35 Wonderfully Wild Anal Sex Positions (Say Yes to Anal Orgasms!)

For some, anal sex can be intimidating. Since most people assume that anal comes with complicated preparations, acrobatic positions and unavoidable pain, they shy away from doing it. What they don’t realize is that by not trying, they are losing a chance to experience a different kind of pleasure.

Cum on, life’s too short for you not to experience something new in the bedroom. Go ahead and spice up your sex life with some booty action. As long as you’ve prepared well enough, doing a backdoor entry can bring a lot of fun for you and your partner.

Here are some of the best anal sex positions for backdoor fun. We’ve provided not just a step-by-step guide, but also an illustration of each position. Just for your reference though, the giver is one penetrating the anus, while the receiver is the one getting penetrated. Let’s get started!

1Missionary

Skill Level: Beginner | Since everyone’s familiar with this position, it’s pretty easy to do, as compared to more exotic sex positions.

Missionary is one of the most common sex positions, as well as one of the most intimate positions for some steamy lovemaking.

How to do it:

• Step 1: The receiver must lie on their back.
• Step 2: Meanwhile, the giver should positioned themselves on top with their legs between the receivers.
• Step 3: Once everything’s positioned, the giver must then gently thrust the receiver’s bum.

2Plug and Play

Skill Level: Beginner | This position is good for those who are still nervous about anal sex but curious enough to do it. Just choose a beginner-friendly butt plug for comfortable use.

If you’re not if you or your partner want to go all out, you can do a test drive first with this position.

How to do it:

• Step 1: Have the receiver lie down.
• Step 2: Go for some slow foreplay, exploring the receiver’s body with the giver’s hands or a handy vibrator.
• Step 3: Insert a well-lubed butt plug to the receiver’s anus.
• Step 4: If the receiver enjoys the sensation, you can move onto the penis or strap-on.

3Cowgirl

Skill Level: Beginner | What’s good about this position is that the receiver is in charge. They can move in their preferred pace, angle, and depth.

Get yourself a wild ride with the Cowgirl position. This is perfect for beginners as the receiver can control the depth and pace.

How to do it:

• Step 1: Have the giver lie down.
• Step 2: The receiver will position on top of the giver.
• Step 3: The receiver will then lower yourself to the giver’s penis/strap-on.
• Step 4: Start straddling! For women, you can also stimulate your clit while doing it for more aaaah-wesome sensations.

4Doggy Style

Skill Level: Beginner | It’s an easy-peasy position as everyone’s familiar with it. And because the receiver’s ass is in front of their man, the giver will have easier backdoor access. To spice it up, you can use a doggy-style strap for additional support.

Of course, this anal sex positions guide wouldn’t be complete with the OG position: Doggy Style. If your man wants a full view of your cute ass, this is the perfect position for that.

How to do it:

• Step 1: The receiver will get down onto their hands and knees, with legs spreading out.
• Step 2: The giver slowly enters anally from behind while on their knees.
• Step 3: Start thrusting! If the receiver’s in front of the wall, they can push back against the giver.
• Step 4: To spice up this position, the giver can also grab their partner’s waist/hips/shoulders/hair to thrust into the receiver with more power. Also for the giver, give those butt cheeks some spanking!

5Spooning

Skill Level: Beginner | What’s good about this position is that both of you are in a comfortable position. The receiver has also a decent amount of control on how the giver deeply penetrates them.

If you want to get all comfy and snuggly, this is the ideal anal sex position. Not only that, among the anal sex positions that we’ve presented here, this is one of the most intimate sex positions you can with your boo.

How to do it:

• Step 1: The couple must lie on their sides, facing the same direction. The giver must be behind the receiver.
• Step 2: After some steamy foreplay, the giver will then enter from behind and anally thrust the receiver.

6Teaspooning

Skill Level: Beginner | It’s a simple position that allows the receiver to have a decent amount of control. Also, you can easily switch to other positions such as doggy when doing the teaspooning.

Teaspooning is a more kneeled-down variation of spooning. If you want to spice up the typical spooning position, you can never go wrong with this one.

