Disclaimer: This article discusses breeding kink, which means all parties involved are consenting adults. Please keep in mind and be aware that unprotected sex can lead to sexually transmitted infections and unintended pregnancies, so proceed with caution.
Does the thought of carrying your partner’s children rile you up in bed rather than frighten you? Does raw sex make you feel “fuller”? Are you aroused by getting impregnated with the right person? Well, there’s a possibility you have the breeding kink.
Perhaps the riskiest kink in the buffet, this wild kink takes a lot of time and trust before acting it out. Take a deeper dive into the breeding kink and how to play it out through this guide safely.
What Is the Breeding Kink?
Breeding kink is finding attraction or arousal in impregnation. Whether it’s to get pregnant or someone else pregnant, the idea of such makes one very flustered and heated. According to WebMD, this involves one with a penis ejaculating inside a person with a uterus without any protection. However, making that pregnancy happen isn’t included.
It’s more of something that comes up in the moment, where the person penetrating mumbles, “I want you to carry my kids,” which urges the one penetrated to agree and reach their highs. No fear of permanent outcomes; just pure, raw sexual pleasure. It’s an act that involves a lot of power play; dominance and submission between partners wherein one deems worthy carrying the offspring of the dominant. Objectification is also included in this kink. It’s where the submissive serves as the “cum dump” or sex toy of the dominant.
There’s no given origin of this kink, but it’s commonly found as a kink in fanfiction on sites like archive of our own and Tumblr. Tiktok also played a role in making this kink more widespread, breaking a lot of silence of undercover kinksters and discussing it in informative or entertaining ways.
Although this kink can be forced consensual-nonconsensual, that’s not the focus here. Again, we value the importance of consent and safety between partners before doing anything risky.
Why Do People Have This Kink?
The breeding kink may or may not be for the liking of everyone’s taste, though it can’t halt one’s curiosity as to why it’s enthralling. Because of that, here’s our list of top reasons behind the risque interest in this kink.
1 They enjoy the thrill of doing risky things.
Quick to conclude for most people. There’s an adrenaline rush in embarking on escapades (or sexcapades rather) that are taboo or challenging to accomplish, like public sex or threesomes. This same rush applies to the breeding kink, wherein the possibility of getting knocked up entices the couple to intensify their sexy time. They can care less about the consequences; as long as there’s having a good time in bed, that’s all that matters.
2 Some people get excited at the thought of pregnancy.
In today’s society, this can vary when many other factors (pro-life, global environmental crisis, personal choices, etc.) are involved. However, unless it’s with a long-term partner, it’s possible to get giddy about the concept. The idea of being bound together with a child while doing the deed makes orgasm more powerful; the more you’ll clench around your partner without them pulling out consensually. Plus, it’s like a huge step in one’s relationship if the topic of kids escalates without the intention of actually procreating them (yet).
3 It makes a couple more intimate and committed to each other.
The breeding kink often requires raw yet clean sex, so the couple has heightened intimacy. It’s because they trust each other to do the deed in that way, even if there’s a sense of vulnerability that they fear. Then again, they chose each other to embark on risks. Breeding kink is a lot about risk, so whatever happens, they want to be together no matter what. Though as much as possible, children are out of the question. This also includes LGBTQIA+ relationships!
4 There’s that animalistic sense of ownership partners like.
Because breeding involves power play, having ownership or feeling territorial towards your partner is a given. It drives one wild when people make a move on their partner, so they want to prove to them that they belong to you by “carrying their child”. On the submissive’s end, it shows how committed you are to this person that you’d take it to that level (but not really). A child is the main product of a close-knit couple, and others can’t dare touch you if they want trouble.
It’s also a hot feeling when you’re already doing the deed, and instead of your partner pulling out, you tell them to ejaculate inside (consensually). You’d tell them, “Fill me up.” They go crazy because there are many risks if you’re not wearing protection and not pulling out on time. It gives off the “You’re mine, and I’m yours” kind of vibe everyone wants to experience in their lives.
5 This kink is the root cause of one’s best sexual experiences.
Kinks are there to spice things up in the bedroom and challenge one’s sexual stamina. For some people, playing around with the breeding kink gives them their most memorable sexcapades. Whether they see their partner’s discharges leaking out of their hole and reinserting it or using vulgar language (examples to be given later on), this kink skyrockets them to their o’s. Because once you enjoy an aspect of sex, you’ll definitely redo it when you can.
Safe Play Ideas To Try With This Kink
You might think it’s ironic to insert safety and breeding kink in the same sentence because you’re doing the deed raw. However, we must make sure to get tested clean by the medical authorities before embarking on this kink. Safety here is used to make the breeding kink experience enjoyable without anyone getting hurt. Keep reading to take mental notes on what play ideas you can do with the breeding kink.
