of water-based lube and a dildo with a strong suction base.

How to do it: Start by sticking the suction cup dildo in a smooth spot. Have your man stand up straight while you put yourself in a kneeling position. Make sure the lubed-up dildo is just right below your vagina/anus. Once everything is positioned, you can start licking, sucking, and blowing your man’s cock. Meanwhile, your body is thrusting in and out of the dildo. Keep on doing this position until you and your man reach climax. We also recommend doing this as part of the foreplay; stop once you’re ready to get filled in with the real thing.

Difficulty: Experienced | Though this position doesn’t require acrobatic movements, some beginners might still find this complicated as coordinating your body to ride a dildo and give a blowjob may take some practice.

Bonus Tip: Use a vibrating or thrusting dildo! It’ll make the job easier for you as you don’t need to bop up and down.

14Handstand

If your man is fit enough to hold a handstand for a couple of minutes, we suggest this unique position. The Head Stand is one of the blowjob positions that are great for thrill-seekers, as it requires your man to do a fun (yet risky) position.

How to do it: Ask your partner to stand on his outstretched hands against the wall; his legs should be straight out on the sides and lying on the wall. You will then stand face to your partner, incline your body to lean to his erect penis, and start giving him head. Since it’s difficult to keep a headstand, we don’t suggest doing some teasing for this position— just go straight to the sucking and blowing part.

Difficulty: Expert | This position requires a few practice sessions. It’s also not doable for everyone as your man should be able to do a handstand for a few minutes for this to work.

Bonus Tip: Consider getting a sex swing! Some adjustable over-the-door swings can provide additional support for your partner when doing this bj position.

15Legs Up

The Legs Up is a more intense version of the Face Fuck position. Instead of just keeping your legs on the bed, it’s gonna be enveloped on your partner’s shoulders. Take note, though, you need to be flexible when doing this position, or you might end up with body aches at the end of the session.

How to do it: Start with getting into the Face Fuck position. Lie down on the bed with some pillows under your head. Next, ask your partner to position on top of you, facing his cock right on your lips. After that, you must gently raise your lower body; your partner will grab your legs and carefully place them on his shoulders. Once everything’s set, open your mouth and let your man thrust in and out of it.

Difficulty: Expert | This requires tons of flexibility on your end and proper coordination between you and your partner.

Bonus Tip: Before doing expert-level blowjob positions such as this one, always establish a non-verbal safeword. So if you’re having some trouble and want to stop the act immediately, you tell your partner instantly despite having your partner’s penis is in your mouth. If you’re unsure with what signals, you can go with pinching his arm three times, squeezing his wrist two times, or slapping his thigh repeatedly.

16Side by Side

This is one of the blowjob positions that may look difficult initially but is actually easy to execute. It’s also great for couples who want a unique bj position but aren’t ready to get into complicated moves.

How to do it: To do this position, your partner needs to lie on his side. Next, he will need to raise his upper body up on one elbow; his legs are driven apart, one knee is bent, and the feet are crosswise. He should be putting his legs in a circular position. After that, lie down on the bed and put your head inside the circular ring. Keep on pushing your head until your lips meet his cock. Once positioned, you open your mouth and start blowing his penis. He can also thrust in and out of your mouth; just choose the technique that would work best.

Difficulty: Beginner | It may require a few adjustments at the start of the deed, but beginners can easily master this position.

Bonus Tip: Want to make your blowjob sessions a whole lot sweeter? Get yourself some flavored lubricants! It’ll make you feel like you’re sucking in a warm and squishy candy.

17Legs Wide Open

If you’re looking for blowjob positions that let you have full access to your partner’s balls and perineum, you’re gonna love this one! Aside from being an easy position, it also lets you pleasure your partner’s other pleasure points with ease.

How to do it: Ask your partner to lie back, with his legs spreading wide apart and slightly bent at the knees. You will then kneel right in front of him, lean your body towards his penis and start blowing him. Since the position exposes his balls and perineum, use your hands to lightly massage the said areas.

Difficulty: Beginner | This is one of the easiest blowjob positions on the list!

Bonus Tip: Have a lay-on vibrator, finger vibrator, or mini vibe? Use it when doing this sultry position. Just run the vibrating toy all over your partner’s balls, perineum, and anal opening— it’ll surely excite his senses!

1869 With a Twist

Want a blowjob position that’s out-of-the-box and challenging? Unleash the sultry goddess in you with this expert-level position. As the name implies, the 69 With a Twist is similar to the 69 position— you’re both positioned on each other’s genitals. The difference is the man is on the top and is somewhat lying down on your body.

How to do it: Start by lying on your back, spreading your legs wide, and bending your knees. Your partner should lie on top of you, with his back on her knees and his penis right on your lips. Your partner’s legs should also be bent and spread apart while his hands are bent at the elbows, using them to support his body weight. Once you and your partner are positioned, you can then start sucking his cock or ask him to thrust his penis in and out of your mouth.

