25 Exciting Gay Sex Positions You Should Try Tonight

Note: This guide focuses on gay male sex positions, so we use he/him for clarity. We’ll also be using terms like “giver” which pertains to the top and “receiver” for the bottom. 

From the missionary to the helicopter, you might think you’ve done it all. But there are always, always things out there left for you to try to spice up your sex life. And yes, we know it’s called this article “gay sex positions,” but any sex position could be for everyone if you just learn how to maneuver right. In this article, not only will we tackle different gay positions but we will also answer common questions about anal play.

What are the Different Gay Sexual Practices?

Before proceeding with the best gay kamasutra positions, let’s discuss what constitutes anal sex. There are five activities under the umbrella of gay or men-loving-men sex.

1Oral Sex

This activity involves stimulating your partner’s genitals with your mouth. You can either lick or suck their penis (blowjob), lick or suck their balls (teabagging) or lick their anus (analingus or rimming).

2Frotting

This sexual practice involves both men rubbing their erect dicks against each other. It’s ptetty much similar to dry humping or lesbian tribbing.

3Mutual Masturbation

As the name implies, both men would be masturbating in front or next to each other. They may use their hands only or use sex toys. It’s like watching pornography while masturbating, but instead of a stranger on a screen, you’re watching your partner in real-time.

4Anal Fingering

This sexual practice involves a person inserting their finger into their male partner. This is a great activity if both parties haven’t tried anal sex yet. It’s also one of the best ways to stimulate the prostate gland, a male erogenous zone known as the “male g-spot.”

5Penis-to-Anus Penetration

This is the commonly known gay sexual activity. It involves a person penetrating their male partner’s anus with their penis and then moving it back and forth until both parties climax.

Best Gay Sex Positions

Whether you’re gay or straight, if you’re new to anal sex or you just want something new to explore.We have listed below different gay kamasutra positions for you and your boo.

In this guide, we’ll be using the terms giver and receiver. The giver, or top, is the person penetrating, while the receiver, or bottom, is the person being penetrated.

1 Pirate’s Bounty

Skill Level: Beginner

It may sound too fancy, but it’s less complicated than it actually is. This position allows for better thrusting and, thus, a deep penetration. Try stretching your hips before doing this to ease your muscles. And if the receiver is flexible enough, the giver can push the elevated leg all the way towards the receiver’s head.

How to do it: 

• Step 1: The receiver lies down on his back with one leg down and the other lifted in the air.
• Step 2: The giver kneels in front of the receiver, places the elevated leg on his shoulder, and enters him.

2 Suspended Congress

Skill Level: Advanced

This gay Kamasutra position is great for those who want to get some good cardio during sex. It’s perfect for couples with strong endurance and stamina.

How to do it: 

• Step 1: The giver stands and picks up the receiver, while the receiver wraps his arms around the giver’s neck for support.
• Step 2: While lifting the receiver, the giver enters him, holding his thighs for additional support during thrusting.
• Step 3: To make the position easier, or if the giver can’t carry the receiver’s full weight, he can press the receiver’s back against a wall or another solid structure.

Bonus Tip: Use a sex swing for added support!

3 Arch

Skill Level: Intermediate

The Arch is a sex position for experienced gay couples who want to take their bedroom play to the next level. It requires significant back flexibility from the receiver, which is why it’s not recommended for beginners. That’s why it’s important to practice and prepare your back muscles before trying this position. If you’re ready, the angle of penetration it provides is more intense and stimulating for both giver and receiver.

How to do it: 

• Step 1: The receiver lies on his back, facing upward, and lifts his hips. His feet and the back of his neck remain planted on the bed.
• Step 2: The giver kneels facing the receiver and enters him by thrusting his pelvis beneath the receiver’s raised hips.

4 The Bodyguard

Skill Level: Advanced

If lying down has become boring, try a standing position like The Bodyguard. Standing positions let both tops and bottoms enjoy a greater range of motion compared to traditional horizontal positions. You can move together, or one partner can stay still while the other establishes the rhythm.

How to do it:

• Step 1: The receiver faces away from the giver, who enters from behind.
• Step 2: The receiver holds onto a sturdy wall, table, or pillar for support. This allows the giver to focus on thrusting while the receiver fully feels the penetration.

5 Bumper Cars

Skill Level: Advanced

As playful as it sounds, this gay sex position is best suited for active, flexible couples. It requires not only physical strength and flexibility but also precise coordination to execute properly. Despite the challenge, it can be incredibly rewarding, as it’s a unique variation compared to most traditional gay sex positions.