How to do it:

• Step 1: The giver must get onto their knees and open it widely.
• Step 2: The receiver must get onto their knees too in front of the giver, facing the same direction.
• Step 3: Let the giver come up close to the receiver and keep their knees together. The giver must then wrap their arms around the receiver and start anally entering the receiver.

7Prone Bone

Skill Level: Beginner | This is an easy butt sex position especially for receivers who are not that used with anal sex. They only need to communicate properly with their preferred pace and depth. Also, if your giver is on the heavier side, make sure that he’s cautious when resting their weight on you to avoid unnecessary mishaps.

Let your man take over. This intimate position is similar to spooning, but with the giver on top.

How to do it:

• Step 1: Have the receiver lie down on your stomach with legs open.
• Step 2: The giver should get on top of the receiver, facing the same direction. Their knees should be in the same position as they would be when doing the missionary position.
• Step 3: Once everything is settled, the giver can thrust into their partner’s anus.

8Leap Frog

Skill Level: Beginner | What’s nice about this butt sex position is that the arched back angle will help the giver hit the right spot. You can also transition on different positions with Leap Frog easily.

At first, you might think that this position may require some jumping, but don’t worry! The Leap Frog is a simple anal sex position similar to Doggy Style.

How to do it:

• Step 1: The receiver will get down onto their hands and knees, with legs spreading out. They should keep their chest on the bed, arching their back.
• Step 2: The giver will then slowly enter anally from behind while on their knees.

9Laze Around

Skill Level: Beginner | For those who want to take it light and easy, this anal sex position is ideal. All while still receiving such mind-blowing pleasure.

Take bedrotting with this entangling anal sex position that’ll make you want to cancel everything and just stay in bed all day. And oh, the knots seen aren’t as complicated as they look.

How to Do This:

• Step 1: Both of you are lying down, preferably in bed. Your arms are sprawled all over, and your knees are bent.
• Step 2: Your partner pulls in close with their arms, then one of their legs, entangling them on your torso. The other stays straight.
• Step 3: They slowly slide inside you and thrust in and out.

10Burning Man

Skill Level: Experienced | Since the giver has more control, this anal sex position is good for couples who have done it more than once since the giver is already familiar with their partner’s preferred depth and pace. For a hotter experience, the receiver can also turn around and make eye contact with the giver.

If you want to get out of your comfort zone and do the fiery deed away from the bed, this might be the butt play position for you.

How to do it:

• Step 1: Find a sturdy table or sofa that the receiver can lean onto.
• Step 2: The receiver must face the countertop and lay their stomach over it. Make sure that the countertop’s surface is comfortable enough. You can use a pillow or blanket and put it over.
• Step 3: The giver must stand behind the receiver’s back.
• Step 4: Once everything is positioned, the giver can now penetrate from behind.
• Step 5: For the receiver, keep your feet to the ground as it serves as an anchor, in case the giver goes for intense thrusting.

11Pearly Gates

Skill Level: Experienced | It may look simple but there are a lot of things to consider such as the weight of the partner. The giver should also be aware of their partner’s preferred depth and pace since they gets more control over this position.

Pearly Gates is a heavenly position for those who wanted to get extra intimate with their man while getting some backdoor action.

How to do it:

• Step 1: Let the giver lie down on their back, with their legs spread apart and feet steadily planted.
• Step 2: The receiver sits down on top of the giver. After that, they must lie backward.
• Step 3: Once everything is positioned, the giver can now anally enter their partner.
• Step 4: The receiver can then spread your arms out while the giver wraps their arms around the receiver.

12Jockey

Skill Level: Experienced | With this position, the giver should also be aware of their partner’s preferred depth and pace since they gets more control over this position. This position is perfect if the receiver wants a more passive role during the session.

Give your man a wild ride with the Jockey position. This anal sex position is similar to the prone bone. What differs is the giver’s position as he is a kneeled position, taking more control.

How to do it:

• Step 1: The receiver must lie down on the bed. Their legs must be straight and together.
• Step 2: The giver positions on top, with their knees on either side of the receiver’s waist.
• Step 3: The giver then slowly thrust into the receiver’s anus.