1 Embark on the honeymoon night roleplay.
Weddings are one thing, but it’s the honeymoon where you can get really intimate with your partner. In most religions, consummation is a tradition to signify a union between the virgin newlyweds. On most occasions, it’s unprotected sex. But even if you’re not religious, nothing like sensual honeymoon love-making can go wrong. We suggest going the extra mile by taking a vacation or staycation with this chill scenario. The scenario can play out like:
You are stripped of your wedding gown and left in your undergarments while your partner is also down to their undergarments. Get closer to each other and start off with a simple kiss, hands roaming all over your body until you both plop on the bed. You or your partner can be on top as you slowly discard the rest of your clothing until you’re both bare.
Take your time with the foreplay, from making out to oral sex to get each other aroused and prepared. Once you’re both reached peak arousal (being hard and/or wet), do the deed missionary style so it’s easy to penetrate and you can see each other better. Your partner can roam their hands all over your body, maybe to your tummy area, wherein they can whisper, “I’ll knock you up with my baby tonight” or “bet you’d look good carrying my child” before they slide right inside you. Don’t rush this moment until you’re ready to go hardcore, wherein they can be rough with their actions and words while you take all of it.
And when you reach your highs, they keep their clean discharges inside you, then practice aftercare. Don’t forget to take the after pill the next day for safety.
2 Play around with petnames and dirty talk.
Ah, yes. These words and phrases can make or break the mood, making it a crucial aspect. But don’t worry, we may have given you a few examples in the previous point. And if you like them, we’ll give you more ideas you can say while getting it down.
Examples of Phrases:
- Breed me, daddy!
- Who’s my little breeding toy?
- I’m ready for your sperm.
- I want your offspring.
- I bet you’re desperate to be filled by me permanently, hmm?
- My little slut just wants to be round and full by me.
- Open up, my breeding bitch.
- Are you ready for my knot?
- So sensitive. So aroused to get knocked up by me?
- You’re not leaving tonight without a baby inside you.
3 Try the royal arranged marriage roleplay.
An arranged marriage is a way for two nations to connect, prosper, and extend their power over various lands. However, it comes at the price of the individual happiness of the couple. Most arranged marriages have no love or affection, but more of a sense of duty. It can also lead to immense hatred towards each other because of their misery.
However, there comes a time when they need to think of the future by procreating future heirs. So the couple, whether they feel nothing or absolute hatred for each other, must do their duties to reassure a future for their people.
Decide on who plays the king or queen. There is no need for fancy costumes, but something resembling undergarments at the time to fit the scenario. Whoever the king is, they take charge by initiating the first move on the queen. It’ll be fitting to insert other kinks, depending on the royal pair’s relationship.
Do they hate each other? Use degradation and try different positions to show the innocent queen’s slut side wherein “only your king gets to know how much of a breeding slut you are”.
They’re platonic or slowly in love? Use praise and keep your positions simple, sharing reassuring words like “You’re taking my cock so well, I can’t wait for you to carry and birth my heirs”.
4 Use sex toys.
Breeding kink can also work for singles, thanks to sex toys! As they constantly advance, more sexual needs are answered. Even if the breeding kink involves ejaculation, you can still do raw sex with sex toys without risks! Some toys we recommend using our dildos (for those with a vulva) and fleshlights (for those with a penis).
5 Engage in bad boy-good girl roleplay.
A classic! Very diverse ways to play this out, and you can even switch roles! But for now, you can act as the good girl while your partner is the bad boy, your boyfriend. This scenario can go around like:
You’re ready to lose your virginity after being with your significant other for a long time. All the talks about sex from your friends left you curious, and even if some didn’t like your significant other, it didn’t matter. They don’t see their kindness and warmth because of their bad deeds and vices, plus they’re selective to show that side to you only. You can be at their place, getting work done or unwinding after a long day.
In need of relief, you’d cuddle up to them, then let them initiate the first kiss. They hover over you, and they usually stop when they feel it’s too much. But you’d let them continue until homerun, and once both your clothes are off, their automatic response would be to put a condom on. Since it’s your “first time”, they want to be careful. Oh, how they’re wrong when you tell them not to because “I want to feel all of you”. That boosts their ego, especially knowing the consequences.
Because it drives them crazy that the good, smart girl doesn’t care about the risk of pregnancy, raw sex is their way to prove that they belong to each other only. No matter what happens, it’s still them ending up together in the end. And ooh, them releasing their orgasm inside you is thrilling!
6 Try sexting or sexual video-calling.
Let’s not miss out on our long-distance couples! Breeding kink can be acted upon on through sexting, getting vulgar with your words that make your partner lose their minds. It’s extra spicy when you text them at work, where their professionalism and composure are compromised.
With sexual video calls, make sure you’re both in private spaces. Whether you use toys or your hands, the camera must be focused on your private parts. Order each other around how to touch yourselves, uttering words like the dirty talk we mentioned above. It’s time to be creative because no distance can stop you from having sex!