How to do it:

• Step 1: Both partners get on all fours, facing away from each other, similar to doggy style but reversed.
• Step 2: The receiver maintains the position, while the giver penetrates from the opposite direction. This can be tricky, as the giver has less visual control and needs careful coordination to maintain rhythm and angle.

6 The Diver

Skill Level: Advanced

If you’re both confident with your upper and lower body strength, The Diver might be something you want to try. As its name suggests, this gay position gives tops a chance to dive inside their partner like never before. Just don’t thrust too hard, or the bottom might end up with a broken nose!

How to do it:

• Step 1: The receiver gets on all fours, while the giver enters from behind.
• Step 2: The giver gradually stands up, lifting the receiver by the thighs or waist. The receiver then wraps his legs around the giver, looking like he’s doing a plank while the giver holds him.
• Step 3: Once positioned, the giver can proceed with thrusting.

7 Bottom Power Up

Skill Level: Advanced

This position allows the receiver to be much more dynamic, giving bottoms a chance to shine.

How to do it:

• Step 1: The giver sits in a chair and brings his knees up to his chest, exposing his penis outward and forward.
• Step 2: The receiver backs into position, allowing the penis to enter him.
• Step 3: Once inserted, the receiver takes control, using the giver’s penis to thrust until a rhythm is established.

8 Knees and B’s

Skill Level: Intermediate

If you do yoga, this is one of the gay sex positions you’ll enjoy. It’s like a reverse of a Shishuasana or Child’s Pose.

How to do it:

• Step 1: The receiver lies down on the floor or bed.
• Step 2: The giver grasps the receiver’s ankles, calves, or knees (whatever is most comfortable) and gently pushes their legs toward the receiver’s chest.
• Step 3: The giver then inserts his penis into the receiver. The further the legs are pushed back, the tighter the backside feels.

9 The Rocking Chair

Skill Level: Advanced

This position may seem easy, but it’s much trickier. It’s even one of the most intense gay Kamasutra positions. Make sure to check in with each other during play, or let your partner know if you feel any discomfort.

How to do it:

• Step 1: The giver lies back and pulls their knees to their chest.
• Step 2: The receiver sits backward between the giver’s legs and inserts the giver’s penis himself.
• Step 3: Once comfortably positioned, the receiver establishes the motion and rhythm, rocking back and forth according to their preference.

10 Ride the Camel

Skill Level: Beginner

If you like eye contact during sex, try this gay Kamasutra position. It allows for deep penetration while staying face-to-face with your partner.

How to do it:

• Step 1: The receiver lies on his left side, while the giver kneels and straddles the receiver’s left leg.
• Step 2: The receiver bends his right leg around the right side of the giver’s waist, giving the giver access to the receiver’s anus. Once positioned, the giver can gently push their penis in.

11 The Waterfall

Skill Level: Advanced

This gay sex position requires the giver to be physically strong, as it functions like a bit of a workout. Not only that, but you’ll need a sturdy and comfortable bed.

How to do it:

• Step 1: The giver lies on the ground and props their calves up on the bed.
• Step 2: The receiver straddles the giver’s legs and inserts the penis into the receiver’s anus. This move can be tricky, so communicate openly with your partner about what feels comfortable.
• Step 3: Once positioned, either the top or bottom can start the session of passion and pleasure.

12 Nip and Tongue

Skill Level: Beginner

This position is for couples who love giving and receiving some tongue action down there or playing with each other’s nipples. It’s also one of the gay sex positions that allows for equal participation.

How to do it:

• Step 1: The giver lies flat on their back, while the receiver squats and hovers above the giver’s face, aligned with their nipples and penis.
• Step 2: While balancing, the receiver holds the giver’s nipples in each hand and simultaneously lowers themselves onto the giver’s mouth.

13 Superman

Skill Level: Advanced

This is one of the gay Kamasutra positions that’s more playful and suited for those with good endurance. In this position, the receiver needs to maintain balance with their hands to let the giver establish a steady rhythm. Teamwork is key, and both partners should communicate if they feel any discomfort.

How to do it:

• Step 1: The giver kneels on a bed, keeping their body as straight as possible.
• Step 2: The receiver straddles the giver from behind; both partners need strong balance for this move.
• Step 3: While straddling and facing away from the giver, the receiver leans back, allowing the giver to grasp their wrists and stabilize them.
• Step 4: The receiver lifts their legs and starts to arch backward, while the giver controls the thrusting.

14 The Man Chair

Skill Level: Intermediate

Looking for unconventional gay Kamasutra positions? This one is worth trying. You can perform it on the edge of a bed or a chair, with your feet on the floor.