13Sandwich

Skill Level: Experienced | Even though this position is similar to missionary, which is a fairly easy position for anal sex, the sandwich requires some flexibility for the receiver and extra strength for the giver, since they is taking mostly the control.

Keep those buns pleasured. The sandwich butt sex position is perfect for those who want to hit the right spot. It also brings extra closeness as you can perfectly make eye contact with this position.

How to do it:

• Step 1: The receiver must lie on their back while the giver is on top with their legs between the receiver.
• Step 2: The giver must push the receiver’s thighs back toward their stomach. This position will raise the receiver’s butt, making it easier for the giver to penetrate.
• Step 3: Once settled, the giver can anally thrust in. For a better experience, the receiver can adjust by spreading their knees. This will make better room for tummies while for women, they can get their clitoris stimulated.

14Butterfly

Skill Level: Experienced | With this position, the giver should also be aware of their partner’s preferred depth and pace since they gets more control over this position. This position is perfect if the receiver wants a more passive role during the session.

Drive each other wild with the butterfly anal sex position. This position is ideal for couples who wanted to have sex outside of the bedroom. But if you prefer doing it in the bedroom, no worries as you can still do this position in the bed. Just make sure that your partner’s penis/strap-on is at or just above the height of the mattress. If the bed is too low, he can kneel instead of standing up.

How to do it:

• Step 1: Find a sturdy table or mattress. The receiver must lie down and scoot toward the edge.
• Step 2: The giver will stand next to the receiver, grabbing their butt from below. They can start thrusting while the receiver’s ankles rest on their shoulders.
• Step 3: For better stimulation, the giver can lift their partner’s butt for better angle. If the receiver’s a woman, the giver can also stimulate her clit for maximum pleasure.

15Deep Impact

Skill Level: Experienced | With this position, the giver should be aware of their partner’s preferred depth and pace since they gets more control over this position. This position is perfect if the receiver wants a more passive role during the session.

Craving for some intense anal sex? This position is best for those who prefer deeper penetration.

How to do it:

• Step 1: The receiver should lie down on their back, pointing their legs toward the ceiling. They can bend it too.
• Step 2: The giver should be on his knees. upright and facing towards the receiving partner.
• Step 3: For the receiver, let your legs rest on the giver’s shoulders– one on each shoulder.
• Step 4: The giver then grabs their receiver’s thighs and holds it tightly.
• Step 5: Start thrusting! Keep the pace slow then slowly amp it up with every thrust.

16Right Angle

Skill Level: Experienced | Extra strength is required for this position since the giver should be able to slightly lift their partner’s hips. The giver should also be aware of their partner’s preferred depth and pace since they gets more control over this position. For a more comfortable experience with the Right Angle, you can place a small pillow beneath the receiver’s butt.

For most anal sex positions, the giver is always leaning or kneeling, but that’s not the case with the Right Angle.

How to do it:

• Step 1: The receiver should lie down on their back, pointing their feet on the ceiling. It doesn’t have to be perfectly straight.
• Step 2: The giver then sits down with his legs open (v-shape). They should be facing down the receiver with their legs on either side of your body. The receiver’s legs should also be resting on the giver’s shoulders– one on each shoulder.
• Step 3: The giver then grabs their partner’s legs and lifts it towards them.
• Step 4: Once everything is positioned, they can start penetrating.

17Netflix Anal Chill

Skill Level: Experienced | The giver should also be aware of their partner’s preferred depth and pace since they get more control over this position. For a steamier experience, you can watch some sexy shows or series to keep the mood.

Wanna get some steamy anal action while watching Henry Cavill on ‘The Witcher’? You’re in for a treat.

How to do it:

• Step 1: Find a sturdy and comfortable couch.
• Step 2: The giver should sit down while the receiver sits down on top of the giver, facing the giver.
• Step 3: The giver then slowly thrust their penis/strap-on into the receiver’s anus. Slowly increase the pace.

18Bulldog

Skill Level: Experienced | Squatting can get uncomfortable as time goes on, so extra strength from the giver is needed. The giver should also be aware of their partner’s preferred depth and pace since they gets more control over this position.