Difficulty: Expert | This position requires tons of practice! It also may require some extra strength for you and your boo, so make sure to be fit enough before trying this sultry position.

Bonus Tip: If you’re trying out expert-level blowjob positions, we recommend practicing the positions without the actual blowjob. Just get used to the position first and see if it’s doable for you and your boo.

19Lazy Play

If you want to give your man the sloppy blowjobs that he deserves but isn’t in the mood to move a lot, you can opt for this position. All you need is a few pillows, and you’re good to go!

How to do it: Ask your partner to lie on his back. Next, put some pillows on his stomach. You will then lie on the pillow, facing his erect cock. Put some water-based lubricant on your hand and gently stroke his penis. After a few minutes of handjob warmup, start licking and sucking his penis.

Difficulty: Beginner | It’s one of the easiest blowjob positions on the list.

Bonus Tip: Amp up the sensual vibe with music! Sexy tunes will definitely get you and your boo immersed in the deed. If you’re unsure with songs to put on your erotic playlist, check out our Spotify playlists here to give you some ideas.

20All Out

This position is hella fun but takes great balancing skills! So before trying this on your next sesh, make sure your partner is ready to balance their body out.

How to do it: You’ll need to sit down on the bed, keeping your legs together while your knees are bent. Your partner will gently put his thighs on both of your shoulders, lie down on his back, and put his hands right on the bed. His upper body should be supported by his arms. Once you’re both positioned, start giving him a blowjob.

Difficulty: Expert | You need to carry some of his weight, and he needs to have great balancing skills. This requires tons of practice, so beginners are definitely not allowed to try this one.

Bonus Tip: For blowjob positions requiring some serious balancing skills, you can try using sex swings (ones you can connect through the ceiling). It’ll surely give the extra support that you and your partner need.

Blowjob Tips

We know you’re excited to try these positions, but before you do just that, make sure to know these blowjob tips first. Following these guidelines will ensure a safe and fun oral play for you and your lover.

1Talk about it first.

For a better experience, discuss each other’s preferences. Do you like to swallow or spit? Does he find cum facials hot? What are his most sensitive spots? Are there specific tongue swirls that he likes? Never shy away from these topics, as communication is the key when it comes to sexual activities.

2Start with some teasing.

Send him some sexy photos. Text him how you badly want to suck his throbbing cock. Heck, even send some memes about oral sex.

3 Kiss it like it’s yours.

You don’t necessarily have to suck it the moment his dick touches your lips. Start slow. Begin with kisses. Go for light pecks first then move to sloppy ones. You can also let your tongue run on the other parts of his groin to tease him even more.

4Keep in mind the teeth.

Some prefer subtle bites or pressure when receiving a blowjob, but this varies per person. To avoid hurting your partner, stay aware so you wouldn’t accidentally bite your partner’s schlong.

5Be enthusiastic.

Ah… the unofficial golden rule of sex. When doing BJs, make sure you’re into it! Have you ever experienced getting oral sex from someone that looks uninterested? It sucks! (No pun intended). Enthusiasm can kill the steamy vibe so make sure you’re actually into it when giving head.

6Practice!

We get you, luv. You want to give your babe the best blowjob ever. But for that to happen, you have to practice. No one can be a pro with one session. Be patient with yourself.

7Add sex toys in the mix.

Thankfully, there are a lot of toys now that you can use to please your boo. You can use a vibrator and play it around the head of your partner’s cock. If you want to get friskier, you can use prostate massagers or anal plugs.

8Don’t forget the lube!

We know that some of you prefer to use spit during blowjobs, but trust us, lubes can definitely make the deed a lot better! It’ll make the bj sloppier than usual without making your throat dry AF. Not only that, but there are edible and flavored lubes that’ll satisfy your sweet tooth and make you more engaged in the act.

9Be attentive.

Whether you’re trying beginner or experienced blowjob positions, always observe your partner. Take note of their body language to see if they’re uncomfortable or enjoying your blowjob. Does he enjoy it when you suck it up to the base? Does he like it better when you’re flicking your tongue right on their glans penis? By doing this, you’ll be able to make the necessary adjustments when giving them a BJ.

10Take the pressure off!

For our blowjob newbies, remember this tip! If you’re just new in the BJ game, don’t expect to be incredibly great at it. Instead of putting so much pressure on yourself, just enjoy the deed. Your partner will surely appreciate seeing you enjoying rather than being so focused on making him cum.

Blowjob Essentials

As you’ve learned the different blowjob positions and oral sex tips, you’re probably so pumped to apply these learnings to your next sensual sesh. With that, here are some must-try BJ essentials that’ll make the deed a whole lot better. Read on!