How to do it:

• Step 1: The giver sits down while the receiver sits on the giver’s legs, both facing the same direction.
• Step 2: The receiver rides the giver’s penis by pressing up with their feet and controls the angle of entry by arching their back, taking the driver’s seat.
• Step 3: For added pleasure, the giver can reach around to stimulate the receiver’s nipples or kiss and nibble their shoulders and ears.

15 Rusty Trombone

Skill Level: Beginner

This is one of the gay sex positions that allows for equal power play between top and bottom. It’s a simple extension of the classic 69.

How to do it:

• Step 1: Partner A lies on their back on a bed or another comfortable surface.
• Step 2: Partner B straddles Partner A’s chest, positioning their butt close to Partner A’s face.
• Step 3: The couple can then stimulate each other’s genitals using their mouth, fingers, or sex toys.

Bonus Tip: It’s one of the gay Kamasutra positions where proper hygiene is especially important, so showering and cleansing the genital areas beforehand is recommended.

16Analicious

Skill Level: Beginner

Looking for gay sex positions focused on rimming? You’re going to love this one. Give your partner a sizzling treat with the Analicious position. It may feel tricky at first, but it gets easier with practice. All you need is a sturdy dining table and chair.

How to do it:

• Step 1: The giver (the one who will rim) sits backward in a chair, placing their legs behind the chair’s legs and resting their shoulders and head on the tabletop.
• Step 2: The receiver (the one being rimmed) climbs onto the tabletop, kneeling directly above the giver’s face and facing their direction.
• Step 3: The receiver spreads their legs, while the giver uses their hands to separate the receiver’s buttocks. Once positioned, the giver can begin performing analingus.

17Peach Parade

Skill Level: Intermediate

In this gay Kamasutra position, the giver has better access to the receiver’s anus while enjoying a stunning and sensual view of their partner’s butt.

How to do it:

• Step 1: The receiver lies on their back and raises their legs, pressing their thighs against their chest.
• Step 2: The giver stands in front of the receiver and gently inserts a well-lubricated erection into the receiver’s anus.

18Zombie

Skill Level: Intermediate

Here’s another spicy analingus position to try! The Zombie position is highly recommended if the receiver has good flexibility.

How to do it:

• Step 1: The giver sits with their legs slightly apart.
• Step 2: The receiver stands facing the same direction as the giver, positioning their butt over the giver’s face.
• Step 3: The receiver leans forward fully, making their anus easily accessible. The giver can then begin performing analingus.

19Joystick

Skill Level: Advanced

For experienced couples looking for complex gay Kamasutra positions, this one is worth trying.

How to do it:

• Step 1: The receiver lies on their side, resting one palm under their head while the other hand holds their hair. Their legs are spread apart and slightly bent.
• Step 2: The giver positions themselves between the receiver’s legs, aligning their penis with the receiver’s anus.
• Step 3: Once positioned, the giver gently inserts their penis into the receiver’s anus.

20Victory

Skill Level: Advanced

Looking for standing gay Kamasutra positions? Try the Victory position. It’s a bit tricky and is usually done in a doorway.

How to do it:

• Step 1: The receiver stands with their back to the doorway, legs spread apart and slightly bent.
• Step 2: The giver stands between the receiver’s legs, leaning their back against the opposite side of the doorway.
• Step 3: The receiver places a leg over the giver’s shoulder. The giver holds the receiver’s hip, and they can either engage in frotting or the giver can anally penetrate the receiver.

21Booty Treat

Skill Level: Beginner

Love to rim or get rimmed? The Booty Treat is a position you should definitely explore with your partner. It gives you full backstage access to please and tease your partner’s bum.

How to do it:

• Step 1: The giver should kneel or sit on the floor, while the receiver stands up in front of the giver.
• Step 2: The giver should adjust their position so that their face matches up to the receiver’s butt. After that, they can wrap their arms around the receiver’s thighs and push their face into the receiver’s butt cheeks to rim them.

22Reverse Cowboy

Skill Level: Intermediate

Time to turn your cowboy mode on and enjoy a wild ride! This position is similar to reverse cowgirl, as the giver lies down on the bed while the receiver is on top facing the other direction.

How to do it: 

• Step 1: The giver lies down on the bed, while the receiver straddles him, facing the opposite direction.
• Step 2: Once positioned, the receiver grinds or bounces up and down.
• Step 3: Due to the angle of entry, it can be difficult for the receiver to hit his p-spot in this position, so some adjustments may be needed during the deed.

23Love Train

Skill Level: Intermediate

If you’re a versa, someone who can do both top and bottom, or if you have some threesome fantasies but aren’t ready for a third partner, then consider trying this one! All you need is a suction cup dildo and a smooth, sturdy surface.