Want your man to get full control? Go wild with the Bulldog anal sex position.

How to do it:

• Step 1: The receiver should get down on their hands and knees, keeping their legs close together.
• Step 2: The giver will then squat right above the receiver and put their hands on your shoulders/waist/hips/hair.
• Step 3: Once the position is all set up, the giver can start thrusting.

19Anvil

Skill Level: Experienced | It requires a bit of flexibility from the receiver since the giver is leaning against their legs. The giver should also be aware of their partner’s preferred depth and pace since they gets more control over this position.

Among the different anal sex positions presented on this guide, Anvil works the best since this sex position provides more access to the bumhole.

How to do it:

• Step 1: The receiver must lie on their back, keeping their legs between them and the giver.
• Step 2: Depending upon the length of the legs, the receiver can rest their ankles to the giver’s chest, shoulders, or head.
• Step 3: Once the position is fully set-up, the giver can start thrusting.

20Bodyguard

Skill Level: Experienced | The giver should be aware of their partner’s preferred depth and pace since they gets more control over this position.

The Bodyguard position is something you would like to try if you want to keep close with your boo. This intimate anal sex position is similar to spooning, but you’re just standing up.

How to do it:

• Step 1: Both the receiver and giver should stand upright, facing in the same direction.
• Step 2: After a long and steamy foreplay, the giver can start penetrating your butt.
• Step 3: For a more passionate experience, the giver can also wrap around their arms around their partner’s body.

21The Double D

Skill Level: Experienced | This position is great for anal sex since both you have full control on the penetration. However, it still needs some coordination for a much enjoyable experience. Make sure the lube is within reach when doing this position.

Do you and your partner want to get penetrated at the same time? Fulfill that fantasy with this frisky anal sex position. All you need is some lubed-up dildos and great coordination for this one.

How to do it:

• Step 1: Suction the two dildos on the floor.
• Step 2: Both partners should kneel in front of each other. Make sure the end of the two dildos are just right on your butthole.
• Step 3: Once the position’s all set, both partners should slowly push their buttholes into the dildos.

22Standing Bicycles

Skill Level: Experienced | There’s a need to have some flexibility, especially for the receiver or whoever is lying down. As for the one standing, they need stability to hold themselves up while also keeping their partner’s leg on their shoulder.

Looks like bicycles aren’t just limited to fitness, especially when this anal sex position guarantees such deep penetration and thrill.

How to Do This:

• Step 1: You lie down on a stable desk or table. Bend your legs as if they’re cycling.
• Step 2: Your partner slides between your legs, grabbing one of your ankles to rest on their shoulder before entering you.
• Step 3: As a bonus, your free leg can wrap around their waist for a more fulfilling and deeper internal sensations.

23The Turtle

Skill Level: Expert | It requires extra strength and flexibility for the receiver. For the giver, they should also be aware of their partner’s preferred depth and pace since they get more control over this position. You can also use a Doggy-Style Position Strap for more comfort.

If you want to try a more challenging version of Doggy Style, you might wanna delve into this sex position.

How to do it:

• Step 1: The receiver should be resting on your knees on the floor or bed. They should then lower themselves downwards so the butt is sitting on top of the back of their ankles.
• Step 2: Next, the receiver should lean as far forward as they can.
• Step 3: The giver should then kneel behind the receiver.
• Step 4: Once everything is set up, the giver can start penetrating their partner’s bum.

24High Chair

Skill Level: Expert | This position can be challenging since you’re doing it in a bar stool. The giver needs to be extra careful when doing this position to avoid their partner falling from the chair.

You might be thinking that it’s impossible to have anal sex on a stool. Well, here’s a butt play position that proves how limitless sex can be.

How to do it:

• Step 1: Find a sturdy high chair/stool. When looking for one, make sure that the chair’s height is just right around the giver’s penis/strap-on.
• Step 2: Place the chair near a wall or kitchen counter top.
• Step 3: The receiver then sits down on the high chair with their butt hanging out over the edge. They should face the wall or counter top as they will use it as support for later.
• Step 4: The giver then stands up behind the receiver and thrust their way onto their partner’s bum.