7 Try the alien abduction roleplay.
If you’re both into the breeding kink and sci-fi, this roleplay is a win-win for you! It’s between an alien and their human subject they kidnapped from Earth, wherein they’re eager to procreate hybrid creatures. Basically, half alien, half human babies to experiment and see how they’ll act once they’re brought to the world. Roles can be interchangeable, and the catch is that procreating is the only way of escaping these aliens. Use it wisely, and have fun!
8 Watch porn.
Watching porn is perfect for visual learners of sex. So if your interest and curiosity for the breeding kink intensify, consuming this material is a good starter. You can learn more about the kink and pick up new tricks to try. Some of the latter you can consider are creampies, which is another way to call unprotected sex without pulling out, and cum-dumping, wherein your partner dumps the discharges of their orgasm on any part of your body (your genitalia especially).
9 Act out an omegaverse roleplay.
Originating from the TV show Supernatural, the Omegaverse is a type of erotic fiction that follows a hierarchy of wolves. Categorized from Alphas, Betas, and Omegas, gender doesn’t matter as well. Alphas are at the top of the pyramid as the most powerful, betas as humans meant as the peacemakers, and omegas are at the lowest of the pyramid subjected to be submissive towards their Alpha.
In this roleplay, there should be one alpha and one omega. A scenario that can play out here is that the omega is going through heat season, where they are the most fertile and well, horniest. To help them ease the stress, they can have a partner to mate with. It can be an Alpha, who can easily smell their scent during this time and get aroused. Thus, mating is unavoidable. And by reaching their orgasms, the Alpha “knots”, or the gland that’s responsible for impregnating an omega.
“Let me fill you up with pups.”, they can say afterward.
10 Join a sex party.
Either as a single or with a consenting partner, sex parties allow you to explore your kinks and fetishes more. By meeting people with the same sexual interests as you, you unleash another side of yourself you may have never known. As long it’s safe and consensual, attending these events should entice your sexual being more.
Tips to Remember
So you got the play ideas, but hold on to your seats! Before embarking on anything, we have a few vital tips to keep in mind to ensure you and your partner’s safety in this risky kink.
Communicate constantly with your partner when incorporating new kinks into your sex life. Study this kink together, and voice your opinions about it to have transparency and honesty. Consent is crucial for your protection and safety, so make sure you give each other such before doing anything.
Discuss your limits. With the breeding kink, most couples don’t use protection during the act, and either rely on the after pill or one’s pull-out game. Talk about your respective ins and outs when you try this kink out in the future, figuring out how far you’ll go and where not to cross the line.
Get tested beforehand! This kink mainly involves unprotected sex since that’s how impregnation works. However, that’s not the goal, and having unprotected sex can lead to STDs and STIs. So to avoid that, make sure you and your partner are clean through testing.
Dress the part! Especially when this kink involves fantasy roleplaying, it’s another way to further get into character. So whatever roleplay you pick from our play ideas, purchase the needed clothes and props and match with your partner!
Lastly, include other kinks in the mix! Breeding kink can be loving and intimate, so playing around with praise kink heightens the said intimacy. It can also be rough and harsh, so inserting the degradation or corruption kink maximizes sexual pleasure on both ends.
Frequently Asked Questions
Still have some curiosity about this kink? Not to worry, we answered some common inquiries about the breeding kink to help you build your sexual knowledge.
1 What’s the difference between breeding kink and pregnancy fetish?
Breeding kink focuses on the idea of the process of getting pregnant, aka doing the deed without protection. The pregnancy fetish highlights the already pregnant women and their traits (protruding belly, fuller breasts, pregnancy glow, etc).
2 So wait, same-sex or LGBTQIA+ couples can engage in this kink?
Yes! Since pregnancy isn’t the main goal here, this kink spices things up in the bedroom. The sense of belonging and further being cuffed to each other with a child hastens and strengthens their orgasms.
3 Is this a beginner-friendly kink?
Nope. This kink requires a lot of trust and knowledge from your partner, so it’s best to try this when you’re more experienced or have a long-term partner (strings or no strings attached).
4 Isn’t the breeding kink a part of human nature?
It depends on the person. Some people may view sex as a means to procreate, while others see it as an activity for pleasure. Like yes, those with a breeding kink may be captivated by the idea of having a child at that moment. But after the deed is done, it doesn’t cross their mind anymore. It’s merely to assert dominance or submission to their partner.
5 Are there men who also get aroused at the idea of getting pregnant?
Yes! There are no physical limits when it comes to the breeding kink.
The breeding kink is exhilarating to try and get away with, but only the courageous ones can embark on it. Because it takes a lot of guts and trust, most people would reject it. However, like other kinks, practicing safety rules can protect you from getting sick or injured. So good luck if you have yet to give this kink a go, and have fun!