1Lauvette Pineapple Lube

Looking for a flavored lubricant to amp up your sensual senses? Here’s a fruity treat that’ll give a refreshing twist to your oral plays. The Lauvette Pineapple Lube has a fruity pineapple aroma and silky feel to it- ideal lube for various kinds of sexual plays. This edible lube is made with a water-based, non-staining, and long-lasting formula, making it a great pleasure staple for your sexcapades.

 

2Sliquid Edible Lube – Green Apple

Want a fruity lube but pineapple ain’t your thing? No worries, as we’ve got tons of flavored lubes in the shop, including the Sliquid Edible Lube – Green Apple. This edible lubricant has a mild, non-toxic, and hypoallergenic formula, ensuring your safety while getting into a heated frenzy. It’s also free from DEA, gluten, glycerin, glycol, parabens, PEG, sorbitol, propylene glycol, and sulfates. And if you’re worried about its sweetener– don’t fret, as this water-based lube isn’t made with sugar and other sugar derivatives.

 

3Lauvette Chocolate Lube

Here’s a lube for those who are looking to satisfy your sweet tooth. The Chocolate Lube gives that chocolate-ty aroma and taste, making it a fun addition to your sexplorations. It’s great for various kinds of erotic plays, such as oral sex and body massages. It’s made with a body-safe and long-lasting formula, emulating your body’s natural lubrication.

 

4Boners 3-Ring Kit

Contrary to popular belief, penis rings aren’t just made for vaginal or anal sex. You can also use them for non-penetrative activities, such as blowjobs. What’s great about using them on BJs is that not only will their erections be longer-lasting, but they’ll give new sensations to the area.

That’s why on your next blowjob sesh, suggest your boyfriend use beginner penis rings, such as the Boners 3-Ring Kit. These silicone-made rings are wonderfully soft and stretchable, ensuring to amp up your sexcapades with every use. They’re also easy to clean with water and soap or with a sex toy cleaner.

 

5Vibrating Handjob Stroker

Level up your blowjob game with the Vibrating Handjob Stroker! It features an open design, providing an optimal fit for all sizes. You can also use it to pleasure your partner’s shaft while you suck the life out of his glans penis. It’s also equipped with 10 pulsating vibration modes, adding buzzing pleasure to your partner’s cock. Not only that, but it comes with easy one-button control, making you change modes with ease.

 

Frequently Asked Questions

Now that you’ve learned the best blowjob positions, we know you’re so hyped to try these positions with your boo. But if you still have questions about these positions, and blowjobs in general– don’t worry, we got you covered. We’ve answered some of the frequently asked questions about BJs. Read on!

1Why is my partner sooo quiet during the deed?

It’s usual for men to be quiet when getting pleasured. According to this Reddit forum, some men tend to concentrate on the sensations while others find it uncomfortable with making noise because they are afraid of being seen as weak or emasculated.

We don’t personally know your babe, so what we can suggest is to talk to him about it. Ask him if he’s comfortable with the blowjobs positions that you’re doing. Also, let him know how you can enjoy it if he’s making sounds or even instructions during the deed.

2What’s the best way to ask my partner about my blowjob game?

We get that it can be awkward to ask them about it, but all it takes is a simple “So how was it?”

Just open your mind to feedback and don’t take it personally if he doesn’t like certain things that you’ve done during the BJ play. And if he said that you’re already good, just take note of the things you’ve done during the sesh, and stick with it (with a few spices here and there– such as trying the best blowjob positions in this list.)

3What should I do if my mouth gets tired during the deed?

Switch it with your hands, sis! Don’t push yourself too hard. Using your hands and mouth alternately is as enjoyable as the full-on blowjob. We also suggest using the “mouth rest time” to have a quick dirty talk– let him know how you love his cock on your mouth.

4Is there a way to prevent gagging?

Though porn makes you think it’s a good thing, gagging can be pretty uncomfortable on the giver. So don’t push yourself on getting gagged if that’s not your thing, sweetie. To avoid gagging, place the tip of your tongue on the roof of your mouth, blocking your throat.

5What to do if my partner’s schlong has a foreskin?

Don’t fret, sis. There are no major changes that you need to do if your partner has a foreskin. If you’re starting the deed with a handjob, let the foreskin move with your hand. Once you’re ready to give him a good licking, gently pull the foreskin down to expose the head.

Takeaway

Sex isn’t just about grinding and thrusting on each other’s genitals. Penetration is like a pizza’s crust. It’s the base, the one that holds everything together. But do you know what makes a pizza flavorful? The toppings! And in the fiery world of sex, foreplay is the toppings.

Focus on the toppings too! Foreplay acts such as blowjobs should be spiced up from time to time.

That’s why you should open yourself to new blowjob positions and techniques. You don’t need to rush it though– start with the basics, then move to the trickier ones when you’re ready. Stay safe and have fun!