25The Cross

Skill Level: Expert | This challenging position can be awkward since there’s minimal touching between the giver and receiver. If you want something fun, you can try this one but if you’re looking for something intimate, go for the other anal sex positions in this list.

Wanna try a weird anal sex position? Bring on the backdoor fun with the Cross position.

How to do it:

• Step 1: The receiver should lie on their stomach, with their feet by the end of the bed.
• Step 2: The giver should then lie down on their stomach, on top of the receiver. Their feet should be on one side of the bed and their bodies should form a cross shape (see illustration above for reference).
• Step 3: Once the position is set up, the giver can start penetrating.

26Pump Sex

Skill Level: Expert | For this position, the receiver should have extra strength and flexibility as squatting can be uncomfortable when doing it for quite some time. The giver should also be aware of their partner’s preferred depth and pace since they get more control over this position.

Are you up for some challenging anal sex? Well then, here’s a fun and creative bum sex position for you.

How to do it:

• Step 1: Find a quality sofa/couch for this one. But if you don’t have one, you can still do this on the bed.
• Step 2: The receiver should stand on the couch/bed, facing the backrest. They can then squat, letting their butt hang over the edge.
• Step 3: The giver should be standing behind the receiver, both of them facing the same direction.
• Step 4: Once the position is set up, the giver can start thrusting their penis/strap-on to the receiver. They can wrap their hands around their partner for support.

27See Saw

Skill Level: Expert | This position will be challenging for the receiver as they are going to do most of the work since the giver can’t move that much. If you’re the receiver, make sure you have enough stamina.

Go for something playful. The See Saw Position is a great anal sex position for those who wanted to make intense eye contact with their partner.

How to do it:

• Step 1: The giver must sit down on the bed with his hands behind him to keep themselves upright.
• Step 2: Then, the receiver sits down onto the giver’s lap, facing the giver.
• Step 3: The receiver starts pushing themselves to the giver, slowly pushing in and out of the giver’s penis/strap-on.

28Lap Dance

Skill Level: Expert | This position is pretty easy for the giver since all they need to do is to sit down and support the receiver. However, this will be challenging for the receiver since they are doing most of the work.

Want to take the spotlight and let your man simply enjoy the show? Go for the Lap Dance. This thrilling position is perfect for receivers who have enough stamina to do most of the action.

How to do it:

• Step 1: Let the giver sit down on a comfortable sofa/couch, with their legs wide open.
• Step 2: The receiver can start with an actual lap dance. Add those flirtatious moves in the mix, sis!
• Step 3: Once the receiver’s done with the dance or foreplay, they must sit down on top of the giver, facing the same direction.
• Step 4: The receiver then grabs their partner’s penis/strap-on and guides it into their anus.
• Step 5: The receiver can start pushing their butthole into their partner’s penis/strap-on.

29Poles Apart

Skill Level: Expert | Both partners should coordinate well when doing this position because of this position is pretty unique compared to other anal sex positions.

Opposites do attract with this unusual anal sex position. The Poles Apart is a twisty variant to the spooning position.

How to do it:

• Step 1: The giver must lie down on their back.
• Step 2: The receiver will lie down on top of the giver, facing the same direction. The head of the receiver must be on the giver’s feet, and vice versa (see illustration above for reference).
• Step 3: Once the position is all set, the giver can start thrusting their penis/strap-on to their partner.

30Lotus

Skill Level: Expert | Both partners should coordinate well when doing this position because of this position is pretty unique compared to other anal sex positions. Also, if one or both of you have big tummies, this might not work well.

Get incredibly close. This lotus-like position is great for those who wanted to get super intimate with their partners. Nothing will get you more closer to your partner with a tight hug and some anal penetration.

How to do it:

• Step 1: Have the giver sit down in a crossing legs position.
• Step 2: The receiver then sits on the giver’s lap and wraps their legs around the giver’s hips.
• Step 3: Once situated, the giver can start thrusting, giving some intense eye contact to their partner.

31Viennese Oyster

Skill Level: Expert | If you’ve seen the illustration above, it takes some impressive flexibility to be able to pull that off. The receiver should do other mild anal sex positions first before engaging to this. For the giver, don’t pull your partner’s legs too hard– send your partner to paradise, not in the emergency room.