How to do it:

• Step 1: Stick the suction cup dildo to a smooth surface, making sure it’s aligned with the giver’s anus.
• Step 2: The giver kneels down, while the receiver kneels in front of him. The giver then pushes his anus onto the suction dildo, making adjustments if needed.
• Step 3: Once he’s settled in, the giver starts thrusting into the receiver’s anus.

24Knees Up

Skill Level: Advanced

Quite frankly, this is one of the riskiest sex positions we’ve shared on the blog, as one wrong move can put too much pressure on the receiver’s neck. So, for anyone attempting this, be very cautious!

It’s also one of those novelty positions you do mostly to challenge yourself and your partner, but not necessarily something to end the deed with. Try it for a few minutes, then switch to more comfortable positions.

How to do it:

• Step 1: The receiver lies down on the bed or floor with his legs raised.
• Step 2: The giver stands in front of the receiver, holding his ankles or legs to lift them and press them toward his chest.
• Step 3: The giver squats slightly and pushes his penis into the receiver.

25Live Show

Skill Level: Beginner

If you’re feeling lazy but still want to have some intimate playtime with your partner, you can opt for this one.

How to do it:

• Step 1: The giver and receiver sit down or lie on their backs.
• Step 2: They either masturbate or give each other handjobs. You can make out, talk dirty, or share an intimate gaze during the deed.

Bonus Tip: Use a sex toy like a masturbator or stroker to amp up the pleasure sesh.

Tips

You may think you already know all there is to gay sex, but there is always more to be learned! Knowing the different gay kamastura positions is just not enough.Here are some more basic sex tips for those who want to upgrade their backdoor plays. 

1Double your foreplay time.

We cannot stress the importance of foreplay enough. You would want to get down to business as soon as possible, but you should establish good foreplay to make sex even better! Focus on kissing and teasing before getting down to business. Build up a smooth transition to the main event and enjoy the process! 

2Keep your hands busy.

While kissing or giving oral or something else, your hands need to be doing something! They can be touching your partner’s chest, jerking them off, or caressing their hand. Or your hands can be holding on to the bedpost for dear life. Your hands should never be just lying by your side doing nothing.

3Safe sex is great sex.

Aside from learning the different gay kamasutra positions, learning and follow safe sex practices is a must. Several years after the AIDS epidemic, there’s still a misconception that gay sex is dirty and undoubtedly leads to STDs, which isn’t true. Having sex with condoms is the most responsible thing to do for yourself and your partner. And even before doing the deed, make sure you know each other’s status and history to prevent further complications. 

4Remember to breathe.

It’s a very simple thing to do, but when you’re in the middle of thrilling sex, you can get so excited that you forget to breathe. Proper breath control will help you manage your orgasms. It’s good to pay attention to your breathing if you tend to get too excited and ejaculate prematurely.

5Always use lube.

When doing these gay sex positions, never ever forget this trip! Personal or sexual lubricants minimize friction between your penis and your partner’s anus or sex toy. Remember that the anus, unlike the vagina, doesn’t self-lubricate. And if you insert you engage in anal sex without using lube, you’re putting yourself or your partner at risk, as non-lube sex can cause anal tears or injury.

When it comes to the type of lubricant to use, it’s best to go with silicone-based lubes, as they’re thicker than water-based lube; there is no need to reapply as often as you would when using a water-based lube. We also suggest keeping your anal sex lube simple— it should be unflavored and unscented. Save the flavored ones for oral play!

6Aim for the P-spot.

Ah yes, the man’s g-spot. When you’re on top, make sure to aim for your partner’s p-spot. The p-spot is essentially the prostate. Maximum pleasure comes from prostate stimulation, which can be very satisfying and lead to a fulfilling orgasm.

7Make use of vibrating cock rings.

While trying the different gay kamasutra positions, we recommend using love toys such as cock rings. Using a vibrating cock ring can make the man on top feel good, helping him reach a full-body climax.  Plus, it also makes the giver’s erection firmer and longer-lasting feels good for the man bottoming too. The two of you can enjoy shared orgasms by using a vibrating cock ring.  

8Spread your butt cheeks wide before he penetrates you.

By wide, we mean WIDE.

After generously applying lube, you want him to penetrate you slow and deep. Remember to let your top know if you feel any discomfort in this process. That way he can apply more lube and you can adjust more to feel relaxed. And as for the toppers, pull his butt cheeks apart as far as they go before penetration.