Wanna go all out? Test yourself or your partner’s flexibility’s skills with the Viennese Oyster position. This position is a fiercer version of missionary and is good for those who want to receive deeper anal penetrations.

How to do it:

• Step 1: The receiver must lay on their back.
• Step 2: For the giver, position in front of the receiver, spread the receiver’s legs while also pulling them backwards.
• Step 3: Once the position is set-up, the giver can now penetrate their partner’s bum.

32Speed Bump

Skill Level: Expert | You need to be extra careful with this as one wrong move and you could both hurt yourself in this position. For the giver, they need to focus on balancing the fitness ball while giving adequate thrusts to their partner.

Do you have an exercise ball lying around? You may wanna try this fun yet demanding butt sex position.

How to do it:

• Step 1: Get a high-quality exercise/fitness ball.
• Step 2: The receiver should lie on their stomach just on top of the exercise ball. The receiver’s legs should be close together.
• Step 3: The giver will position themselves on the receiver’s back, facing the same direction as the receiver. They then must grab the receiver’s waist/shoulders/hips for support.
• Step 4: Once everything is settled, the giver will then enter the receiver’s bum from behind.

33Pile Driver

Skill Level: Expert | Just by looking at the illustration, you can already tell how demanding this position is. For the Pile Driver, both of you need to have extra strength and flexibility to successfully do this position. You shouldn’t also perform this if you or your partner has a weak back.

Want to go all out? This exotic lovemaking position is one of the hardest anal sex positions as it requires extra strength and flexibility on both of you. Are you up for the challenge? Check the steps below.

How to do it:

• Step 1: The receiver must lie down on their back. Next, the receiver must lift their legs in the air.
• Step 2: The giver then grabs the back of the receiver’s ankles and slowly pushes it towards the receiver’s head until the receiver’s back is off the ground.
• Step 3: Then, the giver slightly squats on top of the receiver’s butt.
• Step 4: Once everything is set up, the giver can slowly thrust their way into the receiver’s bum.
• Step 5: If the receiver is a woman, they can also finger their partner’s vagina during the penetration.

34Over-Reclined

Skill Level: Expert | Both partners require a significant amount of physical strength and trust to pull it off. But when they do, it’s so worth it and just shows how adventurous you are at sex.

All you need in this anal sex position is a good quality chair, a table, and a whole lot of trust and patience with one another. Oh, and a strong core!

How to Do This:

• Step 1: Your partner (or whoever has a penis or strap-on dildo) lies down on the table and bends their legs. They place their feet on the adjacent chair for extra support.
• Step 2: With the initial support of the same chair, you sink down to your partner’s length. Your feet are planted on the table, by the hips of your partner, and your arms reach back to hold on to the top rails of the chair.
• Step 3: Once settled, you lean your back further and slowly rock your hips while your partner holds your knees for more stability on your end.

35Backrest

Skill Level: Expert | Especially on the receiver’s end, having flexibility is crucial to executing this sex position effectively.

Sure, the knees are bent here for the receiver. But coordination is also needed when you’re also experiencing pleasure that can make you go head empty.

How to Do This:

• Step 1: Sit in a chair with your back to it and press your legs together.
• Step 2: Place them over the backrest and lean forward with your arms up until where you can.
• Step 3: Your partner sits behind you, then slowly lifts you to carefully situate you on their cock.
• Step 4: Once settled, they wrap their arms around you as they penetrate you from behind.

Anal Sex Tips

Before trying out these anal sex positions, check out these tips first. These tips will amplify your pleasure when doing some rear entry action.

1Communicate first.

As with all types of sexual activity, get your partner’s consent first. If your partner is not ready for anal sex, don’t force it. You can reassure them, give them some beginner-friendly butt plugs to play with but most importantly, let your partner take some time. In the meantime, you try other erotic activities like shower sex or BDSM.

If both of you agreed to do it, you should discuss anal sex with your partner beforehand. Openly communicate your expectations and concerns. Make sure that you’re both on the same page before engaging in this activity. If you’re both inexperienced, you can research together and check what works on both of you.

2Lube it up!

Have a quality silicone-based lube ready before starting the activity. Unlike the hoely vagina, the anus doesn’t self-lubricate. That’s why a silicone-based lube is a must for a comfortable and enjoyable anal sex.

Aside from the penetration, it also helps with foreplay. Just put an ample amount of lube on your hand and start massaging your partner’s body. Make sure you include those cute butt cheeks!

3Do some prepping.

One popular belief with anal sex is that it gets pretty messy. However, it’s not dirty as one might think, as the anus and the lower part of the rectum have little fecal material in them. You can use as simple as warm water for easy cleaning or use an anal douche for a much accurate cleansing.

4Relaaaax…

For first-timers, spend some time relaxing before doing the deed. You can take a hot bath, ask your partner some sensual massage, or any activity that will relax your mind and body. If you’re hesitant and nervous to do it, you’ll have fewer chances that you’ll be successful in doing rear entry action.

5Go for longer foreplay.

Remember, you’re having sex, so there’s no need to rush ala Fast & Furious. You can start with the typical foreplay moves. Play with your partner’s body. Eat each other out. Give sensual massages to each other. By doing more foreplay, you’ll get more aroused and relaxed, making anal penetration so much easier for the receiver.

6Put some love toys in the mix!

For beginners, you can use a beginner-friendly butt plug before fully engaging in anal sex. It helps you familiarize yourself with the sensation.

Meanwhile, those who are used to backdoor fun can be extra frisky with vibrators, clit suckers, nipple clamps, and other sex toys for additional stimulation.

Best Sex Toys to Use During Anal Sex

We can sense your excitement about trying out the anal sex positions above. But before you do just that, here’s a quick guide on the best love toys in the shop that you can use during your backdoor fun! These love toys will provide additional stimulation and even support in certain positions.

1VeDO Yumi Finger Vibe

First on the list is the VeDO Yumi Finger Vibe. This finger vibrator has a tear-drop shape body with a velvet-soft silicone finish. It features 10 pleasurable vibration modes, ensuring to match up your preferred pressure and rhythm. It’s designed with a tiny nub for pinpointed stimulation.

We suggest using it during foreplay; the giver can rub this buzzing toy all over the receiver’s erogenous zones. You can also use this during the penetrative part of the deed; just put it in your partner’s perineum, nipples, or clitoris while thrusting in and out of their bodies.

 

2We-Vibe Match

If you’re engaging in these anal sex positions with a female partner, we highly suggest getting this one! The We-Vibe Match is the perfect pleasure buddy, featuring 10 vibration modes and an ergonomically-designed massager, stimulating your partner’s G-Spot and clitoris with ease and precision.

It also comes with one-button remote control, so if you or your partner wanted to change the vibration modes during the deed, you don’t have to fumble around just to get access to the toy’s buttons.

 

3Lovense Lush Gen 3 App-Controlled Vibrator

Here’s another sex toy that’s perfect for a female partner. Give your receiver the buzzing sensations that they deserve with this hi-tech vibe! The Lovense Lush Gen 3 is packed with powerful vibrations— four times more than your regular love eggs!

You can also control this toy through a mobile app; changing the modes during the deed is easy-peasy. Not only that, but you can also spice up the deed by syncing the vibrations through music— your partner’s definitely going to have a grand time throughout the play.

 

4King Henri Prostate Massager

For our male givers (aka the *tops*), you’ve got to check this out. The King Henri Prostate Massager lets you experience pulsating pleasure in your bum while providing pleasure to your partner at the same time. This sleek massager features a convex point design and powerful vibrations. It even has a flexible tip, ensuring to hit that sweet spot. So for our *top* reader out there, make sure to check this one out.

 

5SVAKOM Primo Warming Vibrator

If you’re looking for an anal toy that comes with unique features, this might be the one that you’re looking for. The SVAKOM Primo Warming Vibrator works both as a vaginal and prostate massager and is controlled via remote. Aside from its versatility, this premium love toy comes with a heating core that can heat the vibrator up to about 100.4°F (38°C). So if you want to experience steamy lovin while doing backdoor fun, go for this one!