9Bigger isn’t always better

Sure a huge penis may be nice to stroke at look at longingly. But if the penis is too huge, it may be hard to fit it in the back door. So make sure you have trained those bum muscles for a huge penis. Remember that size isn’t everything. What matters is the satisfaction, safety and enjoyment you have with each other.

10Change up locations.

The environment is a huge factor when making love! You want to be in a place where you feel thrill and good safety. Sex doesn’t always have to be in the bedroom. If you’re feeling adventurous, you would want to have your lovemaking sessions in the living room, kitchen, laundry or even outdoors.

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Frequently Asked Questions

Now that you know the different position styles in gay sex, you may still have questions looming in your mind. Don’t worry because we got you covered in this FAQ below.

1 Is foreplay in gay sex important?

Yes! Foreplay is essential in setting the mood for the sensual play ahead. It can even set who will be top or bottom depending on your mood. Giving your partner passionate kisses and touching them in their sweet spots are great expressions of desire. Sufficient time spent on foreplay is a vital element to great sex.

2What are the best gay kamasutra positions for beginners?

This comes down to preference and what angles turn you on. Whichever gay sex position it may be, getting penetrated from behind can be what gets you going or being the one on top. Missionary can be a thrill, too, because you look into your partner’s eyes while you’re having sex. That kind of intimacy shouldn’t be underestimated either. Whether it be missionary, doggie, or suspended congress, we recommend you try out different gay kamasutra positions and communicate well with your partner about doing them.

3How much lube should I use during gay sex?

You can never have too much lube. Unlike the vagina, the anus lacks lubrication, so you have to apply tons of lube before any penetration. Penetration without lubrication can tear the delicate tissue in the anus, which can lead to pain and bleeding. For comfort, you will need to have your lubricant and plenty of it. Silicone-based lube is recommended for anal as it’s thicker and lasts longer, while water-based lube is best for silicone sex toys.

4Is bottoming during gay sex painful?

Bottoming for the first time can cause some mild pain, especially knowing it’s your first time being penetrated in the bum. The key to lessening the pain is to apply a generous amount of lube around the anus to ease the penetration. It’s also a plus if you’re relaxed when you’re being penetrated because being tense during sex will not help you feel aroused and enjoy the moment.

5How do I reduce the pain from gay sex?

For reducing pain during penetration, we always need to highlight the importance of lube application before anything goes in the bum. Another way to reduce the pain during anal sex is to establish good communication and foreplay with your partner. This means spending enough time giving consent, kissing, cuddling, and perhaps a sensual massage. These steps will help make sure both of you are relaxed and are in the mood to have sex.

6What’s the best way to clean after gay sex?

Cleaning up is the small price you have to pay after an enjoyable time with your behind. This is especially if you have tried all sorts of gay sex positions. Start with washing the anal and genital region. Rinse the area well and pat dry. Those with foreskin should gently pull it back and clean underneath to remove semen buildup. Consider anal douching as well as cleaning up. Anal douching is the hygienic practice of rinsing the rectum with a douching device such as a douche bulb.

7Is oral during gay sex safe without a condom?

Some sexually transmitted infections (STIs) can spread through oral sex. We recommend using condoms or dental dams for those who want to decrease their chances of getting an STI. People who are giving unprotected oral sex should ask for a throat swab to test for gonorrhea and chlamydia.

8What’s the best way to do oral during gay sex?

Regardless if this is gay sex or not, this comes down to preference as well. Oral could be just as pleasurable for the receiving as the giving partner. Oral can either be a precursor to anal or be its standalone sex. Giving your partner head and then having them give the same to you can be a mind-blowing experience that will result in wild orgasms for both parties.

9What are the common STI symptoms?

Common STI symptoms include itching, blisters or sores, painful bowel movements, soreness while sitting, bleeding, and rectal spasms. You should always get tested if you’ve engaged in unprotected anal sex, even in the absence of symptoms. That includes rimming (oral-anal sex). If your partner had a throat or oral STI, it could have spread to your rectum.

10What can I do to avoid STIs?

Unprotected anal sex could lead to the transmission of sexually transmitted infections (STIs). To minimize the risk of STI transmission, you should wear a condom during anal sex. You should also pay attention to the type of lubricant to use, as oil-based lubricants can damage latex condoms. We recommend using water-based lubricants as they are safe to use with condoms.

Takeaway

Yes, there are plenty of gay sex positions to try and enjoy out there, but you should always have to practice safe sex whenever you do it.

Remember to establish good communication with your partner and always get tested to ensure you have a safe and fun, sensual time together. We hope this article has helped you learn new ways to have fun with your boo, and again, always practice safe sex!