 

6Theia Adjustable Nipple Clamps with Tassels

When engaging in anal sex positions, don’t just focus on your receiver’s bum. Make sure that you’re also pleasing their other erogenous zones, such as their nipples. That’s why we highly suggest incorporating nipple clamps on the deed, such as the Theia Adjustable Nipple Clamps.

Whether you’re going for a kinky or vanilla play, you can surely rely on this beginner-friendly device. The clamps are adjustable and are covered with soft material, ensuring your own or your partner’s comfort when wearing it. It also comes in simple yet charming tassel attachments.

 

7Cuff Me Baby BDSM Set

Want to level up your backdoor play? Here’s a must-try toy while engaging in different anal sex positions. The Cuff Me Baby BDSM Set features handcuffs, ankle cuffs, and a leashed collar. These toys are durable, fully adjustable, and designed with a soft lining, ensuring your own or your partner’s comfort. This set is perfect for couples who are just starting out with bondage since it already has some of the set’s basic restraints.

 

8Booty Call Doggy Style Position Strap

Your booty, you call! If you’re looking for extra support on some of the anal sex positions, definitely check out this position strap. It has sturdy handles for a firm and comfortable grip and a soft pelvic cushion in the middle. You can use this to support your back and add some extra power to your thrusts. With this adjustable sex band, doing doggy style-like positions is no longer a challenge.

 

Frequently Asked Questions

As you reach the end of the guide, you’re now fully equipped with the different anal sex positions and butt play tips. But if you still have questions lingering in your mind, we got you covered. We’ve answered some of the frequently asked questions regarding anal sex.

1Do I really have to use lubricant?

Yes, it’s necessary to use a silicone-based or water-based lubricant for your backdoor plays. Unlike the vagina, the anus isn’t self-lubricating. Engaging in anal penetration without a lube can cause the tissue in your anus to tear.

Now, having anal fissures isn’t just painful, but this will also make you susceptible to sexually transmitted infections; the tears create openings that allow infection-causing pathogens to enter your skin.

2Is it safe to use stimulating lubricants during anal sex?

It’s safe to use stimulant sprays that are intended for anal sex. Go for stimulating lubes or sprays that provide cooling sensations, as it relaxes your bum during penetration.

As for numbing creams, we suggest steering away from them. Experiencing pain during bum play is a helpful sign if you should continue the deed or make adjustments. Now, if you don’t feel anything in your anus, then you might end up getting injured as you don’t know if you’re pushing your body past its point of comfort or not.

3What’s the best anal sex position on the list?

With the thirty-one anal sex positions on the list, we get that you may be overwhelmed with the choices. But here’s the thing: the best anal sex position depends on you and your partner.

Every couple has their own preferences; some may like simpler positions like spooning, others may prefer the challenging ones such as the Pile Driver. We suggest that you and your partner take some time to check our guide, list down your preferred positions, and try it out.

4Do I need to poop after anal sex?

Not at all, unless you do feel going to the loo. There’s no reason to force yourself to poop after the deed. Even if your partner ejaculated inside, you don’t have to poop just to get it out. The semen usually just flows right on out as your anus remains expanded for a few minutes after the deed.

5Are condoms still necessary during anal sex?

One of the big misconceptions about anal sex is that condoms aren’t necessary. Most couples, particularly the heterosexual ones, think that since there’s no risk of pregnancy, it’s okay to go bareback.

However, anal sex is still risky as you can still get sexually transmitted infections through it. So unless you’re in a committed monogamous relationship, we suggest still opting for a condom during the deed. Remember, never use the same condom for vaginal and anal penetration!

Anal Play Toy and Lube Recommendations

Now that we shared our favorite anal sex positions, it’s always more fun to spice it up with love toys and lube! Check out our top recos down below.

Takeaway

It’s not too late to explore the back roads. Anal sex offers a unique sensation that you wouldn’t get from any other type of sex.

As long as you’re preparing enough and doing the anal sex positions that work best for you and your partner, taking a backdoor trip will surely bring new and exciting sexperiences.